Assuming your marriage is over with no chance of repair, and the only reason you are still legally married is bacause the paperwork isn't done yet...
Does anyone see any moral issues with beginning a new relationship while still legally married to your ex?
2007-02-17 05:40:49 · 12 answers · asked by Danzarth 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally feel that no, there is nothing wrong with it. If both you and your spouse have agreed to a divorce and are just awaiting paperwork then you're basically divorced already and have consented to having your own lives. My mother and father both were in relationships before their divorce went to paper because they couldn't afford the fees but they knew they would never be able to fix the marriage. Now, they are both happy and getting remarried to the people they dated and I, as their child, am much happier seeing them happy. They deserve to be happy and so does anyone else that is going to go through a divorce. Besides, it's much easier to go through a divorce with someone who cares than by yourself.
2007-02-17 05:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Andi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex and I both started new relationships before the divorce paperwork was finished. I don't see anything wrong with it if you have already filed and you know that your not going to be able to fix your marriage. There is no reason you shouldn't be able to continue with your life, during the divorce process.
2007-02-17 05:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mynde 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you know for a fact that youre going to get the divorce and its not going to take you along time to get it going then no theres nothing wrong: but if you dont see a divorce happening anytime soon then yes: its not fair to the new person in your life so i say wait till the divorce is final to start any new relationship.
2007-02-17 06:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by TiMe To LeT gO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong per se, but it can complicate things when they don't really need to be. If kids are involved, I'd definitely hold back though (from personal experience, divorce is hard enough and that makes it so much more difficult from the kid's perspective)
2007-02-17 05:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Felicity 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well.............I did! But you know its all up to you. Your an adult and know what's good for you. You need companionship because your use to having someone there for you all of the time. Its hard to break away from that. I see no harm...........as long as you don't hurt anyone else along the way. I ended up marrying the guy 1year later................we now have 3 daughters and a great relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!!(11 years together already) Good Luck. Oh and God knows your heart...............
2007-02-17 05:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by stuffyluvbug 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not at all if you don't have kids. But if you have kids that will make it really hard on them. If you've got kids then I would hope you'd consider holding off for a long while. Or at least keeping any new girlfriends a secret from them.
2007-02-17 05:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do anything that might make matters worse for you since your divorce is not finalized yet! WAIT!
2007-02-17 05:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by chastity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes!
2007-02-17 05:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it do not contradict with religion or other traditions
if not
go ahead it might be your chance to get better
2007-02-17 05:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope its perfectly fine
2007-02-17 05:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by My Life is in Black and White 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋