Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

I love this girl, who moved to Fl we kept the relationship for a year and then she just dumped me. Told me she was engaged, to a guy she only know three months. I love her and I want to make her see that. No one could ever love her more, I would do any thing just to have her back. She is my life. Right now I am just looking for a good song something that matches my situation. Any Ideas, on a song or just any ideas I how to get her back.

2007-02-17 05:55:38 · 3 answers · asked by shush_that 1 in Singles & Dating

I like the friends I hang out with but not their second hand smoke. We discussed the matter and they dont mind if I wear a gas mask when I am with them. No need to say this is a little rough on the social scene. I have to approach gals carefully, one called a cop once. The guys whisper "Al Qaida maybe" and I have to yell back
"no health nut you gross polluter" One smoking grandma said "I feel for you, it must be worst than a Burkha." I like my friends but cant decide what to do. Should I take the mask off or stop going to the bar?

2007-02-17 05:54:45 · 10 answers · asked by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been married 27 years. 3 great kids, and he has been angry with me apparently for a long while, never said a word. Hates confrontation. Keeps asking me.....how do you tell someone after 27 years you do not love them anymore. Besides cutting me to the quick, I still love this man, I think he still loves me besides physically, he acts alot of the same ways. He doesn't want to leave......still wants to share the same bed (platonically only) and says he cares for me. I want to hate him, but I don't. Will I have a chance to make this work?? or am i just blowing smoke.. I am so confused at this moment...

2007-02-17 05:54:36 · 14 answers · asked by karenl624 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why oes my x convinced that she can control my my life even when we are not together? what is it that she needs to do in order to make her self feel good? yah yah i know you might say she isnt over me but that is not the case here! she is turning every one against me with half truths and lies!

2007-02-17 05:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by rwilson1684 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 05:52:19 · 8 answers · asked by Sophia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

two weeks ago i asked a question that titled ( are my parents right?) i just got married in may 2006 and i my husband and i
just bought a new home our closing date is march 4. iam 32 years old and iam on social security and i work part- time. my husband
makes dame good money and we are happy about out first new home. i pay my parents $200 a month out $673 i get the
3rd of every month. i have other bills of my own and i dont
really stay at home even though i live with my mother for
the time being. i only have 2 more weeks here and im gone.
last month i asked my parents could i keep the whole $673 to
go toward my house my husband and i are doing this together.
they said no that i have to pay their rent. i just need my money
for that one month for my house. my 29 year old brother who
stay with us two just started a new job. he was not paying any
rent or bills at all he starts tuesday and they let him keep his
first 2 checks to do what ever he wants. what do you guys think

2007-02-17 05:51:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend's family are Puerto Rican and I'm white/ caucassion what ever you want to call it. Any way I met all his family last night 'cause it was a wedding and all of his family came up to us and asked us so when are you two guys getting married? He's eighteen and I'm sixteen and I'm not ready for that and I asked my boyfriend and he said he's not either. Do you think his family would go against him to? His dad was one of the people that asked that question. We've only been dating a month and I don't intend on getting married at sixteen. My parents said they were being serieous, but I don't want to look at it that way,but there was a girl there who was nineteen with two young children. Thanks....

2007-02-17 05:51:28 · 10 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know what the Guidlines are for someone who is a registered sex ofender? I have a step sister her stepsister they are twins live with there mom (my stepsister and her stepsiters share a dad) and a man who is a registered sex ofender lives with them. Can he live with children if he is an ofender, and should I turn him in if he is not to be there.

2007-02-17 05:51:18 · 3 answers · asked by B 2 in Family

everyone at my school says he is gay, but he is not, it is making him very depressed, and he is starting to cut himself. His sister is also one of my friends, but she doesnt know about it yet. He is not faking it either, he has numerous cuts in one area on his arm, and complains about it hurting constantly What should i do? i think that if hes cutting himself, that later he might try to commit suicide. I am very worried. Please help me He is making me deppressed

2007-02-17 05:50:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

While I am usually able to put this out of my mind, the fact that I have been completely alone for over two years, despite my best attempts to meet someone, has recently become increasingly acute and caused me to worry that I am loosing my opportunity to do so.

I currently volunteer at several charitable organization, participate in on-line dating (a scam), attend church, and hit the bar/club scene to no avail.

What concerns me is the fact that the high stress nature of my job has caused me to age rapidly, giving me the appearance of a 40 year old (graying hair, stress lines, etc.) when I am only 23.

I've found that many girls who are my age see me as an old man who shouldn't be talking to them while women who are in their 30's and 40's won't date me either.

I'm worried that if I don't meet someone soon, either as a good friend or something more, I'll loose my opportunity to do so, condemning me to a life of loneliness.

Are my fears justified???

2007-02-17 05:49:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do you get all very emotional and keep on asking "Do you still love me?" I told her a million times that I love her. She is a lot more clingy then before she was pregnant? I was wondering why is that?

2007-02-17 05:49:28 · 3 answers · asked by Salsa Dancer 1 in Singles & Dating

you have made him wait? When you were attracted to someone, was it hours, days, weeks, months? How soon is too soon?

2007-02-17 05:47:29 · 7 answers · asked by Sweetest sin <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I live near beaches....but thats played out. I'm sick of walking on the beach. We spend sundays together. I want to do something very sweet. OHHHHH and i'm broke. Something cheap.

2007-02-17 05:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Constance 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf and i are ready to go a little further together (not all the way, but further) but we both are still in high school and live with parents and sisters and we can never be truely alone. we both want this but dont know how to do it.

we cant be in a car because its winter and its freezing and both our cars dont have good heating
we cant be in our basements because both of our parents like to "check" on us every once in a while.

any tricks or advice?
thank you soo much!!

2007-02-17 05:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend likes to respond to my "I love you" with "I love you more." Does anybody have a cute idea of something to say back to that?

2007-02-17 05:44:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, we have already decided that we are getting divorced, so that's no longer in question. Here's the situation.... We have 2 young children together, and husband provides all the income while I go to school and care for our children. (youngest is not in school yet) So the problem is this... My lawyer says that I will probably get some spousal support, and of course child support when all is said and done, but in the meantime she reccomends that we cont. to live together until the divorce is final, due to the fact that I do not have any income of my own right now. I don't really want to do this because husband will not make living together very easy or peaceful right now because he does not want the divorce. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Is there any way to get around this, or any resources that anyone knows of to help get me off and living on my own while the divorce is pending, or am I stuck living here with him for the next 6 months or so?

2007-02-17 05:44:02 · 7 answers · asked by DW 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 05:43:41 · 5 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

After we had sex, he seemed to never call me anymore, he tries to avoid me also. He ran off with another girl. What should I do against him? I thought he cared about me. I guess he was just in this relationship for sex only. I am pregnant also.

2007-02-17 05:42:31 · 7 answers · asked by Amy T. 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you leave them ore fight to keep them? Also whats worse, the fact that they are cheating with someone they have feelings for or just a 'WHAM BAM THANK YOU MA'AM' took it because it was on a plate excuse???

2007-02-17 05:42:27 · 17 answers · asked by buff1ne 5 in Singles & Dating

a month ago my gf of 2 yrs left me for another colleage she had a 1 week fling with. i have heard nothing until valentines day when she sent me a card saying " i still love you and you will never have me back. but i was wondering if you would have me back...it doesnt matter I love you " So what does it mean? does she want to come back? is she still with the other guy or at her mums? is she messing with my heart and head ? or all the above...and what shall i do because i cant live without her by the way i sent the card back saying i loved her and mybe we could be friends but i need time to get over the hurt.........

2007-02-17 05:42:17 · 6 answers · asked by Wise_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright so I (a senior guy) am going to ask a friend of mine to prom in the next few days. I could just ask her regularly, but that would be boring. So my idea is to get a balloon and a really really long string and get a friend to tie it around her car while we're having dinner. Attached to the long balloon string would be several cards. Together they would spell something like "Dear Lauren...Would you please...give me the pleasure...of taking you...to prom?" Inside the balloon would be a piece of paper with my signature on it. Now, after dinner I would split before she sees the balloon. Then, I would watch from a distance until she gets to the end. At which point I would drive back around and say "Hey I forgot something," and hand her a bouquet of flowers.

Is this too over the top? I know she would say yes, I'm her first choice to go to prom. Also, has anyone heard of this before? I want it to be original.

Thanks in advance.

2007-02-17 05:42:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so i know i'm really young so do go off on me and say "If your asking this question then your too young or w/e" because i need help now.

Okay so i've NEVER been in a long lasting relationship,, infact my longest one is only 1 week but thats because i get scared. But i've been going out wit this guy since Monday and i was hoping that this would be the first boyfriend to make it to AT LEAST 8 days. because i always break up wit them when it get to a week because i'm afraid that they'll get sick of me and break up wit me or i juss flat out get bored with them and juss wanna be single...and thats not a crime right??
When you kiss your boyfriend aren't you suppose to fee like your the only two around? well i was talking to my friend and he said that if thats not how you feel then you don't really like him i'm juss telling myself that i do.And so should i break up with him or juss see how things go.because my last bf when i kissed him i felt as tho it was only us to on earth...

2007-02-17 05:41:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 26-year-old single mom. I have been dating this guy for just under 2 years now. We are a perfect match... The thing is, any time I bring up marriage...he makes light of it and changes the subject. We get along great and I know we are meant to be together. I know that he avoids this topic because of his ex-wife...she was really mean to him and now he has a complex and issues with trust. I only have one child...and I definitely want more, soooo, should I keep waiting or move on and find someone else??

2007-02-17 05:41:28 · 7 answers · asked by sugarmama 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im been talk to this girl and i like her but i dont no if she likes me and we talk on the phine every night for like 3 hour and her friends aways say i like her . one of her friends came up to me and asked if i liked her and i said yes and she also asked me if she asked me if she asked me to the dance if i would say yes and i said yea does this mean that she like me ? how do i tell her i like her and i want to be with her

2007-02-17 05:41:23 · 6 answers · asked by footballkid92 1 in Friends

2007-02-17 05:41:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have worked with this man for a while now. I get very mixed messages from him. He remembers my birthday, notices changes (haircut, new clothes), tells me a I look nice in a certain color, things like that.

Once, I was in his office for a while discussing something ... after i returned to my office, he came in, sniffed me and asked what perfume I use. Said his office smells much better now since I was in it.

But then on other days he barely speaks to me. In general, he doesn't really talk to me about important things - keeps quiet about things going on in his life. When we go on company outings, sometimes he spends the entire time next to me other times he doesn't.

I'm incredibly shy and have tried to be as open with him as possible. He's a pretty quiet guy too. So I just don't know if I am reading more into the situation than I should?

How do I know how he feels and what do I do about it??

2007-02-17 05:40:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Assuming your marriage is over with no chance of repair, and the only reason you are still legally married is bacause the paperwork isn't done yet...

Does anyone see any moral issues with beginning a new relationship while still legally married to your ex?

2007-02-17 05:40:49 · 12 answers · asked by Danzarth 4 in Singles & Dating

Would a guy go out with his friend just to not hurt her feelings even though he really likes their mutual friend??? cause ummm my friend(girl) asked me to ask my guy friend out for her even though I felt uncomfortable doing it because I also liked him(she didn't know)....anyways I told him to be nice about it because I would have to tell what he said to my friend(girl)....so he said yes....this was all on the phone and after my friend (girl) hung up I was talking to my guy friend (on the phone) and he asked me who I liked and all this stuff...anyways after they started going out me and him got really close but after a day and 1/2 she broke up with him....he didn't look upset at all and seemed to forget about the whole thing instantly...I always thought he liked me until he said yes to her....do you think he might have just gone out with her to not hurt her feelings???

2007-02-17 05:40:47 · 5 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Some of my friends (4 to be exact) are talking to inanimate objects and acutally believe that these objects answer them back. I don't know what is wrong with them and is there any special name for ths type of ocurence? any cure? If you have had similar experiences please tell me about them and what happened as a result. I told my friends these "dragons" (they talk to dragon statues as if they are real people) are not real but I feel that I am losing the battle and our friendship is suffering because of this NEED HELP!!

2007-02-17 05:40:37 · 13 answers · asked by Peace, Love, Gun<3☎ 4 in Friends

he lied.
he told me he was driving 250 miles away to see family. he took 2 of our 3 kids ages 6 and 10.... well he got there and dumped them at his moms, and spent the night with friends, he is doing the same thing tonight. He says he's jamming.
So I told him my mom was watching my 2 year old tonight and that I was going out.
I NEVER go ANYWHERE. I cook, clean, sew, bake, quilt, write, good mom, good in the bedroom, i mean, he cheats on me, does this crap....
I am so fed up. So He got mad and called me a whore.

Mind you, I am hot BUT I am FAITHFUL 110%, even when he cheated. Even when he puts me down verbally, even when he does this crap.

He has a baeutiful 31 year old wife who is faithful, affectionate, a good homemaker and I have loved this man through 3 separations and yet WTF?

I would go out tonight if I had friends, but I don't.
I could go alone.
I'm not much of a drinker, but I do love to hear music.
He has been playing phone tag w/ me all day.
What's up? Guys?

2007-02-17 05:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce