Some of them I know some I don't. One of them he said was dating someone but I found an email that she wrote him and it said she was single. So now I am faced with a big problem yes he lied to me but if I go at him with that then I have to tell him I got into his email and that will be one hell of a fight there.
2007-02-17 12:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by Desirae B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simple answer: dump him....he's cheatin'.
2007-02-17 12:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Pumpkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I can really understand your frustration on this. This is sticky, but you already know that. It has been my experience, unfortunately, that men will deny and say that it is just friendly conversation and then one day you are on the computer and read or see something that lets you know that it is more than chatting. I know both men and women who have carried on an on-line romance while there significant other remains in the dark. Does he know that you know that he talks on-line to other women? If so just stick to the subject of it upsetting you and do not mention the email. because this can be a very good monitoring tactic for you to find out if he is lying. Better to know now before you marry him or spend even more time with him. Sometimes you have to be sneaky to learn what you need to to make a decision for yourself. Good Luck.
2007-02-17 13:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by KristinaMaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Desirae, First thing you shouldn't of gotten into his email. But if he is talking on line with other women and you have been with him 7 years i would call this cheaping.Plus he is starting to tell lies to you. I would set him down and find out what is going on with your relationship. If you can't get the right answer and he trys to put it off. Desirae you need to walk out on this relationship. He has made it clear to me,that your relationship is over. You will hurt for a while but you deserve better treatment that what you are getting. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-17 12:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew this sounds very very VeRY fishy.....I would ask to see the emails. My BF of 3 years did the same thing and if i asked to sign on to AOL at his house he would freak out and wouldnt let me near the computer......after that I found out he cheated on me and kept touch over email......Its a bad thing for relationships but is such an easy way to cheat. Prepare yourself.
Yeah you should trust him and whatever but why cant you guys trust each other enough to be able to read each others emails...This sounds like a sticky situation and yeah he may get angry if you read hes emails but let him know you will be more than happy to share your emails with him, you have nothing to hide.
2007-02-17 12:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has been dishonest with you for 7 years. Why do you feel the need to be honest with him? Simply break up with him, no explanation needed. He is a cheater and you have already wasted way too many years of your life on him. Just walk away.
2007-02-17 12:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isnt doing anything but just talking to them..then there shouldnt be anything there for you to worry about..im sure you talk to single guys on the net to.
2007-02-17 12:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go online also and meet men. obviously he's missing something that he has to go online. and you're missing something to since you had to stoop down to break into his email.
maybe you'll both meet someone else and you both can leave this disrespectful untrusting "relationship"
2007-02-17 12:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe come up with interesting things you could do together instead of him chatting with other women.
2007-02-17 12:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, don't go throuh his email again and he only told you she was taken b/c he didn't want you to overreact.... like you are now.... guys can have female friends too, just like girls can have male friends....
2007-02-17 12:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Metallico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better clear the air soon.Ask how he would feel if you did it to him.That will tell you how he feels about you/
2007-02-17 12:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
force him to stop or break up with him
2007-02-17 12:50:55 · answer #11 · answered by Yulia D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋