Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

My good friend "Emily" has dated her ex for a year until she got nervous with commitment and broke with him in the worst way by e-mail. In the "dear john" note she blamed the failing relationship on him. Later on she felt really bad about everything. She went to call him to apologize and he hung up on her several times. One day though he had contacted her on the internet. He invited her to have cyber sex and she agreed. After a while she felt empty and asked to see him in person he got angry. She stopped the cyber fiasco and insisted that she talk to him to apologize and explain everything. He refused again. Emily is so broken hearted she doesn't know what to do. All she ask for is a face to face meeting and she gets rejected. I told her that he's trying to get revenge for her wrongdoing. I also ask that she forget about him but she wants only him. She is very stubborn and won't listen to reason please help me help her.

2007-02-17 14:18:43 · 1 answers · asked by Noree 3 in Singles & Dating

hey guys ...here is the thing...i'm a 19 years old girl who lives in a middle eastren country and once i was online and i've chatted with this guy who is from another middle eastren county infact his country is next to mine...any way we started as friends and weird stuff have happened...u may not belive it but he is like my soul mate.evrything happens with him happens withme evrything he like i like @the beginingit was sofreaking weird and it's still weird till now..any way wewerefriend only but after 2 months he told me that he is in love with me ...and i've been hiding my feelings till i know what's his feelings...so i was glad that he told me that...and things got better and better..i talked to him over the phone ..and i saw him cuz i've been in his country twice....we r both muslim and we want this relationship to end by marrage...but the thing is that i'm not sure if my dad is gonna agree cuz he is from a diff culture and diff colore..i'm ok with all that but what about my family.

2007-02-17 14:16:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this girl but she lives in germany and i live in america and shes christain and im jewish and i cant go out with a goy. but i reely like her. wut should i do.

2007-02-17 14:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by lilkiz95 2 in Singles & Dating

i would like to talk to someone real and perhaps later be able to go on a date but the dating services are all the same thing, want credit card numbers,i just want to talk through e mail or chat but not about sex..like a computer date

2007-02-17 14:15:25 · 5 answers · asked by La Rhonda V 2 in Singles & Dating

yep i like this girl but i dont know wen to ask her out i dont wanna do it over the phone because i know thats not rite but i wont b able to c her for like a week and i really wanna ask her out! and some of my friends dont think i should go out with her but o well

2007-02-17 14:14:50 · 4 answers · asked by thefootballfan123 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 14:14:32 · 4 answers · asked by mr.d 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy last year in december,. I was young and he was much older then me. He was sweet but our meeting was short. Then again this year we met unexpectadly. Im russian and his from ukraine he comes to america occasionally. We hit it off real fast and everything was PERFECT it was like a dream, we laughed and felt completely and totally comfortable with each other!!!! He had to go and we didnt have a chance to exchange any contact information he just screamed out his email but all i heard was a few letters!!! IS there a Ukraine email thing where I could find him by his name?? Its been 3 months now and I can't stop thinking about him! ANYONE? or should i just give up :(

2007-02-17 14:14:06 · 7 answers · asked by Dasha P 2 in Singles & Dating

boy more after she has hooked up with him, while a guy no longer has interest and just thinks the girl is easy

2007-02-17 14:13:15 · 15 answers · asked by marissa w 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like this super hott guy i need help i can talk to him and stuff but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said that i am ugly and i really really like love him he is wat i really need in my life so i need help wat do i do oh ya my friend likes him to and they have gone out before so i dont no wat to do about her?!!!?

2007-02-17 14:13:04 · 14 answers · asked by roxy babe 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I've been dating this awesome girl for 3 weeks and i don't know when to kiss her. Unlike me she been in relationships before. Ive never really kissed a girl. We both like each other a lot and are going to the movies on Monday. This probably sounds rather elementary, but i could really use some help.

2007-02-17 14:12:23 · 4 answers · asked by Golfer 2 in Singles & Dating

well im getting married next month, im 18, and people are always like, "your so young, arent you scared, you shouldnt get married" it just really bothers me.

2007-02-17 14:11:47 · 40 answers · asked by renaebear07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend, me, and several of our friends went out last night and we all came back to his house. Most of us left to go home, including me. But people who lived far stayed overnight at his house. Anyway, there was a girl and 1 or 2 guys at his house, and he has 2 spare bedrooms + the living room + family room w/ couches etc etc. The one girl and him slept together in his bed, and the other guys slept in the other bedrooms. I'm friends w/ the girl, and I trust my boyfriend so I don't think I'm concerned if they did anything or not. But I just think it's WEIRD and awkward for him to sleep in the same bed w/ someone of the opposite sex. Oh. and he also used to like her before we started dating. a while back.

But yea, my question is, in my situation, is it weird/awkward/inappropriate for him to have allowed her to sleep with him in his bed? I just think there were other options.. it's not like there was a shortage of sleeping spaces.

What do you guys think?

2007-02-17 14:11:40 · 20 answers · asked by peaches87 3 in Singles & Dating

I really want to french kiss my girl friend and I dont know when or how to.

2007-02-17 14:10:48 · 3 answers · asked by arcticcode13 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I work at a coffee shop and I flirt with the cute girls that come in to buy coffee from time to time, so what is your intake?

2007-02-17 14:10:13 · 15 answers · asked by DannyC 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 14:09:39 · 5 answers · asked by Eli C 1 in Singles & Dating

She says she plans on 'experimenting' while in the big house...and I am not 100% sure she she is talking about science.

2007-02-17 14:09:34 · 15 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been asking alot of questions I know! I'm sorry but this is really helping me by getting advice. So me and my bf broke up almost 3 weeks ago and I'm pregnant with his baby..We was in a relationship for 7 years. You can read my other questions to get the whole story. Anyhow..My old friend has asked me to marry him..he has been liking me more than a friend for a extremely long time but I never pursued anything because I am in love with my ex. He doesn't seem to understand why I can't be with him right now..But I do love that he cares so much..I'm not leading him but I do like the attention because I am lonely I guess. Would it be too soon to start another relationship? I told him that I don't think it would be fair to him. I'm not ready to jump into something else but I don't really know what more I can tell him to try and get him to stop trying...Any advice? I still want to be with my ex. Alot of history there! Thanks!

2007-02-17 14:09:30 · 2 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You find a purse containing 8000 dollars. The purse also has a visiting card wherein the name of the owner of purse has been given. You go to his house and hand him over the purse. The person is very pleased and draws a note of 1000 dollars from purse and asks you to accept it for your honesty.

What would you do in this situation?

Would you accept that note?

What would be your reaction?

2007-02-17 14:08:55 · 24 answers · asked by Paresh P 1 in Singles & Dating

he's from Nagkarlan, Laguna Philippines

2007-02-17 14:08:14 · 2 answers · asked by g_ g_g 1 in Friends

Ok. I got in a fight with my girlfriend. and she want out with her friends and want to a party and smoked weed. And i dont condone use of drugs. but she use to somk weed and she had quit about 6months before we met and we have been to gather for 6months now. and she has not done any drugs that i know of in the past 6months we have been to gather. but her friend that she hangs out with all time dose drugs all the time. and her friend was the one that got her high.

And i told her from the start if i ever started using drugs again that i would leaver her. But she was the one that told me that she had gotin high. with her friend who is regular drug user.
so i told her if she would stop hanging out with her friend that dose drngs and never us drugs again that i would stay with her. so what i am asking is if it was right to tell her to stop hang out with her friend? or should i be making her chorse between me and her friend?

2007-02-17 14:07:46 · 5 answers · asked by that guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a 39 y/o guy for 3+ months. While at his house I found a biopsy report lying on his floor, in plain sight with another paper only covering up half of it. (I was not snooping) It was for a brain tumor that he had been diagnosed with 3 years ago, with results showing the type of tumor that has the tendency to grow back within three to five years.

He is a very emotional and sensitive guy, which is very understandable given his situation.

Do I act like I don't know? Should I tell him that I saw the report? Do you suppose he left it there so that I would find it. I would have to believe he wonders about how to tell me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

2007-02-17 14:06:38 · 17 answers · asked by cptkmwallman 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 14:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by Agent K 2 in Weddings

Okay,so my boyfriend is a really sweet guy, and I love him.
There is a slight problem.
I like his ex.
What should I do?
Break up with him for the other guy?
I don't wanna hurt him, and I love him ALOT.

2007-02-17 14:06:25 · 6 answers · asked by EhhEsthetic 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex have a few mutual friends and he acts a little weird when I'm around. I try to have a good time with our friends but he dosn't really get into conversations that I start. And he dosn't really start any conversations when I'm around. He is some what avoiding me and it's a bit annoying. I'll be doing somthing and sometimes look in his direction to notice that he is looking at me which I find odd. For a while I was trying to talk to him and be friendly but it didn't seem to do much good since he didn't seem intrested in talking to me. After we broke up he said we would still be friends but we never really talk anymore. Sometimes he'll say or do somthing funny and I'll laugh and he just looks at me funny. I really want to be his friend since theres really no way around not being around him. As long as his friends are my friends I can't completly avoid him. Why can't he just act normal around me? It's been a little over a month since we broke up.

2007-02-17 14:03:55 · 3 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked her out and she accepted the invite her husband works away,i know she liked me as a friend back then,but since our date i have not seen much of her i miss her very much ,do i try to contact her or let her go,i'm only lookin for friendship

2007-02-17 14:03:39 · 5 answers · asked by joe m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 14:02:44 · 13 answers · asked by Shelb-N-Ator [[H!ATD]] 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy that I met at a church retreat ,and we became really close during the week. After the camp we would occasionally email eachother. Then, when the follow up weekend of the camp happened a little while ago he would only talk to me when I would go and talk to him. Yet when I went and talked with him he flirted with me and basically just talked to me and not his friends. I don't get it. Does he like me? Or is he just a flirt?

2007-02-17 14:01:54 · 13 answers · asked by twinkles_starlight 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 14:01:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me? what should i do?

2007-02-17 14:01:47 · 10 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 14:00:15 · 4 answers · asked by sharigreen0000 1 in Singles & Dating