I've been asking alot of questions I know! I'm sorry but this is really helping me by getting advice. So me and my bf broke up almost 3 weeks ago and I'm pregnant with his baby..We was in a relationship for 7 years. You can read my other questions to get the whole story. Anyhow..My old friend has asked me to marry him..he has been liking me more than a friend for a extremely long time but I never pursued anything because I am in love with my ex. He doesn't seem to understand why I can't be with him right now..But I do love that he cares so much..I'm not leading him but I do like the attention because I am lonely I guess. Would it be too soon to start another relationship? I told him that I don't think it would be fair to him. I'm not ready to jump into something else but I don't really know what more I can tell him to try and get him to stop trying...Any advice? I still want to be with my ex. Alot of history there! Thanks!
2007-02-17 14:09:30 · 2 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also..we was engaged, had the wedding planned basically. Got together at a young age. We are only 22 and 23.
2007-02-17 14:12:57 · update #1
Slow down, girl. Slow way down. Listen carefully to the beating little heart in your stomach, imagine the day he is born and you will get to hold him in your arms. You will love this baby with all of your heart, you will want to raise it and support it and make sure he or she is happy and healthy and has a good chance in life. The soap opera needs to stop, and it needs to stop immediately...your child will be helpless and innocent and will need stability and if you play rotating dads in its first few months and years of its life, it will drain you and create a foundation of chaos for your child. Tell everyone to back off NOW, give you room for the birth and all of the complications after, and maybe later you can sort the mess out.
2007-02-17 14:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paul is so right!
To add to it...being young isn't an excuse. I am 23 and have been married for 8 years! YES 8 YEARS!!! I lived with a grandparent who became unable to care for my siblings or myself. I married my bf of only 11 months and we now have 3 beautiful daughters. It is extremely hard at times.
I don't think you need to get into another relationship, although I do understand how lonely it can get.
Take some time for yourself and your child. It will be worth it in the end.
2007-02-17 23:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by danielleyoung1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋