my gf and i are ready to go a little further together (not all the way, but further) but we both are still in high school and live with parents and sisters and we can never be truely alone. we both want this but dont know how to do it.
we cant be in a car because its winter and its freezing and both our cars dont have good heating
we cant be in our basements because both of our parents like to "check" on us every once in a while.
any tricks or advice?
thank you soo much!!
2007-02-17 05:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a house or apartement together.
2007-02-17 05:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one of you has a friend over the age of 18, ask one of them to rent a hotel room so you guys can have some alone time together. I know the feeling, i was the same way when i got with my boyfriend. Good Luck and Have Fun!!
2007-02-17 05:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. You said your not ready to go all the way yet but yet you want to be "Alone" there is no reason you should want to be alone unless you want to get jiggy with it. If that is you intention I wouldn't. If your girlfriend gets pregnant then your going to have to be ready to be a "Daddy" I don't even know how old you are but if your only in high school then your way to young. Your just starting your life. But if your totally sure about this then your just going to have to wait until winter is over and just "Do It" in the car or just wait until one of your houses are empty. But please consider just waiting it's the wisest choice you could make.
Good Luck-----Brigette of the wolves.
2007-02-17 05:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by brigetteofthewolves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a hotel or ask for a room from a close trusted friend were u can be together alone,mayb a friend whose parents are out on a weekend,or a friend who stays alone.let them know how important these is if u do not have a friend who can let u use his room without telling on u then save up and go to a hotel or motel.
2007-02-17 05:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by loveguru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was your age I would make good friends with a kid who has parents that are gone all of the time, and party with him. There will be a couple of empty bedrooms etc.
2007-02-17 05:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Santa Barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his may sound dumb but it works..pick a day and both of yall fake being sick and stay home from school..as long as your parents work and no one is in the house yall will be alone to do what yall want
2007-02-17 05:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
motels my friend,,, motels,,,thats the reason motels are in every towns on earth....so couples who are having problems with intimacy can go there and take care of business.
they usually cost about 40 to 60 dollars...
just dont tell her that you are taking her to the motels in order to have sex with her....make an excuse to take her there and if she says anything about sex promise her that youll not attempt to make her have sex with you. tell her that you just want to spend some confortable time with her....
then when you two are toguether in the motel take charge and make it happen.
just dont force her to have sex with you if you dont want some guy in jail to do the same thing that you would do to her.
2007-02-17 06:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by luis b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a friend over 18 to rent you a motel room
2007-02-17 05:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd suggest if ur still living at home ur too immature to do that anyway, so just don't. there's a reason ur parents check on u!!
2007-02-17 05:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and your girlfriend should go to a hotel and talk and you two will be alone where no one could check you two out.
good luck.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-17 05:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by september_3_1995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋