he lied.
he told me he was driving 250 miles away to see family. he took 2 of our 3 kids ages 6 and 10.... well he got there and dumped them at his moms, and spent the night with friends, he is doing the same thing tonight. He says he's jamming.
So I told him my mom was watching my 2 year old tonight and that I was going out.
I NEVER go ANYWHERE. I cook, clean, sew, bake, quilt, write, good mom, good in the bedroom, i mean, he cheats on me, does this crap....
I am so fed up. So He got mad and called me a whore.
Mind you, I am hot BUT I am FAITHFUL 110%, even when he cheated. Even when he puts me down verbally, even when he does this crap.
He has a baeutiful 31 year old wife who is faithful, affectionate, a good homemaker and I have loved this man through 3 separations and yet WTF?
I would go out tonight if I had friends, but I don't.
I could go alone.
I'm not much of a drinker, but I do love to hear music.
He has been playing phone tag w/ me all day.
What's up? Guys?
2007-02-17 05:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are you doing this to yourself?? and not realizing in the mean time teaching your kids this is how a man can treat a woman and it is ok..
Kick his A*S to the curb pack all his **** and when he returns tell him to go back to his friends to jam on their couch.. You don't need this crap or deserve it..
2007-02-17 05:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not an advocate for this but, divorce the man. You don't deserve this crap. You are better than that. No woman deserves to go through this crap. I always left the people that cheated on me or verbally abused me. I still won't talk to my father because of all the crap he put me through.
You and your kids don't deserve this treatment. If you can't leave him for yourself, leave him for your kids. They need a dad who loves them and their mother. Your kids will also learn how to treat women from him and he doesn't treat women well and I'm sure you don't want your kids doing the same things when they get older.
2007-02-17 06:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Andi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out, and continue to do this. You can go somewhere local.
Make friends with the owner of the pub/club, and become a regular at that place. You will get to know other people in no time. It looks like some men, when you make them the centre of your world, will take everything you do for granted. You are as dispensable as a household electrical appliance. Once you get a life, meet people, do your thing, Your husband will think twice about treating you like this. Remember, he can't make you a victim unless you let him.
2007-02-17 05:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
certain which will be slightly traumatic to the brothers. yet on the bright aspect, perhaps the brothers can distract the child, keep it entertained or feed him snacks. Get a DVD participant and placed a educate that he likes on. it will purchase you your time, till you are able to pull over to a relax end the position little you are able to get out of his seat for slightly.
2016-12-04 07:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you treating him badly in response to him treating you badly seems like its just going to end up with both of you angry.
you need to talk to each other, maybe with the help of a mediator or a counsellor.
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2007-02-17 05:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋