Hi, I'm not from the US, so maybe there is a slight chance that my husband is honest at least in THIS respect. He has a "very good" female friend he never told me about. She is in Iraq now and when he sent her a care package he wanted to put expensive stuff in, I started being alarmed. He bought things for her online and never told me about it. Later, when I asked him, he denied it, and when I told him I knew, he pretended that he had forgotten. No biggie in his mind. After a bad fight, he promised me he would always tell me when she calls or emails, but he broke that promise. She emails him every now and then, and always closes with "I love ya". He says that's normal in the States because they are friends. I say he's married and the word "love" is pretty big. I think he should feel uncomfortable about it and should have explained to her a long time ago that it is inappropriate.
Or do I just not understand the cultural implications?!?
2007-02-17
12:20:11
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doola
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