see this guy is going to ask me something, which will have a HUGE impact on my life. its a yes or no answer question. i have had a month to think about this. that whole month i was totally for it, i knew i was going to say yes, without even questioning it. but than just yesterday a totally weird feeling came. it only lasted a second, but in that second the feeling took over. it was saying "I HAVE to say no" it was so strong! than that feeling was gone.
should i say yes- which was what i was wanting to say for a month
or should i say no- where which that totally strong second told me to
?????
2007-02-23 18:01:37 · 17 answers · asked by =]] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes say yes
2007-02-23 18:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay this isn't that simple because first we don't know the question that he asked so I can't give you too much advice...but I can tell you that you should always follow your first instincts!!! If for a whole month you thought you should say YES, then say YES!!! Everyone gets that strong feeling at the last minute...that little voice inside your head saying dont do this...or say no! But sometimes you have to take the chance and go with your first thoughts and what you know is right and what will make you happy in life! I hope this helps and you choose the right path! If you need anymore advice...just message me and I will be more than happy to help you!
2007-02-24 02:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by hollicrombie92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say yes. Because you already knew you wanted to say yes. But then you had a very strong feeling that you should say no. I'm not trying to say that god was giving you a sign but I think he probably was. But then again it was probably just a bad feeling and it did not last that long. So what I'm trying to say is you should say yes because it lasted longer then the feeling for you to say no.
2007-02-24 02:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by The Bryson-Lewis Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a youg girl rushing into sex then slow down and wait!
If you are a woman worried about marriage then a month more to say yes shouldn't matter.
Either way if he cares about you then he will understand and even if he doesn't then if cares about you he will be patient.
Try to be understanding of his frustration if you delay but hold your ground.
If it really is that important then you need be sure!
Besides, finally saying yes after really seriously thinking about it should mean more to him than if you just blurted out some answer... shouldn't it?
2007-02-24 02:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your instinct! Think it through is there a reason you should say no or is this just cold feet? If you think about this I'm sure that you will know why you had that strong feeling and follow it.
2007-02-24 02:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Doobee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but the only one who can answer this question is you. Do you really want to say yes and accept the benefits/consequenses? Or will you takea chance and say no, trying to find something else?
2007-02-24 02:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by xdannifenx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart in this, if its wrong you know it for whatever reason it may be. If its marriage he is asking you need to make the right choice for the right reasons, only say yes if it is him you love truly and want to spend the rest of your days with.
-NmD!
2007-02-24 02:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completely up to you, and since I have now idea what the question is, that is pretty much all I can say. Go with your gut feeling, whatever your heart is saying.
2007-02-24 02:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Tyler C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close ur eyes and think about the situation for one hour and ask to ur inner soul that what sud be say. what ever u feel honestly decide accordingly.
ur frnd
2007-02-24 02:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is really important, you shouldn't ask things like this to other people. It's totally up to you.
2007-02-24 02:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by rain ;';';';'; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes small impulses have strong meanings. if you're religious, i'd sincerely pray about it and ask God what he thinks. Maybe He's trying to tell you something.
2007-02-24 02:04:58 · answer #11 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋