Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

2007-02-17 13:02:35 · 4 answers · asked by varshini k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really depressed. I just found out i am pregnant, and i believe in every woman should choose if she wants to have a baby or not.
I already have a 6 month old baby girl. after her i have been taking my birth controll pill everyday. and low and behold i am pregnant!
im depressed because i KNOW that my man does not want another baby. and he does not help with the one we got now. there is no way i can handel 2. i can barley handel one. and can barley afford the bills.
my man is living with us, and he pays mostly all the bills. but i know this is not going to work out.
none of my family knows. i cant tell them, they will be so dissipaonted in me. none of my friends know either. i just want someone to talk to. im scared my family will judge me!
should i just keep my secret?

2007-02-17 13:02:24 · 38 answers · asked by jiggamaboo 2 in Family

A guy friend is wanting to become more than friends with me, to put it delicately. I nor him are ready for a real relationship (bf or gf) and we are both single. Has anyone had a positive or negative experience with this type of situation?

2007-02-17 13:01:17 · 21 answers · asked by ohimmabeliever 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel so miserable right now. I am stuck between two guys i like a lot, my friend is fighting with me for no reason, some stupid moran jacked my ipod... how do i make myself feel better?

2007-02-17 13:01:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-17 13:00:57 · 38 answers · asked by Rabbit 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been datin this kid for a while and liek every thing has been ok.. and like we seen each other like every day and now i havent seen him since last friday... and like im gettin depressed bout it... like we evn thought i was prego... and like he would rather go out with his friends then come see me... what do i do?

2007-02-17 12:59:31 · 2 answers · asked by Someonetolove 2 in Singles & Dating

maybe just a hintful hug?

2007-02-17 12:59:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today, in an e-mail, i found out that one of my good friends has liked me since we first met. it turns out, i like her too. what should i do?
advice please!

2007-02-17 12:58:39 · 4 answers · asked by actorboi10 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been togther 2 years and a year ago he gave me a ring, but never asked me to marry him. We have talked about getting married and everything and he says he wants to but wont ask. In october i went a way for a week and he said everything i want to hear, but did not act on it when i came home. I was thinking of moving the ring from my left hand to my right hand. I am not sure what to do. I want to send him a message that if it does not mean that to him it should not to me. I want to tell him that i will put it back when he is serious about getting married. what do you think?

2007-02-17 12:58:24 · 8 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

mostly in high school if you can please :)
thank you!

2007-02-17 12:58:21 · 4 answers · asked by Halomot 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 12:58:07 · 16 answers · asked by danyellec1082 1 in Singles & Dating

Several options here.
Well the ideal is probably a guy who has got everything but let's face reality for a moment.

Who would you rather have a relationship with?

A guy who is rich.
A guy who is good looking.
A guy who has good personality.
A guy who is intelligent and educated.

2007-02-17 12:56:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 12:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by rabdcow72 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is insisting that we use address labels on the wedding invitations. My best friend says it is bad etiquette. What should I do?

2007-02-17 12:55:43 · 13 answers · asked by Kimberly P 2 in Weddings

who is the weakest:
the abuser for excusing the violence, of the victim for excusing the violence?

2007-02-17 12:54:51 · 35 answers · asked by pam28 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I told him we needed to give each other space as he doesn't seem to be finalizing things with the Ex(they weren't married but share a child)(seperated for only 10 monthes), we've been dating for 8 months. He started moving things out from the house they still own together(he does not live there) and visits his son at the house and with hockey three times a week. Their finances are still joint as she never worked, I'm getting frustrated as I feel as if I'm in the unknown as to their situation or if she even knows he's dating.
I know he's madly in love with me and he says that "I feel right". We're always together except for when he visits the son. I feel as though I'm a secret even though he introduced me to his eldest son(from his ex-wife of ten years ago). He monopolizes my time so I can't see others.

Am I crazy for putting a hold on our relationship even though I feel he is the one? I'm getting sick from stress, how much time does one need for a separtion agreement?

2007-02-17 12:54:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 12:53:58 · 31 answers · asked by claret 4 in Family

i have a lot of friends that r guys and a lot of them like me and i like them but we wont date because we dont want to end up hating each other anyways some of us have a band and the others i go skateboarding and i ride dirtbikes and fourwheelers plus i play paintball with them and im the only girl, i can hold my own and everything else my mom has always supported me but now she has married my new stepdad he doesnt support or like the fact that im a tomboy he hates all the guys i hang out with he wants me to act like a "normal" lady, like make up and pigtails (i know that really isnt normal) dresses and all that stuff well i hate that and it will drive me crazy im my own person but he tries to own me what should i do i hate him and he never lets me hang out with my guy friends what can i do? o and im only 14 so....

2007-02-17 12:52:44 · 8 answers · asked by female football player 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 12:49:57 · 19 answers · asked by ashley29501 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys. I'm in college right now studying to be a doctor. Theres a kid who keeps arguing with me about how many years in a century. He tells me there is 10 years but I know its 11 years in a century. Who is right?

2007-02-17 12:49:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She says that i get angry to easily but i am not. Besides i never got angry at her

2007-02-17 12:49:19 · 1 answers · asked by tough_girl 3 in Friends

Mine's pretty crappy right now so I would say...
1. Isolated
2. Lonely
3. Individual
4. sexless
5. austere

2007-02-17 12:49:14 · 23 answers · asked by eddysmomma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 12:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by glitters1180 2 in Weddings

i have this guy friend we we're BEST FRIENDS.. he would call almost everyday and we'd laugh alot... but now its all gone.. ive tryd to get over him but the more id o, the more i think about him, the more i love him.. i dont know.. i get so heartbrokened when he's amybe with other friends that are girls.. hehe i cry sometimes too.. we barely talk right now, not even eye contact, sometimes i even think i dont exist to him anymore.. should i love him or should i not?

2007-02-17 12:47:22 · 7 answers · asked by moose_uncanny 2 in Friends

Some of them I know some I don't. One of them he said was dating someone but I found an email that she wrote him and it said she was single. So now I am faced with a big problem yes he lied to me but if I go at him with that then I have to tell him I got into his email and that will be one hell of a fight there.

2007-02-17 12:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by Desirae B 1 in Singles & Dating

If I change my last name from Lee to Smith, will white girls talk to me more?

2007-02-17 12:47:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OOOHHHH! I totally can't help but have sex with every guy I have a friendship with! OOHH it just feels so good. What do I do???

2007-02-17 12:47:02 · 6 answers · asked by Maddie 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just curious to see if the average female found soldiers to be attractive, and if they like them. I also am wondering what females think of us being deployed to Iraq, and if they still would want to attempt a relationship even though they know that we will deploy.

2007-02-17 12:46:52 · 16 answers · asked by joshman19 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive liked this guy for awhile. He fund out that i liked him awhile ago but he just wanted to be friends. But i think i like him again so how do i get him to like be more than friends?
I know its a dumb question but really how

2007-02-17 12:46:30 · 3 answers · asked by crazyblondmonkey4eva 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have become really good friends with this couple. We go out to eat once a month and just have great chemistry together.

So what's the problem?

After five years of friendship, the husband hinted over drinks the other night that he and his wife indulged in wife swapping from time to time. This is after we agreed to go to their beach house in Florida.

My wife and his wife cooked up this trip. Now I don't know if there's an ulterior motive on their part, or if my wife is in on the planning. What do you think? What's a good way to go about telling my wife about this without ruining our Florida trip?

2007-02-17 12:44:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce