I am in my mid 20s sucessful, charming, good looking guy. I have hooked up with 5 chicks but only have had sex with my girlfriend of 4 years. When I first met her I wasn't extremely attracted to her. I didn't really have a spark when I saw her. She has become much more of a woman over the 4 years and has had a breast job recently. She is 100 pounds, 5' 2 skinny and has a full c-cup. she could do bikini modeling probably. I give her face a 8 maybe high 7 and her body is a perfect 10 except her butt which is about a 8.5 too flat. Anyway, I am really picky when it comes to woman. Lately everything has been going wrong in our relationship and I do not feel as if I am in love with her. I am scared of breaking up because I dont feel like I will find someone as sexually attracted as her. I know it sounds shallow but this is a fear so ladies please dont hate. Am I just really attracted to her because she is the only woman I have had sex with? Does the first woman kind of hook u sexually?
2007-02-23 18:53:20 · 7 answers · asked by Thomas D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the lady "kai" above me... you've said everything about this girl physically, you rate her a.ss and her chest and all that (which is kind of ludicrous to me), but there has to be something more to her if you've stayed for her for 4 years... I think there are some things you need to think about and find out about yourself before you go out and break girls' hearts just because you want to see if you're sexually attracted to them...
2007-02-23 19:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are afraid of your own insecurities. If you have all these positive qualities, you will be sure to catch a new fish. Looks are not timeless, and being a petite woman I was lucky that I bounced back after two kids. My husband loved me at 165 as well as now at 114. She is special to you in a caring way, but if you feel this way now and choose not to express it, you will loose her in the end for not giving your all or worse someone else will peek your interest. If you have not tested any other waters...they will be more tempting...but the grass is not always greener.
2007-02-24 03:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by jshorePR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are:
1. Insecure
2. Young
3. Confused
4. Superficial
Spend time with yourself.. You seem to have mentioned everything about this special girl except who she really is inside..You are still young and making young dumb decisions based on superficiality like looks, butts, and breasts...Im surprised you have went this far (4 years), but anyway if you are scared that you wont be sexually attracted to anyone else as much as her then you need some real self evaluation. Take some TO..you need it..
2007-02-24 03:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love her, then of course you should break up with her. I don't think you have to worry about finding someone else that you will be attracted to physically, maybe you should focus less on the physical attributes of a woman and more on her personality and qualities.
2007-02-24 03:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you still rate the female body on a 1-10 scale, you have got some issues...
Everybody knows all females are a 10!
2007-02-24 03:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by blahblahblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think since she is the only one, you are intimated by other women because you only had one partner and aren't really sure of yourself.
2007-02-24 03:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Deesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I'll say is ugh
2007-02-24 03:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋