I like this senior (i'm a junior) but the class we had together just ended-- but in the class we didn't interact much with eachother at all anyways. It's already second semester meaning in a couple more months he's gonna be off at college. I'm really shy and its really hard for me to approach people, but I don't want to miss my chance. What do i do??? Please keep in mind that i am REALLY shy.
2007-02-23 18:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it. you have nothing to loose, but a lot to win. since your shy try to talk to him just as a friend, or just ask him something that you two have in common and find a way for you to talk. once you are his friend, tel him. if you are afraid of how he might react, then write him a letter, and give it to him yourself. then go away, and tell him to call you or IM you. but if you feel ready just go up to him and tell him how you feel.
2007-02-24 04:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy can be a difficult situation when you want to start a relationship. A good way to start a relationship with him is to start a friendship with him first. It will be difficult, but try going up to him and having a conversation with him as friends, not as if you want something more than that, even though you do. If you are to afraid to do that then you could always ask a friend to help you, you could both sit down and talk to him, or you could have your friend just tell him that you like him for you. That is the best advise that I can give to you, but I wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-24 02:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by sunshineangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i believe that, If ur a shy kind of girl & u really have feelings for him & u cant approach him & tellhim directly than the best thing is u can write it down in a letter or email about ur feelings toward him & may be, if he also has the same feeling than u can be lucky! But i believe that, its bettert, u meet him personally to discuss such kind of matter, becoz its very important to know his feeling for you, before u go ahead with ur feelings, so all the best & try this out !
2007-02-24 02:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by optimistic29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so you say you are really shy...So if you arent ever gonna talk to him then you WILL LOSE YOUR CHANCE. plain and simple. What advice can we give you....the only thing that you can do is walk up to him and ask him would he maybe like to go out some time. And whats the worst that is gonna happen. He will say no. And if he does then whatever. At least you wont have to wonder about it later on.
2007-02-24 02:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by sexycat_1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to college?? Forget it---he won't want anything to do with you while he's away at school--too many other girls to meet---or maybe school work will be so tough he won't be able to date you or anyone---school is his future--and it should be to you, too.As for approaching guys--why are you doing the approach--a little pushy, isn't it??--if a guy wants you to go out--he should ask. And being shy is just plain childish--stand up, smile, walk tall, and say " hello" ---the rest is easy. If you don't try you'll be left out in life---life is a gamble--a 50/50 chance--yes or no--so get with it and get self confidence on your side---You have another year of school--get to the books and stop worrying about guys--they will always be around later on.No one likes a dumb girl--so study hard. Smile, have fun and good luck
2007-02-24 02:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you may find out the opportunity to mix up with him. example any function that could click you and him together. Of course, find a friend to accompany you in the activity and you will not feel shy in chatting with your admire one. Point here is action in group and could reduce the tension towards your admire one. Next, may try to get contact with him for the purpose of " friend " such as MSN messeger, yahoo messeger or even the mobile number.
2007-02-24 02:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by fedel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him, say hi introduce yourself. Make a mental list of some icebreakers, and go down that list until you hook him into a conversation. Then if you feel comfortable ask him if he wants to have lunch with you sometime. guys like that, you cant be shy if you dont want to miss this chance.
2007-02-24 02:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by alex77055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how exactly how you feel, I am also really shy. If I were you then I would ask him a question about the class that you guys had together. =)
2007-02-24 02:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know where his locker is put a note in there telling him that you really dig him and you would like to know if the 2 of you can hang out sometime.
You'll never know unless you ask. Sometimes its best to break out of that shell and realize that your worth making the attempt for.
Good Luck
2007-02-24 02:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all or nothin...hes leaving and well shy or not just step up and do it!! you have absolutely nothing to lose.....because if hes rude to you...you wont ever have to see him again!!! And if he is cool about it...well then i am sure he will look at you in a totally different light than he would if you have your friends do it or write him a letter!!! ya know what i mean.....
2007-02-24 02:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Tara S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋