Should i continue complicated love with her?

Question

We are getting know each other since 6 years ago. We love each other but there's a stop point block our love growth smoothly. We are born from 2 different family where she from wealthy one but i'm just an ordinary son. We can't have any commitment and no improvement at our relationship due to the pressure from her family. I can't even discuss about the family topic between us. Else, she will surrender and rather to sacrifice our relationship even we believe the we are love each of us very much. What should be our future? I am much confuse and frustrated and seek for kind advice.

Answer 1

''complicated'' love is never a good sign. i should know.. because i just filed for divorce. i thought.. ''we love each other so everything else won't matter...'' it just doesn't work that way. especially when you don't have the luxury of your families together and ''catching your backs'' when you have a disagreement or whatever, it makes it much more difficult to get through things. also.. sad to say... but different status families have different lifestyles, budgets, all sorts of things.. that can also be a sore spot. good luck!

Answer 2

There really isn't any future here as long as she is going to give into her family. I'm not saying that the two of you don't love each other but her family is always going to look down on you thinking that your not good enough for her.

If your willing to put up with alot of crap for what you want then go for it.

Answer 3

Be confident and work on improving yourself.

If she stays with you on this course, she'll make a good partner.

If she goes back, wake up and continue with your life. If she is not strong enough to support you mentally now, She will not able to do it in future and many complications will arise.

Answer 4

True love can move mountains. If she is willing to sacrifice your love for each other for the family.... then truly it isn't true love.