He is going through a divorce and has had a casual relationship with my friend the last several months. The 3 of us go out all the time and he is constantly flirting with me, touching me, buying me drinks, etc. At first I would get mad and tell her to say something to him but she is not that type of girl to speak up. Eventually I started to realize that I missed him when I didnt see him and I hate myself for feeling this way. I have never had this happen to me. He is a big flirt and very fun to be around so it is possible that this is only one sided, but another friend of mine went out with us and said she caught him all night staring at me and could tell he was just as into me. I have been honest with my friend (his gf) and told her I have a crush on him and that I think he is sexy as hell. How do I know if he is really into me or if he is just having fun? I have liked him since the first day I met him..at that point his gf (my friend) was dating him and another guy. Please help!
2007-02-23 18:00:39 · 5 answers · asked by kricket 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get the feeling none of you have many scruples. If you have to ask advice, you may be dizzy enough to jump his bones and cause havoc for all concerned. Either that or you can do a three-way and everyone will live happily ever after. You want to risk it?
2007-02-23 18:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is kinda touchy with the whole friends thing cause friendship is more precious than anything. And you also have to remember that even though he is with her he is looking at you....and he could do the same if he was with you. The fact that he is getting a divorce, dating your friend, and making eyes at you worrys me. And what about your boyfriend, why are you just leading him on if you are really that into this man. Ok now that we have all that out of the way if you really want this guy find out how serious your friend is about him. And if it's not serious, wait your turn. But even if they do break up, try and fix your friend up first with a nice guy. Don't just jump on this guy as soon as she is out of the way (or before either ;-)). Then your path is clear and you don't lose a friend in the process.
2007-02-23 18:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by BED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how does your gf feel about all this? Does she care? Is she encouraging you to go for him? Hey.. main rule, never go out with your gf's guys, past or present. Unless she hands him over to you then let it go.. a gf is forever.. guys come and go.
2007-02-23 18:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by answers to A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is dating him then you need to keep your hands off. You have to be loyal to your friend.
2007-02-23 18:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by alex77055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him personally......and .....ask him straightly if he's reaaly on you.....it's just easy coz'all he have to answer is just yes or no......
2007-02-23 18:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by dynn_er c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋