Does she not respect me as her Father? I don't know why she would shame our family in this way. I sent her to the best schools and introduced her to prominent friends of mine and now this is what I get ? I plan to disown her publicly so to distance our family from her irrational decision she has made to be with this dark man.
2007-02-23 16:47:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I THOUGHT YOU SAID THAT YOU HAVE A FILIPINO WIFE.SO,YOU HAVE TO DISOWN YOURSELF TOO.YOU ARE THE RULE MODEL OF YOUR DAUGHTER.SO,THAT'S DAUGHTER LIKE FATHER!!!!
2007-02-24 11:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by misia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so sad. It breaks my heart. My Beautiful Daughter has 2 of the most wonderful beautiful children that have different Black fathers. My Daughter is very White. Imagine what I would of lost out on if I would of not accepted her choice of color.I love those 2 children as much as I loved my own kids. They are the joy of my middle age. I wish I could show you pictures of how beautiful they are.
You sound like a mean little man and don't deserve to have a daughter let alone grandchildren anyway. She is better off without you and your mean snobby friends and family. She should disown you publicly for being an ****** and distance herself.
I always believed the Blacks were exaggerating about the prejudices in America. Guess I was wrong.
I just shake my head at people like you because your type disgust me.You are the kind of people that will hurt my Grandchildren and for that I detest you!!!!!
2007-02-23 17:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
She's only concerned for you. As long as she includes you in her plan, you need not get anxious or depressed, esp in your condition. Learn to take things easy and not try to put a reason behind everything. If opportunities arise, then do whatever you can to lend a hand. If not, don't fret. Just enjoy her wedding. Wish her well. Give her your blessings. Give her a hug! Buy her wedding gifts. And keep telling yourself to smile. Be happy. Stay in touch with her after the wedding. But within her comfort zone. Don't impose. If you feel a bit lonely, get pets like dogs. Join a club. Make friends. Form a mini community of your own. As long as she is happy, you don't have to do anything extra. Sometimes the less you do, the better both parties will grow closer together. It's the irony of life. Good luck.
2016-05-24 04:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "dark man". Like indian (I'm indian), or hispanic, or african or what? Don't discriminate against anyone. It is your daughter's choice as to what she wants to do with her life. If she is happy, you should be happy. You sound like a decent dad (you sent her to the best schools) so what would disowning her accomplish for you? She's your daughter and she will always be. If you try to distance her from your family, you will completely destroy your relationship with her. Your daughter most likely does respect you--she may not show it, however. You shouldn't think she is shaming your family by making a decision that you don't approve of. Talk to her and see how she feels.
2007-02-23 16:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
President Marcos the more you try to control your daughter the further you are pushing her away. Stop being racist and evil because you'll be hurting yourself with this ignorance. You need to make amends with your daughter and respect her decision even if you don't agree. Seems to me you take your daughter for granted and as a parent you are suppose to provide your children with the best of everything. That's called good parenting... How dare you be so selfish as to disown her because she took control of her life. Bravo for your daughter! You have no idea or concept of what you are missing out on when you choose to make such an irrational decision. Your daughter is definitely reaping all the rewards of being happy and living a great life with someone she loves. Your daughter does respect you but you need to learn to respect her so you can build on your father and daughter relationship. My advice to you is to seek counseling for yourself because it quite obvious you have a lot of issues to deal with. Life is way to short for you to have so much anger and resentment try letting some go. Don't forget to count your small blessings! I'm going to say a prayer for you...
2007-02-24 02:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Aphreakywuman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you with any sense of pride write this here for the general public to witness your small mindedness and horrifically racist views. I would say unless you become a better father and role model, your daughter should stay far away. I feel sorry for you, because you are full of bigotry. It seems you have done very well with your daughter, she has left a family that is unaccepting and small minded. You do not deserve respect till you remove your white pointed hat.
2007-02-23 20:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...imagine that! She attended the BEST schools and you introduced her to all your prominent friends and she STILL disrespected you by falling in love with a "dark skinned man." Wow -- I've NEVER heard of THAT happening here in America! Oh, and the publicly disowning her part? Yeah...that will certainly endear her to you and make her want to respect you more. GET OVER YOURSELF and love your daughter for who she is. If she's over the age of 18 she doesn't have to do what you want anymore. Oh, and another thing...LOVE IS COLORBLIND!!!!
2007-02-23 16:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky L 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good for her. The faster she gets away from you, the better her chances of being a happy, loved woman. You should be ashamed for yourself for being such a narrow-minded imbecile. Did it never occur to you that giving her the best education is probably what taught her what a backwards, ignorant little person you are? I hope she marries the guy and has lots of "dark" children, to show you how to raise a loving modern family.
2007-02-23 17:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Angela M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all...she is not shaming you!!!! She is being a woman and fortunatly one who does not see someone for their color but for who they are! How dare you even think of disowning her. I don't care who my son is with I will NEVER turn my back on him! Just because he has dark skin does not mean he is a bad person. I am white and some of the wost boyfriend I have had were white. Don't judge!
2007-02-24 06:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by scootkat84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Its ashamed that you as her father feels like that.her attended the best school,introduced to prominent friends,Its just a shame racist is in your heart . and to disown your daughter. she made her decision .to fall in love with a man.that she loves..and he is a man not a dark man.....(.He a man )..she cares for and .its sad to know you can't respect her decision...
2007-02-23 17:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. Come On.. Love is blind.. I think she can make her own decision.. Don't be a racist... See, people hate racists... My dad is also a racist, and I hate him being one..
I understand that you have many expectations on her, you've given all you have for her.. but did you do it for her or for yourself? If you really love her, you should let her go after her own dream, and make her decisions and be happy.. Stop making decisions for her.. Today, good school don't teach their student to be a racist.. Hey, let's make peace in this world
Anyway, how old is your daughter?
2007-02-24 00:00:59 · answer #11 · answered by Pianoholic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋