He seems very nice, its just bothers me that he has children and that no matter what the baby mama will always be in the picture, Is he looking for a booty call? Which im not down for. Chances are the older he is the slicker the words? Kinda confused here, I do know better, but his charm is getting to me. Help!
2007-02-23 19:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're way too young to worry about that kind of commitment. He's too old and has way too much baggage.
2007-02-23 19:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by screaminhangover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much does it bother you that he has children? Are you jealous of their mother? If this really bothers you, you're probably too young to date someone like this, but someone else could. You have to decide how important this relationship is. It would be unfair to the guy to start something and then in six months decide that it does bother you that he has an ex.
If he was not married to the mother of his children, I'd say avoid him because he's a player, but if he was, and if you can accept that the kids will always be a big part of his life, then it's okay to date him. If he's really looking for a booty call, it will become obvious when you put off sex. Some older guys are slick, some are sincere. Go with your gut.
2007-02-23 19:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He 30 and your 19, ask yourself how come he not trying to date someone from 25-35, someone with some experience and knowledge of how to play the game. You sound very inexperience with dating and how to tell if someone is playin' you. He's playing you for a booty call or a baby sitter. Take your pick, and would you want to deal with the mother of the children if she was causing trouble. Run, run as fast and as far away as you can, you would be better off finding someone who has less responsibility and would have very issues, I think you would enjoy the relationship more than with the 30 yr old.
2007-02-23 19:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by 1TON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your line "just bothers me that he has children" says it all. No matter what, he'll always have those children and if they bother you, the relationship will probably not work. I can totally understand not wanting to deal with the mother, but you'd have to deal with the kids. If you can't handle it, I suggest you let the relationship go now because otherwise you may end up hurting him and yourself if you let it go on too long and get attached. Best of luck!
2007-02-23 19:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Gimmer05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Chela said she loves you she said she will never leave you true love will never die" do you remember that song? no of course not your to young but am sure he does. Just get out find someone your age you'll have your own problems soon enough.
2007-02-23 19:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...... don't do it.
2007-02-23 19:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋