An im only 19.
2007-02-17 12:40:36 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start going to church ,The devil's gotten a hold on you .
Do your self a big favor , he is going through mid life crises .
He is old enough to be your father and in ten years he will be balding and flabby where as you will be getting looks from the guys your own age .Move on and let them have a good marriage .
2007-02-17 12:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a feeling that is being returned? Does he like you too? And older men are perfectly fine to be in a relationship in or to be attracted to but, him being married and you being obsessed with him really isnt. I think maybe you should try and find a man that is single and available that you can devote your time and energy into.
Ok but i kinda agree with Taylor too, lol If he decides to pursue you to, just remember he is married and he quite possibly could do the same thing to you in the future if you two were together.
But go for it is thats what your heart is telling you and he feels the same way about you and dont let anyone tell you what your doing is wrong, it is your choice and no one elses.
Sorry and one more thing. .. you wouldnt be STEALING him away from his wife, if he loved his wife so much then he would tell you no and wouldnt want to be with you. It take TWO PEOPLE to make a decision like that, it would not be your 'fault'
Good Luck sweetie
2007-02-17 12:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by ♣Kellina♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to force yourself to stay away. Only trouble is brewing when you get yourself into something like that. Would you want someone homing in on your husband if you were his wife and there was someone else who was much younger? Seriously think about it...!!! Obsession is not healthy. You need to find something else to occupy your time with. If you cannot, you need to seek some psychological help.
What is it do you really desire? Is it something this man can give that actually you can get from someone else who is Single and who can actually spend all of his free time with you?
There is someone out there for you. You cannot take someone else's man and expect everything to come out smelling like roses. It will smell like rotten turds more than you realize.
Find someone within your maturity level, who can spend the time you deserve with you. You need to respect yourself more than to disrespect someone else's life by ruining theirs.
I will be praying for your strength and wisdom. You have a lot of good in you and you are intelligent. Go out and volunteer and help someone who really needs your help. That will help your unhealthy thoughts go away.
2007-02-17 12:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the marriage whoas......Ok, I think a lot of people will have that one crush on a married person but leave it at that. People, a lot of people, will get hurt if you try to pursue this married man. Keep in mind that he took a vow for another woman, not you. SO just make yourself understand that this is just a crush, not true love. There are plenty of available UNmarried men out there just waiting to break our hearts!
2007-02-17 12:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find someone who is free to be seen in public with you.
why are you hiding your youth away?.
Take an acting class,it will teach you self control and others will not so easily control you.
Start working out in a gym, maybe even work there. You will meet a lot of people there. Why do you want to be with someone who wants to take your youth away,.You should be living it for you. You should be finding your own path in life, not hiding from it.
2007-02-17 13:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by zarandipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a pill and get over it. Go look at a man 64 years old.
When your 40 that is what he will look like.
Never date a married man it is a road to no where.
2007-02-17 12:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Steven 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself why you hate yourself so much. ask yourself why your self esteem is so low that you have to SETTLE for an old man, an old married man who has no self respect that he has to cheat with on his wife.
ask yourself why you think you can't do better when there are billions of other SINGLE men out there who are younger , trustworthy, respectful towards themselves and other women.
the more you hang out with a married old man, the more you will pick up his bad habits. now do you really want to be like him?
go out with someone who inspires you, not someone who is cheating on his wife. but if cheaters inspire you, you get what you deserve and you shouldnt complain.
2007-02-17 12:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, look for a more attractive man. Don't do anything to make the man suspect that you are obsessed of him because your going to embarass yourself. There are a lot of fishes in this world. one of them is the perfect one for you, you just have to keep looking. Your young and fresh and there are going to be a lot of guys running after you. Your obsession will diminish when you find out his not worth it.
2007-02-17 12:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by uniquezaira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best to ignore it there isn't much of a chance that you could have a relationship together. try to find someone else and forget about this guy, he probably wouldn't have interest in you when he's already married try to move on with your life. good luck
2007-02-17 12:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by snow girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess to his wife how you feel about him and let her kick you butt up and down the block. This guy probably has kids, how selfish. Also know that if you try to get involved with a 40 year old guy, you will get stuck with all of his bad habits that his wife puts up with, and believe me he has them. And also think 20 or 30 years down the road. His Azz will be old, are you gonna change his diapers. Find someone to grow old with, that way you can spend the majority of your lives together and have a race to who gets to change whose diapers.
2007-02-17 12:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by t2ensie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋