2007-02-17 12:40:10 · 18 answers · asked by Leslie L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you do! That just isn't right.
2007-02-17 12:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't approve of your man being at a strip club you, you need to let him know it's unacceptable behavior before he goes. If you don't care if he goes, then you need to set the rules (Example: look but no touch, no lapdances, etc.). If you've expressed the fact that you don't approve of him getting lapdances at a strip club, then you have a right to be upset. If you've never said anything to him, then now would be a good time to talk about it and then just let it go and continue on with your relationship.
2007-02-17 20:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by K.J.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , were you there was it just a lap-dance ?
You have the right to be mad a little , but honestly some men like strip clubs doesn't mean he wants to leave you he just wanted to have fun. Now, if it becomes a pattern on every-night basis you need to leave him alone . Also if that something really likes consider going with him , after he gets turned on you can enjoy him more .
2007-02-17 20:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by canielany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG Come ON!! What is he going to run off with the stripper? And if he does, why would you want a guy like that. If you can't trust your mate around strippers, hookers or just other women then you're with the wrong guy. Been married 17 years, my hubby's had a few lap dances, who cares. He comes home to me every night. Just treat him right and he'll always come home to you. If he's a dog and you seriously can't trust him, dump him and move on, life's too short to waste on a loser.
2007-02-17 20:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask yourself 4 questions:
Did he like it? If no, don't be mad.
Does he regret it? If yes, forgive him.
Why do you let him go to stip clubs?
Was it all lookie, no touchie? If all lookie, don't be mad.
As long as he kept his distance and didn't pay for it then you shouldn't be mad. but yeah, you should be mad if he was seriously interested in this "stripper" and was totally getting into it with her.
2007-02-17 20:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Pumpkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you don't have any trust or confidence in yourself or the relationship! Did he tell you? Did you find out from someone else because he was trying to hide it?
2007-02-17 20:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by J. S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes even if he is ur bf for 4 months u should still be mad
2007-02-17 20:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by iM ME ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have EVERY right to be upset.. just the fact of my boyfriend being ... aroused by some other girl doesnt make me all to happy either =(
talk to him and tell him how u feel..
2007-02-17 20:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldnt have told you in the first place. he should have known it was going to start up an arguement i dont think you should get mad hes just a retard you live and learn
2007-02-17 21:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by wilbert b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he was just having fun but i woukld be mad at him 4 going in the first place but if u gave him permission the no cuz its yr fault.
2007-02-17 20:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋