ok, my boyfriend, the love of my life, resently started talkin to this girl who i absolutely hate!!! and it turned out that he also got her something for valentines day without tellin my. i dont know if its a big deal or not. should i tell him, or should i not. we have been through so much. and i dont want to add anything worse to his life,cuz he has a lot of stuff goin on. wat should i do?
2007-02-17 12:40:12 · 7 answers · asked by babi_gurlballa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF HE GAVE HER A VALENTINE THEN THERE IS MORE GOING ON THEN YOU KNOW ABOUT. YOU NEED TO HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH HIM TO SEE WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON.
2007-02-17 12:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless if you have went through alot of things or not, and regardless if you don't want to add stress on him, it was totally disrespectful for him to get another female something for valentines day. I know you care for him, but you need to also care for yourself enough to tell him that you were hurt when he gave that other girl soemthing for valentines day. It is a big deal.
2007-02-17 12:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Only human 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, your boyfriend got another girl something for valintines day!
i know what your going thro!!!!!
a lot of times my boyfriend does things for girls that i dont understand why he is so nice. we fight about it all the time. and i dont want to add any more stress then we already have!
well sometimes you just have to.
ask him this " baby, can i ask you a question?"
"why did you get this girl something for valintines day? you know you are sending her the wrong messsage! and it makes me feel uncomphterble. does she know about me?
you have to talk to him. the only way a relationship will work is if you be real with eachother, even if what you say your partner does not want to hear. they gotta understand your point of veiw!
2007-02-17 12:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by jiggamaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if he got her a valentine, there is something going on. You should definately confront him about it. If he says "its no big deal/ just friends" then say that it bothers you and raise the question.
2007-02-17 12:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by rita102292 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with him and let him know how you feel. This could all be innocent and if he explains it to you, you'll realize that. Since you've been with him for 2 years, you should be able to tell if he's giving you a line or telling you the truth.
2007-02-17 12:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about how that makes u feel and ask him if it was more than just something that he got the girl for valentine's day
2007-02-17 12:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if he had a lot of stuff goin on he wouldnt have time to get another girl somethin tell him u heard timgs ask if it is true... there is still a chance it might not b true
2007-02-17 12:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Taelor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋