hey guys ...here is the thing...i'm a 19 years old girl who lives in a middle eastren country and once i was online and i've chatted with this guy who is from another middle eastren county infact his country is next to mine...any way we started as friends and weird stuff have happened...u may not belive it but he is like my soul mate.evrything happens with him happens withme evrything he like i like @the beginingit was sofreaking weird and it's still weird till now..any way wewerefriend only but after 2 months he told me that he is in love with me ...and i've been hiding my feelings till i know what's his feelings...so i was glad that he told me that...and things got better and better..i talked to him over the phone ..and i saw him cuz i've been in his country twice....we r both muslim and we want this relationship to end by marrage...but the thing is that i'm not sure if my dad is gonna agree cuz he is from a diff culture and diff colore..i'm ok with all that but what about my family.
2007-02-17 14:16:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They'll just have to deal with it.
2007-02-17 14:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be sure and try to talk more and know more this person that you have call a "Soulmate"..... Do you know someone in your country that can made you the way he feels.....
Love is a giant word , means alot of things, in love there are no type of culture of color, in love only exist what you feel for that person, the other stuff are material in life.
Just think this, have you ever going to meet someone that makes you feel like a "Soulmate"????
Do you really choose which person can be a soulmate , because there are a lot of "Soulmates walking around the world, the only thing is that sometimes the so called "Soulmates" are in other places or in the same place.
If you really like this person, well culture doesn't matter , Love does.....
But if not, keep looking because in can assure you that in your country there a lot of people you will have in common and have the same feeling that you have for this guy
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-17 14:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what your family thinks. do what you are going to do and don't let them ruin your chance at a good relationship. they will get over it and begin to accept you both. if not, then you don't need them anyway. it's hard but they will learn to accept you when they see you are serious about this. it may take a long time but it will happen.
2007-02-17 14:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your family a chance to get to know him. hopefully they will take the chance to get to know him. I live in the US so I'm not sure about your families beliefs, but I'm sure they are reasonable and they should be given a chance.
2007-02-17 14:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by rainhawk2101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a really hard decision because you are muslim i kno how strict your family must be about this but their not the ones marrying him i kno that they want u to marry good so u have a good life but dont let them make your decisions for u...u are 19 yrs old your old enough to kno wat u want in life and if your happy they should be happy for u and let u make your own life decisions
2007-02-17 14:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by gata_lcn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be good if you can get your guy to meet your parents and let your parents know how much he matters for you!II hope that'll help..good luck!
2007-02-17 14:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Remus L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i think that you need to talk to your parents about being with different races. like just bring up the subject one day and see their reaction and feedback.
2007-02-17 14:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by RARE GEM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your dad first and formost. do what feels right in your heart
2007-02-17 14:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by smoovkay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents, im sure they will understand..
2007-02-17 14:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by 1XPLCT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋