i have this guy friend we we're BEST FRIENDS.. he would call almost everyday and we'd laugh alot... but now its all gone.. ive tryd to get over him but the more id o, the more i think about him, the more i love him.. i dont know.. i get so heartbrokened when he's amybe with other friends that are girls.. hehe i cry sometimes too.. we barely talk right now, not even eye contact, sometimes i even think i dont exist to him anymore.. should i love him or should i not?
2007-02-17 12:47:22 · 7 answers · asked by moose_uncanny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like he's moved on...and left u in the dust. sorry....
If he can hurt you like this...why let him do it over and over?
If he really cared for you, in a relationship way, he would have
told you, I'm sure. Whether you get dumped, or you dump him
it still doesn't feel good. Your hurt. I feel that this guy is going
to keep repeating this behaviour with u. Ask him where do u
stand with him ? From there...u can deal with it. At least u
didn't have sex with him.....he didn't get THAT!! So, you can
feel better knowing that...if u had sex with him, it won't make
him want you more. There are no guarentees in anything.
Take Care. Pray to God to help mend ur broken heart.
2007-02-17 13:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just make yourself stop loving him. As for now, it's obvious that you love him.
It sounds to me that you like him as more than a friend. You get heartbroken when he's hanging out with other girls, so that's the first sign.
Call him, or say hi to him if you see him somewhere. If you really care about this friendship, then work on it together.
Also, you need to work on your feelings for him. You obviously like him as more than friends.
Really, I was thinking about telling you to hide your feelings if you don't want to ruin the friendship, but that would be miserable & hard to do. You need to talk to him.
Although it may ruin the friendship, you never know. It's worth the try, because otherwise, you will live with this secret that you feel like you can't tell him.
I hope everything works out. Good luck!
2007-02-17 22:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you have been is friends then he should be your friend enough for you to talk to about it. And even if he doesn't share your feelings then he should at least understand. Maybe he wants more from you but doesn't know how to approach you that way. Talk to him, but don't be pushy. If he seems distant or like he doesn't care, leave him alone and find someone else.
2007-02-17 20:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by t2ensie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! I avoid girls that I'm interested in sometimes. He might think he isn't good enough for you. He probably likes you too.
2007-02-17 20:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by HazyMind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you love him love him who knows he might like you to that might be why he's actin'this way.
2007-02-17 20:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately,you can't chose whether or not to love someone...
2007-02-17 20:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should love him cause his yur best friend
2007-02-17 20:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋