Guys are so damn confusing. He was so friendly, helping me without me asking questions and I helped him as well. The next day he did not even bother to help me at all, I could tell by his body language. We sit next to each other in Math class very close. This time he looked like he did not want to be near me. I wanted to ask him something, but it felt like he had a wall between him. It's not the first time he has done this to me. Why does he do this?
2007-02-23 19:08:26 · 7 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've had a lot of guys do this to me as well... be very very confusing and hard to understand. And honestly, I never found out why they acted this way.
Maybe he felt that you liked him and he didn't feel that way so he started ignoring you?? I really don't know. It's just a complete guess.
But guys have a hard time communicating. So they become chickens and take the easy way out.... they ignore you.
You deserve better than that. TWO CAN PLAY THAT GAME.
2007-02-23 19:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, some do it not because they like you or have a crush on you...they extend their help to you simply because its just natural to solve your problems.
Remember, guys are typically problem solvers. Period.
Friendliness does not equate to committment, love, seriousness in building a relationship with you...unless it's consistent showing of caring attitude and "extraordinary" gestures of kindness.
Of course, some guy waits for "advances" from the opposite partner when they did something for you...when they don't see it, it may turn them off and perceive disinterest on your part...
2007-02-23 19:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because guys are confusing and confused! my advice is to not allow his actions bother you. maybe next time you can be the aloof one... on the other hand, he might just be having a bad day and didn't want to talk to anyone as well. but the bottom line is, if he really likes you...you'd know. and if he doesn't, don't sweat it, you deserve better and better will come along! =)
2007-02-23 19:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by jnlen0504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dude notwithstanding curiously like she became into basically being friendly flirtatious (there is this variety of element). she probably theory you 2 had a good sufficient bond which you would be able to understand the situation and not interpret it as "greater effective than pals."
2016-10-01 21:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do that all the time. Its either they aren't interested in you or you had something embarrasing the day before. OR they could just be assholes. All guys are complicated.
2007-02-23 19:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is in love with uthts he is going forward
2007-02-23 19:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by montu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants you to talk to him first. or maybe he's a moody guy. i have no idea, i wish i knew too....
2007-02-23 19:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Luciya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋