2007-02-17 12:31:33 · 21 answers · asked by bewildered 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dump him. He has violated your trust. Move on.
2007-02-17 12:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by C. A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you love him don't take him back. Not for a long time, if he truly loves you, make he keep trying to get you back for over a year. I've cheated once in my life, and I have regretted it because of how much I hurt the person I was with, and how I acted. He needs agood slap in the face and if he cares about you then he will win you back. White horse and all.
2007-02-17 20:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kpohil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl, I think you already know the answer to this one. As you yourself said you think he been playing both of you. do you wanna be a stupid sucker?? Dump him like a hot potato. ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER. By taking him back you have just tattooed DOOR MAT on yr forehead and hes gonna walk all over you. If you gonna be with someone who cheats and u gonna spend yr days wrecking yr brains wondering what hes doing and always being suspicious. You might as well be on yr own.
2007-02-21 11:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Pauline G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and take him back and pretend that nothing ever happened. I'm sure that this was a one time thing that he's never done before, and that after 6 months of banging another woman he's finally realized that he really does love you. So throw your better judgement and common sense out the window, and take him back at his word. I'm sure it will never happen again and that you two will live happily ever after like none of this ever happened!
2007-02-17 20:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell u to take him back or not you have to make up you'r mind on your own but i can tell u that if you want him back you need to sit down with him and find out why he left and or cheated there has to be a reason and then see if you both can fix the problom if u two cant do that then their is really no point
good luck
2007-02-17 20:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you to take him back anot. If it is just a fling, it won't last for half a year. He want to have the best of both world. It is not easy to share your man with another person. People will only know how to treasure when they lose them. If he really love you, he will try to win you back no matter how long it take.
2007-02-20 08:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT even think about taking him back. Not even think about it unless you want to end up in the mental hospital because forgiveness will only get you more betrayl. Lose this cheater a leopart doesn't change it's spots. (I know its easier said than done, but that is the right thing to do, just say NO)
2007-02-17 20:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mensa Head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married 19 yrs with my first husband and I will tell you he cheated at 11 yrs with his brothers wife and I did forgive him and moved on well around17 yrs he cheated on me again with someone he went to school with. And today he is cheating on her a guy that cheats will keep doing it. For if he loved with with all his heart he would care about you enough to say no and never go there or put himself in that kind of situation to cheat. Move on and find someone that cares about you.
2007-02-17 21:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...Has he accepted responsibility for what he did and is he willing to seek counseling to try to repair your marriage? If not and he is a lying cheating jerk that you feel that you can never trust again then dump him and go on with your life. It is a sad situation but you can get through it. Good luck.
2007-02-17 20:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to be hurt again. If you take him back now you are only sending him the message that you will tolerate his behavior. Be strong and hold your ground. There is someone out there for you that will treat you like you deserve to be treated and will be with only you.
2007-02-17 20:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you she dump him and move on with your live because they are many guys out their that will treat you like a queen. because if he cheated on you once what you believe he what cheat again because they always say once a cheater always a cheater gurl he is not going to change of you or her and what make you think he won't cheat on her he a jerk you derisive better than him let him go tell him she can have him your are better with out he than with him good luck i hope i can help you with your problem.
2007-02-17 21:44:11 · answer #11 · answered by little-cutiepie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋