Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

the first time i asked her out , she said "im not looking for a bf , sorry"( 3-4 months ago)...recently i have found out that she is acting different around me ...should i ask her out again ?would i bug her if i ask her out again? and im aslo afraid that she says no again...im really confused...what do u think ? what is the best thing i can do? thanx alot !

2007-02-23 19:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

Guys are so damn confusing. He was so friendly, helping me without me asking questions and I helped him as well. The next day he did not even bother to help me at all, I could tell by his body language. We sit next to each other in Math class very close. This time he looked like he did not want to be near me. I wanted to ask him something, but it felt like he had a wall between him. It's not the first time he has done this to me. Why does he do this?

2007-02-23 19:08:26 · 7 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 19:07:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or am I just being retarded? I've been on this freakin thing for 3 hours. ugh! i have work tomorrow morning AND should do some more laundry, but here i am reading, answering, and asking.... lol

2007-02-23 19:05:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're together since 4 months (but we don't live together - she's still with her parents). I love her a lot and we've had plenty of sex, like 3-5 times every week. I'm 29 and she's 24. She's started having the 'symptoms' since 3-4 weeks now, and this morning her test was positive. She's very affected and is telling me she doesn't think she can keep the baby as she doesn't feel ready, etc. Me, I'm ready to assume paternity and move with/marry her, as I've always believed that abortion is a crime (it's my conviction, nothing to do with religion) and as I love her so much. But I know also that the final decision is hers, as it's her body and her pain, although I feel 100% involved in this situation. I love her more than she loves me in fact. What should I do? Allow her to have abortion and move on? In my country, abortion is illegal but it is still done by some unscrupulous doctors.

2007-02-23 19:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 19:05:26 · 6 answers · asked by samsansaj 1 in Friends

So my best friend and i have been friends for about 2-3 years now and we've just discovered that we're falling for each other. Turns out he's had a secret thing for me since i've met him. Earlier, i hinted at him that i couldn't have a relationship because it wasn't a good time in my life. I want my degree and i want to be in a good place if i decide to be in one - esp. if he's the one i want to end up with. For him, he would hint that he liked me/relationship...then we switched ideas - i was thinking about being with him and he became worried about major priorities like bills, work, and finishing his degree. He finally talked to me and said that he never ever wants to hurt me...and that right now is not a good time for both of us. He said that if we were to ever go out, it would "worth it, lasting, long and serious" - rather than right now, it wouldn't be like that because of our schedules and we just want to grow up and experience life before we get into anything serious.........

2007-02-23 19:05:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He seems very nice, its just bothers me that he has children and that no matter what the baby mama will always be in the picture, Is he looking for a booty call? Which im not down for. Chances are the older he is the slicker the words? Kinda confused here, I do know better, but his charm is getting to me. Help!

2007-02-23 19:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last month i lost a 5 month ld nephew, on his death i was shattered, i fell to pieces, i went through blaming myself to asking myself why i didnt know.
Losing him was like losing one of my own sons.
How do you recover from such a lost?

2007-02-23 19:03:47 · 9 answers · asked by disturbedxxcalmness 3 in Family

Ok, first thing's first, we're both in high school (seniors) I drive to school everyday and she gets dropped off. We don't know each other at all but we see each other almost everyday. We both walk up the side of the school to the parking lot to get go home (she gets picked up). I always get out first and start heading to the parking lot. I have this feeling that she wants to talk because she usually catches up to me and slows down to walk behind me. She is the really really quiet type, the kind who don't start conversations, are set in their schedules, and if you were to talk to her, she'd probably freak that somebody noticed her. How do I go about striking up a conversation with her? She is really really pretty but I think she feels insecure for some reason. How do I try to get her to break out of her shy barrier? I'm kinda quiet myself so bear with me =) Any conversation starters for a shy girl? Thanks.

p.s. her parents are usually waiting so I don't have much time to work with.

2007-02-23 19:03:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 19:03:34 · 6 answers · asked by ezbe2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the protocol for this? Does the customer make the first move or can the employee make a move if there has been flirting going on?

2007-02-23 19:02:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 19:01:37 · 9 answers · asked by mudslinginmom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this girl at a club. She and her girl friends decided to come over to my place to pay me a visit. They were cheerful, my mom liked them. However, they were just talking and playing among themselves. I was left out and I couldnt be myself. I gave them the impression that I was the very quiet, wierdo type.

2007-02-23 19:01:25 · 6 answers · asked by nothingreallymattersmuch 2 in Friends

2007-02-23 19:01:16 · 7 answers · asked by ENCHANTRESS ROSE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay it first started when i was going to my 4 hr class (i was late). this girl was siting in hall and when i walked by she smiled and said hi . but a kid was in front of me and she didn't say hi to him.
what do you think???

2007-02-23 19:00:20 · 2 answers · asked by badgerboy 2 in Singles & Dating

Only about three times in my life have I looked at someone and had my heart seem to stop and could not breathe? Would this be a good indication to use in attempting to find that special someone. I am dating but never seem to get that reaction. Is it an indication of love or just infatuation? Has anyone else ever felt that before?

2007-02-23 19:00:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have only dated about 4 women. I have had sex with one and been together with her for 4 years. The relationship is not great and I think about what it would be like to date other woman even though I am not sure I can find someone as attractive(girlfriend is smokin hot :( . I am in a 4 year relationship though so its hard to back out because of these feelings. Am I not going to be content until I date other people to see whats out there? It seems shallow. I guess I could see commiting myselft to one woman sexually if everything was incredible in the relationship but since its kind of bad do you think its worth it to try other relationships.

2007-02-23 18:59:47 · 5 answers · asked by Thomas D 1 in Singles & Dating

if someone speaks anything about you and a girl instantly spaeks in favour of you ,does this mean that girl had a little bit of love for you in her heart

2007-02-23 18:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by megha r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 18:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

give some hints that will help our relationgship long last, what i must see in a girl to whom i can marry

2007-02-23 18:54:45 · 24 answers · asked by sony 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in my mid 20s sucessful, charming, good looking guy. I have hooked up with 5 chicks but only have had sex with my girlfriend of 4 years. When I first met her I wasn't extremely attracted to her. I didn't really have a spark when I saw her. She has become much more of a woman over the 4 years and has had a breast job recently. She is 100 pounds, 5' 2 skinny and has a full c-cup. she could do bikini modeling probably. I give her face a 8 maybe high 7 and her body is a perfect 10 except her butt which is about a 8.5 too flat. Anyway, I am really picky when it comes to woman. Lately everything has been going wrong in our relationship and I do not feel as if I am in love with her. I am scared of breaking up because I dont feel like I will find someone as sexually attracted as her. I know it sounds shallow but this is a fear so ladies please dont hate. Am I just really attracted to her because she is the only woman I have had sex with? Does the first woman kind of hook u sexually?

2007-02-23 18:53:20 · 7 answers · asked by Thomas D 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the main reason people get divorced? My parents finally got divorced in 2005. They had been married for more than 25 years. Then, they moved to a new location, and they suddenly started hating each other. Do people get divorced because they finally get sick and tired of each other, or is it because they find someone new? My parents both married other people one year after the divorce.

2007-02-23 18:53:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

partnership

2007-02-23 18:52:32 · 1 answers · asked by Otunba 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just told me that he used to smoke weed every week for the past couple of months. It was such a shock. I feel so betrayed and dissapointed. I can't believe he never told me that. He now told me that he has quited a few months ago, and didn't see the point of telling me since it's only weed. But I still can't believe he didn't tell me. He kept stressing that the important thing is that he is sober now. But I just can't forgive him for doing that and not telling me.
Am I overreacting? What should I do? Should I just let it go?

2007-02-23 18:52:06 · 5 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I know that wasn't really a well formated q., but I go to a small highschool, and the only sport program available is soccer. I happen to have been playing soccer since I could walk around, and I got on the team. There are around 30 boys in my class, and around 10 of them are on the boy's team. Im always a bit self-concious walking around the campus in my soccer gear when I'm getting ready for practice, and the guys who I normally hang out with are acting like its weird that some girl is so involved in sports.

I'm by no means a jock, I've never pretneded to be one, and I honestly have no idea why I've suddenly gotten the weird looks when I go out and play, but its kinda weirding me out and I don't know what to do.
It's not like I make it hard for them to talk to me or anything. I had been pretty close to most of these guys for the past couple of years...
Guys, is this normal for them to be almost ignoring me just because they know I'm on the team?
and help is useful! thanks!

2007-02-23 18:49:26 · 4 answers · asked by free_the_frenchfries 4 in Singles & Dating

our guy friends are always pranking us, and most often they toilet paper our house!!

but tongiht me and my girlfriends both CAUGHT two of the guys who keep pranking us like this!!

We have them captured here and totally helpless,

how can we send them home 2 blocks embarrassed the MOST???

2007-02-23 18:48:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been dating this guy a few weeks. I accept that he is a recovering alcoholic (sober 4 yrs). He goes to AA, is honest about his condition, owns a business, takes care of his employees, and when we got up to being intimate, he got an HIV test and showed me the results. He told me before we were intimate he liked to take overly-hot showers to relax. In the morning I saw his stomach was covered with dime-sized scabs (about 30-40). I questioned this. He said they were from taking his hot showers. He blisters himself with the water! I asked him how often he did it. "2-3 times a day." I didn't know how to respond at that moment, but I've looked into "cutting" and I see that scalding also qualifies as self-mutilation. What can I do to help him stop? Do I need to end our relationship so he can face this problem? If I don't, am I condoning his behavior? Where can I go for information on how to help him? I'm afraid and I don't know what to do for him, and for myself.

2007-02-23 18:47:15 · 2 answers · asked by Rose of the Valley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 18:45:56 · 4 answers · asked by marincaligirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im going through a divorce with my wife of 18 years she seems to think that she deserves everything PLUS I had to move out of the house that she wants to keep and wants me to make the payments I have to rent my own apt now she wants spousal suport and child suport I dont mind taking care of my kids But everything else is a little over board this has caused me to quit my job due to major stress she makes good money but for some reason she thinks i should pay for the rest of my life she left me

2007-02-23 18:44:06 · 12 answers · asked by Ruth B 1 in Marriage & Divorce