Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

10 year marridge,wife left with no signs other than a letter saying she wasnt happy.since which she has moved into a refuge for abused woman falsly claiming she has been in abusive relationship.iam in complete shock because its a untrue claim and so far from the truth.after a 10 year relationship i thought i knew her but obviously not aswell as i thought. and iam concerned about what her plans are and how to to prepare myself,(what rubbish is she going to say next). I wasnt expecting this and iam looking for advice on how to protect myself on any possilbilities that can arise from her allegations and the effect it can have on any events that i may have to deal with in the future regarding the the children and the mortgage.

2007-02-17 13:46:22 · 8 answers · asked by HNU0 U 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Terminally ill and he wants to do a myspace page to meet friends and possible a mate.he dosen't get out much and I think this would be the best thing for him, but I have no clue how to do a myspace page!!! Can someone help me please!!

2007-02-17 13:45:06 · 7 answers · asked by yellabanana77 4 in Singles & Dating

Tell age and where

2007-02-17 13:44:40 · 17 answers · asked by houda r 1 in Singles & Dating

When you're crushing or with someone, how important are their looks? Because seirously, I'll be honest, I don't think someone I'm with or crushing on someone I couldn't care less about their looks. But also, if I think someone is attractive, I'll say so. But I'm not one of those people that will totally outcast someone who's the "ugly duckling".

2007-02-17 13:44:31 · 13 answers · asked by ~The Kat's Meow~ 1 in Singles & Dating

If a child is molested by her uncle and she tells her aunt his wife, what is going on and she tells the child don't say anything because he will go to jail and the child will get in trouble....is that worse than the molestation? And can it make it harder for the child?

2007-02-17 13:44:23 · 26 answers · asked by *What Goes Around Comes Around 1 in Family

2007-02-17 13:44:16 · 5 answers · asked by blahblahblah 2 in Friends

I am 23 and I am seeing this guy who is 28. He has been married. He actually married his HS sweetheart. He has been divorced for almost 5 years now. So, should I continue to date him. Is there more to the story of why the marriage didn't work out. How can I ask him about the reason for the divorce without being too nosey?

2007-02-17 13:43:18 · 13 answers · asked by mellwith2ells 2 in Singles & Dating

pretty much, dis gurl dat i met on myspace went to my school when i was in 10 grade ( im in da 12th now) but i never actaully seen her at school ( but she in da year book so i know sh went der)

when i talked 2 here earlier n asked her to descirbe herself she said she had a figure of 36 24 42

i understand da first 2 #, but 42!?!?!?!?
if dats true, den dats sayin her booty is just bout 2times da size of her waist.

Now ive seen gurl wit a slim waist n a"BIG" booty but not almost 2 times. then again.... i wouldnt know cuz i dont go around measurin people


Somebody help me out on this

2007-02-17 13:42:26 · 7 answers · asked by jaye3rd89 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a strange situation me and my new husband goes to ice fishing contests but seems so does my X husband with the girl that broke my first marriage up she comes around my family and also talks to my husband I feel I can't trust her and it bothers me I am not jealous just scared she will do a repeat of the first one. Tell me what you think I should do to deal with this situation.

2007-02-17 13:41:45 · 14 answers · asked by wildrose 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 13:40:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there anything that you want to or need to tell me before i go?

2007-02-17 13:40:26 · 4 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok women... define handsome, cute, masculine, or a pretty man. I know everyone has different standards but what are your standards and why. Be specific. We are only focusing on physical characteristics. Think of hair, eyes, chin, mouth, height, dark/light/medium, etc.

2007-02-17 13:40:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boy been to gether for 1 year i love him but just today i saw them makeing out. i called my friend and said did you see my boy freind today she said no and what do i do

2007-02-17 13:40:15 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Ashley ♥ 1 in Friends

2007-02-17 13:40:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

girls , when the guy comes during end of the sex, do you like him to take it out immediatelly or stay inside you for a while???

2007-02-17 13:40:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in love with Brandon, and my best friend's name is Colt.
that'll make it easier to understand.

Brandon and i have been dating since September. Colt is a really good friend and has been for 3 years. we've had our nights together, if ya know what i mean, but we've never dated. we talk to each other about EVERYTHING. Brandon doesn't really like it, but i told him he'd have to accept it. [i've never cheated on Brandon with Colt] so the other day, Colt and i were talking and he said "one of us is going to have to go gay." i asked why and he responded with "because in all the movies the girl and the guy are best friends and they end up falling in love" i laughed it off because i didn't really know what to say. i really love Brandon, and i think Colt actually really likes me. since i always go to Colt for guy advice, i feel bad about talking to him about Brandon now. and i feel bad for i guess being around him alot, i love being around him, but i don't want to lead him on. i'm super confused and i don't know what i should do. i need some help. PLEASE?

2007-02-17 13:39:42 · 4 answers · asked by youmakemesmile :] 1 in Singles & Dating

I have finally come to the conclusion i need to do something about my life.... as im feeling more and more upset with life in general as each day passes. I am 27 (male) and my partner is 26.(female) We have been living together for the past 4 years and got together 8 years ago. My sex life has seriosly deteriorated over the past 5 years... i noticed things were going wrong 5 years ago when we started to have sex once every two weeks.over time we are now at sex every 4/5 months :< I shower my partner with love and make sure she wants for nothing. I have a good job and am be no means ugly. I have tried talking to my partner about our problem, taken her away for weekends, offered to go to relate (she wouldnt!), and its made no difference. She says she just isnt interested in sex anymore, bit she still love me.I feel like i have exhausted every option i have.I have been faith to her from day 1 of our relationship and have put up with little sex for 5 years
Do i cave in and have an affair?

2007-02-17 13:38:39 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 13:38:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister in law is nasty, says she wants to be my friend, but is back stabbing, twists my words and makes fun of me behind my back. I have to watch every single thing I say because she likes to throw information back in people's faces and use it against them.
I always feel (from experience) that I can't trust her.
Yet, she gets mad at me because she expects me to call her and be her "friend" --whatever that is to her...

I try not to talk to her and try to avoid her, is this a good method? I really just can't be friends with a person like this.
My husband doesn't like her either. What should I do?

2007-02-17 13:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I asked her in class she said your ex she said are you ok about that and i didn't know waht to say about that.

2007-02-17 13:38:11 · 6 answers · asked by Jazzy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 13:37:56 · 9 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you tell your friend its wrong, tell the spouse from you couple friend? How would you handle it?

2007-02-17 13:37:45 · 6 answers · asked by N D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl u goin out wit is a senior and u want to know if shes hads sex wit out sounding like a dumbass?

2007-02-17 13:37:43 · 3 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 13:37:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 13:37:07 · 8 answers · asked by vic 1 in Singles & Dating

What is his problem?
ok im im 14 and a freshman in high school and ive met this sophmore in one of my classes about a month ago hes reeeally cute and sweet when hes just w/ me but when his friends are around hes more bad boy which i think is pretty normal.he even calls me tay tay . he comes to sit by me all the time and holds my hand and gives me massages and hugs me all the time!
and all of a sudden the other day he was ignoring me and saying stuff like y dont u tell someone who actually cares......and yes his friends were around. im pretty sure he likes me but he has a girlfriend.....my question is why was he acting that way?! i dont think i did anything wrong to make him mad at me!?!? what should i do? should i just ignore it?

2007-02-17 13:36:20 · 13 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 13:34:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You know how most people have CURVES where their body shapes into their hips and then into their legs? Like ( ) that kinda? Is it normal to have... I dunno how to describe it. Like, hips and thighs? I have hips and then where my legs start there thighs or something! It doesn't look right. It makes me feel so unatractive. I'm only 13, will I grow out of it? Does anyone else have this?

It's kinda like this-> http://www.neimanmarcus.com/products/ap/NMW02M5_ap.jpg

and like this:
http://www.venus.com/viewproduct.aspx?BRANCH=24~95~3201~&storeid=0&ProductDisplayID=6356&dept=Moderate+Bottoms-Lowrise&prod=

Do you get what I'm talking about?

2007-02-17 13:34:31 · 19 answers · asked by Rain Nicole S 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in the "nice" category of guys, but am considering starting to be a jerk cuz thats what women want right?

2007-02-17 13:33:57 · 38 answers · asked by Beachbum 3 in Singles & Dating

Plz im not joking so dont joke on me or i will report. im being serious!!!!!!!

2007-02-17 13:33:50 · 7 answers · asked by Sexy bitch 1 in Singles & Dating