I work with a great guy. Yes, I like him - like him! I always feel more at ease if he's even in the building. If he's off, or leaves early...I notice my "bubble" is deflated. Is it love, lust, or something else?
2007-02-23 18:08:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I've know him nearly three years. He has visited me at home. He loves my music. He even said I was his Valentine. One day when he left early to go home sick, it hit me! I am happier when he's around.
2007-02-23 18:18:23 · update #1
i say it could be love. my girlfriend said that when she was sick and i came to see her, she began to feel better, and after i had left she started to feel sick again.
2007-02-23 18:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in a way i think its love but then it could be just lust too u never really know until u get to the person and u have been with the person for a while
2007-02-24 02:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you believe in honor and marriage-it is a start-yet if in it your biggest desire isnt to be friends-but something else-then it is lust in some form. friends dont hurt each other-and it is dangerous to date someone you work with make sure you have Jesus in the center of your life and pray about His perfect will -John 3 repented of past sins-even one lie, and born again with Jesus now your best friend-worked for me-I got a g/f for 4 months and I am not a slutty guy like I use to be-we even pray together every day-and its the most fun this way-lol she is away at teen bible camp-for 3 days-that is why I am here now!!!
2007-02-24 02:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a mix of all three really. All I know for certain is that you shouldn't rely on someone else to provide you with the happiness in your life. When you find it in yourself it will never leave you completely and will make every relationship better.
-NmD!
2007-02-24 02:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel... I feel the same when this guy is around me, for me - its just a matter of comfort. Its neither love or lust.
2007-02-24 02:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if you have to ask.... it's not love. But I don't know your age, his age, or any more specifics.
Lust is all about sex.... and nothing more. You can love people in many ways... friends, family, etc. So you may love him but maybe not IN LOVE WITH HIM.
And sometimes a friend is SO awesome that you really do feel great being around them. :)
2007-02-24 02:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by â?¥â?ªâ?«Karenâ?«â?ªâ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's something else. If you're not feeling just as "bubbly" when he's not around, then maybe you should talk with someone about it. You have to be happy with yourself first. His presence should make you feel tingly, but his absence shouldn't deflate your bubble.
2007-02-24 02:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by llgreen_1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say it is a friendship, and that you like to be around him because you would like this to escalate into more than a friendship, but no its not lust nor love.Have you told him how you fell about him, if not you should.
2007-02-24 02:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like lust....more along the lines of falling in love...i'm not going to say you're in love yet, but you do have genuine feelings for him.
2007-02-24 02:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by a.n.a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it was lust you would be thinking of sex with him all the time,now you got the other two to think about
2007-02-24 02:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋