my 2 bestfriends are saying that there not friends anymore and i have no clue what 2 do...what do i do!!!!!!!
2007-02-17 12:18:23 · 11 answers · asked by I Wish I Had Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing. It's not your problem. Just don't take sides and enjoy both friends separately.
2007-02-17 12:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you gotta understand that not everyone will be friends forever no matter how long they've been together. Not everyone will like each other. But if it matters so much to you try and find out why they aren't friends anymore and try to convince them that they shouldn't end their friendship over a small little thing.
By the way, is your name Amanda? Whom is in love with a guy named Alex? If not do you know a kid named Alex that's well...fat, black hair in a special curly style that's hard to come by. Who wanted to be an actor? No?
Anyways, find out what's wrong between your best friends
2007-02-17 20:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get in the middle or you may find you lose a friend as well. Don't do the she said game. Be supportive of both your friends without taking sides. Be sure they know that you are not taking sides. Do the best you can to not get involved, if they are going to work it out they will.
2007-02-17 20:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to each on seperatly. Don't take sides. Try to figure why they are not friends anymore. If you can help them resolve it, then do so. Do not take sides! Unless you want to end up with one of them hating you to!
If you can't help them fix it or they don't want to fix it, then stay out of it. You can still be friends with both of them. You'll just have to see them seperatly.
Good luck and I hope you can resolve it!
2007-02-17 20:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Voldie'sBFF<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confrontation first....ask them why and try to talk it out
Bribing next.....tell them u will pay them if u can be friends again(joking) :)
Ask them what you did wrong
Tell them to give each other a second chance because everyone deserves second chances
Talk to another close friend about it(if u feel comfortable with that)
2007-02-17 20:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to make this your problem, and think that YOU have to fix this, YOU have to join them back together.. they're both your bestfriends so just be the SUPPORT.. they have to solve teir problem by themselves, they're big girls they can handle it,, just be there for them.. talk to them ask them "what heppened?" if they don't wnat to talk about it, do not insist, or pressure them, let it flow.. let them know that you're on both of their sides.. and dont forget to PRAY..
2007-02-17 20:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by moose_uncanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything needs time. if they were good friends they would become friends again. just give them some time.
you yourself may try to contribute to this and improve their attitudes towards eachother.
2007-02-17 20:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay out of it and do nothing. it's not your situation. you can still be both of their friends wit out them bin frends
2007-02-17 20:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by divaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do what you think is right,if it was me i would be both of their friend still,and try to help them work it out again...try what you think is right.
2007-02-17 20:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kay Kay H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably temporary... they mite just be having a fite, or whatever, but whatever u do DO NOT take sides!!!!! â¥
2007-02-17 20:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by livelaughlove08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋