hi, tell something how to choose our wife.?

Question

give some hints that will help our relationgship long last, what i must see in a girl to whom i can marry

Answer 1

Basically, This is What God has said:

A Wife of Noble Character

A truly good wife

is the most precious treasure

a man can find!

11Her husband depends on her,

and she never

lets him down.

12She is good to him

every day of her life,

13and with her own hands

she gladly makes clothes.

14She is like a sailing ship

that brings food

from across the sea.

15She gets up before daylight

to prepare food

for her family

and for her servants. [a] 16She knows how to buy land

and how to plant a vineyard,

17and she always works hard.

18She knows when to buy or sell,

and she stays busy

until late at night.

19She spins her own cloth,

20and she helps the poor

and the needy.

21Her family has warm clothing,

and so she doesn't worry

when it snows.

22She does her own sewing,

and everything she wears

is beautiful.

23Her husband is a well-known

and respected leader

in the city.

24She makes clothes to sell

to the shop owners.

25She is strong and graceful, [b] as well as cheerful

about the future.

26Her words are sensible,

and her advice

is thoughtful.

27She takes good care

of her family

and is never lazy.

28Her children praise her,

and with great pride

her husband says,

29"There are many good women,

but you are the best!"

30Charm can be deceiving,

and beauty fades away,

but a woman

who honors the LORD

deserves to be praised.

31Show her respect--

praise her in public

for what she has done.

(p.s. sorry about the spacing, it didn;t paste well.)

Answer 2

Have the same wants as in children.and sports or activities. Commitment and watch her in her kindness and if she is honest and there for you through the good and the bad. See her for a while and ask her what she wants and look her in the eye and know that you want the same. It goes both ways and you have to be good to her and make sure it's for the reasons that you love her and that takes time. Some women are good actors so beware, and watch her with her friends and family she how she treats them. My x husband girlfriend tried to become my friend and she called me everyday for months and drive me crazy. I stopped it . I tried to warn my x that she is not a good person and he listened for a while. ( It's not because I want him back either) And now she's back in the picture But she is a true lunatic and he is a control freak so they'll kill each other. Treat a woman with respect and make sure she does the same to you. Good Luck in your search. WATCH AND LISTEN, but don't be scared. and ask questions make sure she wants what you want. AND don't marry and try to change a person into what you want, except them as they are or leave them alone if she respects you and thinks your intelligent some of your way will become hers.

Answer 3

How does she treat her parents? She will eventually treat you the same way!

How does she treat your parents? If she is sweet and kind to her parents, she should also be sweet and kind to your parents.

How do you like her family? Contrary to what people think - you actually marry the whole family - not just the individual.

Is she wife material? How does she handle finances? Is she a loud person, or a quiet person? How will she fit in with your friends and also around the people you work with? Will she be a guest or a hostess? Would you be proud to announce your relationship to the world?

If she were to become ill, or injured and her looks were suddenly gone - would you still love her? Do you like her personality? Is she a friend - do you enjoy her company? What do you do together, if you are not talking? Can you be quiet together? (Reading while one of you works on crafts for instance.) If she were ill or injured and she needed help with activities of daily living - (feeding, dressing, personal hygiene, etc.) - would you feel like you were being burdened or blessed?

How does she handle her temper?

What does she say about previous relationships?

Is she honest?

Does she gossip? (If so - how much of your personal life together do you want spread around?)

Do you have similar values?

Do you have similar goals?

If either of you had an ill and/or elderly parent to care for - would you each be willing to do so? (You help her with either of her parents and would she help you with either of your parents?)

Can you do housework together?

Can you each cook and sew?

Talk about the 'tough questions' now - things like death and dying - final wishes, if you were to divorce, how many children you each want (if any), talk about money - budgeting, bill paying, etc., emergency planning - what if there were a tornado or hurricane (for instance), educational pursuits, who is responsible for what - housework, car repairs, yard care, how you will decide on major purchases, and also discuss holiday traditions! Do either of you expect to be surprised, or are you a 'want to know in advance' - and how do you act if your loved one is wanting to give you a surprise? How do you view gift-giving and gift-giving occasions? (I love practical gifts - and my hubby prefers non-practical gifts for example.)

What are her pet peeves?

How do you each feel about pets? Housepets? Vet care and pet costs?

How about decoration styles? What if you are an 'ultra modern minimalist' and her tastes are more of 'abundant victorian'?

Allergies? What if she is allergic to your dog, and/or you are allergic to her cat? (for example)

You do not have to engage in sexual relations before marriage - however, you do need to have a frank discussion about sexual expectations in marriage!

Religious views - do not discount this! If you have different religious backgrounds, you should discuss before hand what religion will be the 'religion of the home' - and what if one or the other of you convert to a different religion after marriage?

Discuss with her - expectations regarding healthcare! Do you go to medical appointments together or separately?

Stepping out of your comfort zones - how far out of her comfort zone is she willing to step - and how far out of your comfort zone are you willing to step?

If you are willing to give 100% to the marriage, and if she is also willing to give 100% to the marriage - and if you both realize that there will be times when you are giving 100%, and she is only giving 3% and then there will be times when she is giving 100% and you are giving 2% - and only rarely will you each be giving 50% - and you are willing to acknowledge that marriages ebb and flow, as well as the fact that sometimes they just take a lot of time and effort - then you are on the right track!

Answer 4

You could marry anyone and have a wonderful life. Since the only behaviour that counts is yours alone. In a nutshell, if you take full responsibility for the relationship, your made for life.

Answer 5

Don't get married. Simply find a girl who today is attractive and smiley, then buy her a house.

Because that is what is going to happen to you.

Be smart. Join the marriage strike.

Answer 6

depends what you're looking for.
Make sure you know someone before thinking about marriage though !
And always remember that personality is more important than the way someone looks on the outside.
The outside will change, the inside is the real beauty

Good luck and don't rush things ! try to really get to know someone before thinking too far ahead

Answer 7

That's entirely dependent on your personal tastes and interests.

Some men would say, "I need a woman who can and will cook and clean for me!" My husband cooks and doesn't mind that I don't do housework.

Some other men would say, "I need someone who would be a loving mother." My husband and I do not want kids and I've been known to say when I hear a baby crying "Stick that stupid thing in the microwave for a little snap crackle pop silence!"

Know yourself and know what and who you want to be with.

Answer 8

you must find a strong woman. and one who can work in the fields and carry you over her back if you collapse from spending too much time cooking and cleaning in the kitchen.

you must find a woman with a bald head, so she will not complain that she's having a bad hair day.

you must find a woman with no teeth, so you don't have to waste money on hygiene products

also a lot of facial hair and large hairy moles are good. they keep her from cheating.

Answer 9

she shodl be understanding she should not xpect u to leave ur parents and wanna live in a anuclear family until n unless ur parents don co - operate wid her ....and she should be sweet whu shuodl be caring for all ..hehehe ..i guess this is enough hehehee ...

and for rest all i duhno as i don hv 2 chooos ea gal but i hv 2 choose a boy in near future ...hehehe

Answer 10

Dear pal , there is no our wife . Either the expression is wrong or you've a perverted mind (that means you want to share your wife with us ).