Boyfriend Question and i need help NOW!!?

Question

Okay so i know i'm really young so do go off on me and say "If your asking this question then your too young or w/e" because i need help now.

Okay so i've NEVER been in a long lasting relationship,, infact my longest one is only 1 week but thats because i get scared. But i've been going out wit this guy since Monday and i was hoping that this would be the first boyfriend to make it to AT LEAST 8 days. because i always break up wit them when it get to a week because i'm afraid that they'll get sick of me and break up wit me or i juss flat out get bored with them and juss wanna be single...and thats not a crime right??
When you kiss your boyfriend aren't you suppose to fee like your the only two around? well i was talking to my friend and he said that if thats not how you feel then you don't really like him i'm juss telling myself that i do.And so should i break up with him or juss see how things go.because my last bf when i kissed him i felt as tho it was only us to on earth...

but then he ended up break up wit me...
and that one last less then a week. so i was really upset with him for that.
so my question is...Should i juss wait it out and see how things are later or should i break up with him next time i see him. I'm really knew wit this stuff and all my girlfriends think we make the cutest couple. and i sorta think that too. but when i talk to him i don't get butterflys and i don't feel like his girlfriend because all i wanna do is go off and talk to other guys. ((and i'm pretty sure i'm not suppose to think that way))...I have A LOT of guy friends in fact i think one of them likes me. and he is FINE AS HELL and he wants to go out wit me. but i don't really wanna go out wit him, but that other guy friend i was talking about earlier told me to break up wit my boyfriend and go kiss this other boy juss to see if there's "sparks". you know?

should i do that or not?? i'm extremly confused.

Answer 1

I`m really sorry, but I`M GOING TO SAY WHAT YOU DON`T WANT TO HEAR, but not all bad, you are young, right? this is not the guy you will marry and have a family with, this is the guy you are going to try things out with, see how things are done, kissing, when you kiss the guy you want for ever and ever, you will not care if there is a train going past you 2 feet away, it won`t effect you, the kiss will consume you, everything you do with THE guy will be all you had heard and hoped, you will know, give this guy a chance, he is learning too, when you have been with him long enough to feel the time is right to move on, (not yet), it will be natural, don`t get so wraped up in this relationship he wont let go when you decide to change things, be a good friend, get as much out of thes CRUSH as you can so the next guy that you fall for will be closer to what you actually want, (did you break up yet), and don`t have sex with anyone in hi school, that comes later, not saying there is anything wrong with sex, but choose well, don`t be pressured into it, you want to experiment, fine, my advice to my daughter was do anything you want with the guy you date, except dont lose your virginity, thats yours, not some guy who could give a **** less about it, save that, when you want to give that away, be sure it is taken by the guy who could be your true love, dosnt have to be, but someone who treats you with kindness and respect, guys are easily satisfied, sex is anything from a hand job to full penetration sex, but you choose what you are willing to give them, if you are smart, they will be chasing you because you hold all the cards now, not them, that have nothing that comes close to the fun you can give or keep. anyway, they only want to be able to tell all the guys they scored, lol I wish I was a girl in highschool, with what I know, I`d never have to walk over 2 blocks, homework would be done for me, and have a date with a different guy every week, and still be a virgin,

Answer 2

I wouldn't base everything on a few kisses. I didn't even kiss my boyfriend until we'd been going out for a while. You should get to know him as a person. If you two have things in common, you should have fun together. For me, going out w/ my boyfriend has been more like having a best friend. You have to go out a while and see if its going to work. It doesn't matter if they break up with you before you break up with them. The point in going out is to get to know other people, not see who can dump who first. Stick with it a while and see how it goes.

Answer 3

First of all, stop committing to a one on one realtionship so quickly! Just play the field. Once the right one comes along then you'll just know, that he is the right one to commit to.

As far as kissing goes, each person will give you a different feeling. When you "like" that feeling, then you'll know that you may want to kiss him again and stick around for longer than a week.

Answer 4

First what you need to understand is that "BREAKUP" is not the only word in a relationship...why do you always look at a relationship from that point of view..when evrything is going fine then what is the need to break up? if you really need to break up..then time will tell you that.
Take care.

Answer 5

it might properly be stressful for you, yet your mom is in trouble-free terms conserving you and does no longer want some thing to take position to you. Age large difference does no longer count number she will continually assume a guy is to previous for you because you're her daughter. And certain your mom would have met your father an similar time you met yours and your mom possibly made some blunders that she basically does no longer want repeated to you. basically take heed to her because in the top if some thing does take position to you, you'll experience undesirable for no longer listening and also you'd be apologetic about the outcome.

Answer 6

if you felt that then you should see how far it goes. Just becareful not to throw it away so quick, you might be throwing away true love.
I should know, I messed it up so many times with my boyfriend but he still stayed by my side because he loves me so much that its hard to leave. I promised him that I won't hurt our love again and I've kept that promise. We've been going about 4 years and we plan to marry after I finish college. (I turn 20 this year, by the way. YAY!)

Answer 7

since you are young you really dont know what things feel like... take your time and learn, if you aren't comfortable or ready for a longer relationship, then break up with the guy... you are young dont get tied down till you are ready

Answer 8

You should break up with him until you know what you want.. It is not normal to date guys for a week and dump them because your bored..at any age.. let alone if your kissing them..

Answer 9

mmm i knw how it feels believes me....well i dun thnk ur gina get dat feelin frm 8 days i thnk give it more time but if nthn changed den i thnk u should break up with him so dat u dun hurt him ...good luck sweety hope u find da guy u love

Answer 10

See how things go