I met someone online recently. We like each other a lot. He expressed an interest in dating me. Initially I accepted, but soon after we both decided to take more time to decide since we hadn't met in person yet.
Things continued fine - he was witty, charming and kept up "the chase". At the beginning, I had my reservations about dating him, but I've come to realize that it's best to give things a chance and see what comes out of it.
Since about a week ago, he's become distant and withdrawn. He isn't trying to "woo" me anymore. It may seem like he's trying to do the opposite. Could he have changed his mind, the way I've changed mine?
We are meeting in person next week for the first time. I want to tell him that I'm keen on dating him too, but with his recent behaviour, I'm not sure what to do! I think he is also worried whether the relationship will be successful or not because of certain issues (such as race etc).
I'd be grateful for any constructive feedback. Thanks!
2007-02-17
12:35:49
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Misanthropic MeL
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