Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

2007-02-23 18:13:13 · 5 answers · asked by aryanne 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm planning...somthing :]

2007-02-23 18:12:08 · 24 answers · asked by Phi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After 15 years of marriage....and been a faithful wife all these years, finally i discover that my hubby is having an intimate affair with his married colluege. And its been going on for years.
I really feel betray.
When i confront him, he tell me everything and told me that the affair had ended since last December. And when i ask him to divorce me..... he wont but promise me that he will not repeat the mistake. Should i give him another chance?But i still cant forget what he have done to me.

Recently..... i get to know someone online.... and we started to chat everyday and i feel that we can get along well.
He is a married guy tho. Should i con't with the new found relationship or better prevent it before it messed out the situation?
Please leave me some advice. Thanks.

2007-02-23 18:12:02 · 41 answers · asked by LadyHeart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Even though he just came home drunk and was being an jerk earlier? I was pretty mad before but he looks so vulnerable right now.

2007-02-23 18:10:58 · 29 answers · asked by maggielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 18:10:06 · 19 answers · asked by Black_Sabbath 2 in Singles & Dating

I haven't talked to my dad in almost a year 1/2 because he sent me an email making it quite clear he wanted nothing to do with my family or me ever again. As it was he already had weaseled out of child support and I only saw him a couple of times a year in holidays. He moved to Wagga with my stepmum (who is also evil) to aggravate my mum because he knew he could get at her best by making me upset. I still saw him for a few years before this happened but now I don't want to ever be a part of this losers life. He did this to my twin half brothers for 2 and a half years and it took my mum that whole time of pleading to convince him to talk to them again. He never apologised and they try to stay out of this because they don't want it to happen again. He does this to the kids he "loves" to get at his exes...had a rough childhood and my theory is that he had all feeling drilled out of him so does whatever he wants and feels no one elses pain, only that to his pride. Should I contact him?

2007-02-23 18:09:15 · 8 answers · asked by Bambi 2 in Family

we been friends 2 second grade and now were in 9th grade but she moved to oregon and i moved to alaska and one day i was mad because we moved 2 alaska on my birthdate and i didnt got to see my friends before i left and then my father told me that he doesnt want me in his house no more and it really hurted 2 hear it coming from him and then i left my grandma and grandpa which i been living with my whole life and i was sad, depress,mad at the same time and then i check 2 see my myspace and i was sure my friend would be the first one saying happy-bday but she didnt she didnt have me on her top 8 or she didnt even metion me on her profile while she metion her other friends that she made for only a couple of months and she acted if they were her best friend since 2 grade but they werent and she left me out on everything and so on tat day i was on myspace and she didnt left me a comment and i toldhersomeregretingthingsandtheni realizetatididsomethingstupidsoicallher2saysorrybutiguessimessup

2007-02-23 18:08:44 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

i kinda wanna ask a friend of mine to prom so we can go together just as friends. nothing more. shes a really cool person to be around and i think it would be fun to go w/ her but i need a way to ask her w/o just saying "will u go to prom w/ me?" any ideas? it doesnt have to be super creative or romantic i just dont want to be plain and boring.

2007-02-23 18:08:12 · 9 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Singles & Dating

I work with a great guy. Yes, I like him - like him! I always feel more at ease if he's even in the building. If he's off, or leaves early...I notice my "bubble" is deflated. Is it love, lust, or something else?

2007-02-23 18:08:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 18:07:31 · 7 answers · asked by havefunwithmebadgirls 1 in Friends

We are getting know each other since 6 years ago. We love each other but there's a stop point block our love growth smoothly. We are born from 2 different family where she from wealthy one but i'm just an ordinary son. We can't have any commitment and no improvement at our relationship due to the pressure from her family. I can't even discuss about the family topic between us. Else, she will surrender and rather to sacrifice our relationship even we believe the we are love each of us very much. What should be our future? I am much confuse and frustrated and seek for kind advice.

2007-02-23 18:05:09 · 4 answers · asked by fedel 1 in Singles & Dating

Tonight i went out to one of my fave bar's with some friends and my crush well i had a lilttle buzz goin on so i was feeling good. Anyways 2 older male guys came and asked me for my # and kept callin me baby , Anyways my crush was like hey man thats my sister and i dont like that your tryin to get her # if you dont leave her alone ima hit ya. Well one guy came back talkin to me so my crush put his arm around me tellin him to back off so they did. Is this bad that he called me his sister , he said that he would say that i was his wife but we didnt have rings, Did he get jelous or what?

2007-02-23 18:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 18:04:50 · 2 answers · asked by shadycaliber 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

You are born, then you struggle through school, then you work the rest of your life struggling for enough money, then you are too old to enjoy your retired years, and then you; DIE.

Please Tell me the point of life

2007-02-23 18:04:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not asking because I am young and want to get married. I am just curious about what people think in general.

2007-02-23 18:04:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been happily married for a few years. We have a seven month old, and didn't have sex at all for 8 mos. of the pregnancy. She said she didn't feel sexy and didn't want to be touched, and although I tried to make her feel sexy I didn't press the issue. After the birth, we didn't have sex for five months, and when we talked about it, she still had issues with her body and some pain from the c-section. Finally when we did, she had pain and some bleeding, for which she's seen a doctor. He didn't find anything, and it's not a lack of lube. I am trying to be sympathetic, but it's been a month and a half now, and she's not willing to give oral (normally not an issue but it seems like a good solution if pain is really the issue) and I feel like if the roles were reversed, I would endure a little pain every once in a while for her. I feel like she's not placing any importance on my needs, am I being reasonable? I just want to find a solution that works for both of us, but so far...

2007-02-23 18:03:47 · 16 answers · asked by Killer B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this senior (i'm a junior) but the class we had together just ended-- but in the class we didn't interact much with eachother at all anyways. It's already second semester meaning in a couple more months he's gonna be off at college. I'm really shy and its really hard for me to approach people, but I don't want to miss my chance. What do i do??? Please keep in mind that i am REALLY shy.

2007-02-23 18:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a recently divorced mother of one. my son is 15 and i found out that his friends consider me a milf...i cant help but soak it up since the divorce its been quite the ego boost...have any ohter mothers here played it up a little ..nothing drastic like cute shorts and a top just cause you like the attention?

2007-02-23 18:02:35 · 4 answers · asked by fieldofdreams4697 1 in Friends

my boyfriend got mad cause I take my brother to work everyday, he is18 and this is his first job, my bf thinks he should ride the city bus, I don't think theres nothing wrong with him riding the bus, But im at home why cant I take him if I want too, I love my brother and its only two of us. How can I tell him he's wrong withoutstarting an arguement?

2007-02-23 18:01:58 · 13 answers · asked by jatir 1 in Family

see this guy is going to ask me something, which will have a HUGE impact on my life. its a yes or no answer question. i have had a month to think about this. that whole month i was totally for it, i knew i was going to say yes, without even questioning it. but than just yesterday a totally weird feeling came. it only lasted a second, but in that second the feeling took over. it was saying "I HAVE to say no" it was so strong! than that feeling was gone.

should i say yes- which was what i was wanting to say for a month
or should i say no- where which that totally strong second told me to

?????

2007-02-23 18:01:37 · 17 answers · asked by =]] 1 in Singles & Dating

G/F recently broke it off after a year relationship. There were some issues that we worked through, but the last few months were hard. She broke it off, wanted to work on things then eventually broke it off to concentrate on herself. She cares for me alot and always says so. Now, of course we don't talk as much but I definitely do think about her alot and she does call me to an extent to see how I am doing. But right now, the problem I am dealing with is with me. When it started going on the rocks, I normally start talking to all the girls I used to before hand and now I have been talking to this one girl whom I met and we text all the time and another one who wants to see me tomorrow night to drink and have a good time. Now I used to be an alcoholic and recently since everything else has been going on, I have started to drink more...my thing is, I don't want to go down this same path and sleep with girls to forget about her...but the offers are VERY tempting.

2007-02-23 18:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And why!!!

2007-02-23 18:00:53 · 15 answers · asked by Benji 5 in Singles & Dating

He is going through a divorce and has had a casual relationship with my friend the last several months. The 3 of us go out all the time and he is constantly flirting with me, touching me, buying me drinks, etc. At first I would get mad and tell her to say something to him but she is not that type of girl to speak up. Eventually I started to realize that I missed him when I didnt see him and I hate myself for feeling this way. I have never had this happen to me. He is a big flirt and very fun to be around so it is possible that this is only one sided, but another friend of mine went out with us and said she caught him all night staring at me and could tell he was just as into me. I have been honest with my friend (his gf) and told her I have a crush on him and that I think he is sexy as hell. How do I know if he is really into me or if he is just having fun? I have liked him since the first day I met him..at that point his gf (my friend) was dating him and another guy. Please help!

2007-02-23 18:00:39 · 5 answers · asked by kricket 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a recently divorced mother of one. my son is 15 and i found out that his friends consider me a milf...i cant help but soak it up since the divorce its been quite the ego boost...have any ohter mothers here played it up a little ..nothing drastic like cute shorts and a top just cause you like the attention?

2007-02-23 18:00:21 · 23 answers · asked by fieldofdreams4697 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a specific way off worship. We don't believe in the bible or any other cult. My parents are christian. How do I have a ceremony that is not untrue to my believes and that will not hurt my parents?

2007-02-23 17:59:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

there is this guy that i have known since we were little and we never liked eachother when we were little but he got cute and funny as he got older but how do i know he is not going to use my liking him as another prank on me? it wuold be better if he didn't like then for him to say he did and break my heart so should i act on my fealings and tell him or forget about it?

2007-02-23 17:59:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do girls like guys to be hair free?

2007-02-23 17:58:18 · 18 answers · asked by Alan W 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am average sized but in the last several years, I've been admiring (in an "I wish I had breasts like that" kind of way) other women's larger breasts. My husband doesn't even really pay a lot of attention to mine and I don't know if I should be offended or not. And yes, he knows I love him to "pay attention" to them. Could it be that he doesn't find them attractive or am I paranoid? And as far as the men that just LOVE breasts, WHY? LOL I know this sounds serious and I do want answers but I ask this in a very lighthearted manner!! ;-)

2007-02-23 17:57:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriends ex is calling him and IM him again after he ignored her and she stoped talkiing to him for the longest time and now she is back at stocking him again and calling and everything what can u do to get her to leave him alone and to lose his number and name

2007-02-23 17:56:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do if you feel lonely?, like if you are missing a special person? How to avoid thinking such person, and out of your mind?

2007-02-23 17:56:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating