I have only dated about 4 women. I have had sex with one and been together with her for 4 years. The relationship is not great and I think about what it would be like to date other woman even though I am not sure I can find someone as attractive(girlfriend is smokin hot :( . I am in a 4 year relationship though so its hard to back out because of these feelings. Am I not going to be content until I date other people to see whats out there? It seems shallow. I guess I could see commiting myselft to one woman sexually if everything was incredible in the relationship but since its kind of bad do you think its worth it to try other relationships.
2007-02-23 18:59:47 · 5 answers · asked by Thomas D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u dates 4 women and r afreaid of a relationship ..wasnt tat dating itself a relationship ????? u r confused basically...the fear is just that u duhno if she underatsnd ur feeling s and will it be long term ..there is no fear i think actually ....
2007-02-23 19:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by kamya aggarwal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you would consequently lose her if you try other relationships. Relationships aren't jeans. You don't try different pairs then pick the best fit. When a relationship is having a rocky time, both of you work to make it better. Dating other women is only going to separate you two. Consider this, so you decided to date other women, and she dates other men. And you realized she is the one, and she found someone better than you. What would you do than? I believe that we have to work hard to keep our relationships work. And the physical attraction is just the exterior. It feels like you are not really into your gf, just her exterior can't keep you two together.
2007-02-23 19:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Deesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure part of your problem is just that you want experiment. We all want to sow our wild oats. but I must warn you no relationship is perfect, when it comes to love there is always a little heartache. I guess it comes down how unhappy are you? If you really feel the urge to be with others, break it off, otherwise their is a good possibility of cheating. If you love her, don't. Straight up sex is great, and easy to find, love isn't.
2007-02-23 19:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more power to u figuring out what the last lady said
...dunno how old you are.... just dont get married too, too early in life, eh, too much divorce in this world. Make sure you're sure. I feel plenty of dating is good b/c it helps you know what you want/ dont want in a partner when you can have different experience and different perspectives.... but that's just me. Certainly everyone is different .
Still.. if you Are crazy about her, love her.... even if there's other women out there, you won't wanna lose her. Follow your gut.
2007-02-23 19:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by chigaimasu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are scared because it is a big thing to get married its not for a couple of months its forever but you shouldnt be scared it is always nice to grow old with someone atleast you will always have someone there whenever you need them the most
2007-02-23 19:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by mudslinginmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋