Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

2007-02-17 14:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by Help me 1 in Singles & Dating

but she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now,she subconciously flirts with every guy at school.She says she does that with her best friends without knowing.We have been really good friends for about 4 months. She said if she ever hurt me it would ruin our friendship.Apperently her last bf hurt her pretty badly and she didnt want to risk anything but 2 months ago i told her that i liked her and she said that she kinda liked me but didnt want anything right now. 5 days ago when we talked about her flirting problem she asked if i liked her and i said yes. Her answer was that she was just confused right now. So i dont know what to do,she is really cool and i like her alot but i dont understand what the problem is.She says she likes me and then she says she doesn't want a relationship and then she says she is confused.Should i try to be friends with her even though i will always like her or just move on?I dont think i can just be friends with her.We talk about 2 to 3 hours a day.

2007-02-17 13:59:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard that this happens. How can this be?

2007-02-17 13:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so this guy use to flirt with me and stare at me and look into my eyes and everytime a guy liked me he would make dure that i didnt like that guy. and just pretty much everything he did in front of me showed that he liked me! but he slept with this other girl and he asked her out and hes been ignoring me but he still looks at me and he started to joke around with me again but other than that he ignores me and even though he asked her out shes one of my friends and i know there not dating. what do yall think he is doing and what do yall think i should do?

2007-02-17 13:58:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so here is the story. When I first got to college I met a wonderful girl. She didn tell me she a boyfriend until I asked her out bout 2 weeks later. She apparently had a boyfriend but they lived n differnt cities. So she said that we just should be friends. I didn't hav a problem wit that so we were just friends. I like her alot and she knows that. She likes me 2 but doesn't want to break up wit her boyfriend for me, which is completely understandable. We still spend a lot of time together. And I mean alot. We are like best friends or something. But last week, I told her that i couldn have lunch wit her cause I met a girl and we had a date. Ever since that day she has been acting real mean 2 me. She keeps sayin stuff like "Are u getting lucky this weekend" or "why aren't u wit lauren"(thats the new girl) I asked her if she was jealous or somethin and she admitted that she was because I wouldn have time for her anymore. Why is she behaving like this? its not we are in a relationship

2007-02-17 13:57:48 · 14 answers · asked by malcom1000 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 22 and still living at home.

Am a first year IT student at Uni.

No Job,sitting on several job applications atm.

No girlfriend, i cant seem to trust anyone, and that always leads to me becoming over bearing and insecure in the relationship.

Ever since leaving high school i have done nothing but make bad/stupid decisions,
(smoking copious amounts of marijuana on my own being at the top of the list, ditching all my real friends to play an online video game)
that have lead me to the mire I am in now and i cant help but feel it is too late to pick myself up and move on.

2007-02-17 13:57:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 49 years old married for 25 years but my hubby has a mistress. I am a boss in my lab. 2 years ago a 25 year old guy reported as a new scientist to my lab. He is very shy but intelligent. I found out that there is strong chemistry between us. I am not sure about him but from his reaction of staring at me quiet often and blushing everytime he met me I am sure the feeling is mutual. He would find an excuse to be near me everytime we discuss about something and sometimes our hands touched each other Our eyes always locked together whenever we talk and I always have this unbearable pain in my chest and life suddenly become meaningless when he was not around. I have send a message to him saying that I miss him and he is always in my mind but he never replied. I felt very ashamed of myself and avoid him for a few weeks and things become as usual after that. Now I am not sure whether it is lust or love on his side and should I confront him?

2007-02-17 13:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by Lavender 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 13:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by roadrunner_13 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 13:56:06 · 16 answers · asked by minkie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in San Antonio Texas and I am getting married in October and I need help

2007-02-17 13:55:48 · 4 answers · asked by bright eyes 1 in Weddings

im a 25 y o lad who got raped by a guy at a young age , i hid from the world didnt want 2 leave my room didnt wanna sit in the lounge with my folks (i will just add it wasnt a family member), things reallty started going down hill after that at the age of 14 i stole hundreds from my folks makin my mum close this shop she use 2 have, turned to drugs then started doin gas an glue and become the most horribilist person ever i argued with my parent said loadsa stuff dont really wanna get into it, tried commitin suicide 5 times through my problems in the space of 5 years my folks aged 30 + years, the thing is ive grown up and changed in everyway possible aint done drugs in 6 years im a manager of somewhere, and become the best person ever but my parents dont know this person they know ive changed and grown up but i stil live in my room and im scared there gettin old an i dont know how to tell them i love them an thankyou and get to know them b4 its 2 late i want them to die proud of me

2007-02-17 13:55:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This girl and I both like eachother and she just broke up with her boyfriend a few days ago. So how long should I wait? A few weeks?

2007-02-17 13:54:54 · 14 answers · asked by takeiteasybrah 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is starting a floral business and is doing her first wedding. She needs something to organize all of her samples of color, material, sketches, lists, dates and times, etc.....what do florists typically use.

2007-02-17 13:54:50 · 2 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Weddings

my father does everything for my nephew and his family-my nephew is using my moms car and he cant take his wife to work nor the kids to the babysitter,food shopping,he wont take h is family no where.he had my dad do it all.he dont even take care of maintence for the car,dad does.my mom died 5 months ago, and all he does is run them around.i said i would stay here to care for my dad but im at my end.it is really getting to me.my nephew has 3 kids 1 stays with wifes mom-the 3yrs old stays at dads most of the time-the baby is always at a sitters.they dont do anything for themselves-im a mom of 3 and no one helped me at all-my boys are teenagers now,i did it by myself with no help.he relys on my dad for everything-he has to be responsible for his own family!he needs to provide for them not everyone else.im thinking aobut leaving my dads house cuz i cant take it anymore-they use him and he lets them.my boys see this and wonder why he dont help anyone else like that.i just cant take no more.

2007-02-17 13:54:12 · 11 answers · asked by terry t 1 in Family

2007-02-17 13:53:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-17 13:52:41 · 36 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Friends

W're both girls. I have always had a bit of a crush on her, but never really thought about it too much because I knew nothing would come of it. But lately I have been getting the impression that she is interested, somehow. How can I be sure without making the relationship awkward?
Anyone ever experienced this?

P.s. Abuse will have no effect on me, just some relevant and useful comments please.

2007-02-17 13:51:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

tehre is this girl in my school i really like her, but she has been walking w/a good friend of mine.i dont she know that i liker though , but in our last class but lately she has been like u want a kiss and im like yea but i had crackesd lips so she said no.and she made me hold her hand really tight i dont know if she likes me but i really like her.

2007-02-17 13:50:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does this girl like me ???? what are signs that she would like me ???
i starting to like this girl. and im getting mixed signals like she asked me when me and friend are goin 2 chill wit her and her friend. well anyways this all started when 1 day i went to the doctor and ended up seeing her i didn't know that was her but she did look familar she kept looking at me the whole time. then when i told her i saw her she said remembered me and asked me why i didn't say hi. then later on i asked her what was up wit me and her and she said i dont know you tell me. she also told me she wasnt a virgin and kept asking me if i was. i would tell her she is sexy jus 2 see what she would say and she said she was ugly that way i can tell her she's beautiful. she asked me 2 transfer 2 her school. i know her friend likes my friend but why is she picking me to go with my friend to hang out. i asked her if she would be my valentine and if she would give me her number. she told me that she can't give away her phone number but she wanted mine. and then last night she starts telling me that she was mad and that she felt like nobody cared about her and that she didn't want live anymore. honestly i was really worried i wanted her to make her feel better so i would say something to cheer her up and she would laugh. is that a sign that she likes me ??? or think i care about her ????

PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!

2007-02-17 13:50:39 · 3 answers · asked by Ernesto V 1 in Singles & Dating

I like dis boy and dis girl likes him in my class.He likes her i think but she has a boyfriend and he noes it.She likes her boyfriend and the boy that I like sometimes I hate her.The boy that I like said dat he liked me 2 times i really do noe if he is lying or telling the truth. I really wanna noe if his feelings about me is true or not

2007-02-17 13:50:36 · 1 answers · asked by Stephanie G 2 in Friends

I like dis boy and dis girl likes him in my class.He likes her i think but she has a boyfriend and he noes it.She likes her boyfriend and the boy that I like sometimes I hate her.The boy that I like said dat he liked me 2 times i really do noe if he is lying or telling the truth. I really wanna noe if his feelings about me is true or not

2007-02-17 13:50:11 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie G 2 in Friends

I'm almost 14, and I'm in 8th grade. My boyfriend keeps asking me to have sex, but I keep saying no. He just won't give up! He keeps asking me over and over and over, etc. Should I give in? or should I just let him keep bugging me? We almost did once, but I chickened out last minute.Does that mean I'm afraid to? And if I am, is that weird, or unusual?

2007-02-17 13:49:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are the women prostitutes or just regular women looking for connections? Email me.

2007-02-17 13:49:26 · 8 answers · asked by Bart Simpson 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this a good poem or not?


~!*!~Friends till the end~!*!~

I will love you till the end
Cause you’re my best friend
No matter what happens today
Tomorrow I will love the same way
Through thick and thin, narrow and wide
You’ll always be in my life
Rumors spread may hurt us a bunch
But I love you so much
This is coming from my heart
Please don’t tear this apart


Is this a good poem? I just made it up cause of my ""friends"" they are mad at me, but i dont know why. But that dont matter right now. just is it a good poem?

2007-02-17 13:49:20 · 4 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Friends

Okay, well here's the scoop, me and my ex have been broken up for quite a few months now, and I've tried a lot to get over him. I am very involved in many activities, and am always trying to keep myself busy with friends, etc. Through all of this I STILL can't keep him out of my head! I have even tried to talk to other guys, but I just can't help it. Nothing seems to work!!!

2007-02-17 13:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by latina_magnet 1 in Singles & Dating

so this guy use to flirt with me and stare at me and look into my eyes and everytime a guy liked me he would make dure that i didnt like that guy. and just pretty much everything he did in front of me showed that he liked me! but he slept with this other girl and he asked her out and hes been ignoring me but he still looks at me and he started to joke around with me again but other than that he ignores me and even though he asked her out shes one of my friends and i know there not dating. what do yall think he is doing and what do yall think i should do?

2007-02-17 13:48:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even though *I* have been the one trying to stay in touch,they have kicked me out without explanation. I heard the quote secondhand "She is an expert in everything - except tact". So, I could tell them all to rack off, but I want to be better then that, as I value the friendship of one or two. So, how can I win back my popularity in this social circle?

2007-02-17 13:47:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is just a wut if question!!!!!!!!

just say u were under age and u screwed a guy a little older than u wood that be consiterd rape??? i am askin this question cuz my best friend dates alot of older guyz and she is under age i tell her dat they can be arrested for rape but she sayz " if you screw a guy that it is older than its not rape if u enjoy it and u told him u wood" Is that true or will they still get accused of rape even if we enjoyed it!

2007-02-17 13:47:43 · 21 answers · asked by ~*CALL ME*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is a very nice person but sometimes it seems like she is very selfish. She is always asking me to do things for her and she knows I don't have a job and she knows my schedule so I don't have excuses to say no to her. Her husband left for a month (out of town) she expected me to take her to and from work store babysitter etc. the whole month! She asked me the day after her husband left! She knew I would do it because she says "I'm a good friend and she says she can always count on me". She can't drive due to poor eye sight she had me up @ 5am driving her to work I stay up after that to get my kids off to school I swear I didn't sleep the whole month. She also never gave me a dime for gas..Tonite She asked me to babysit both their kids for a few hrs they've been gone for 4 hrs and she just called to say it'd be another hr!! I am done w/ so called "helping them" . I refuse to yell @ her bcuz I agreed to do everything she asked but how do I stop this nonsense, politely?

2007-02-17 13:47:42 · 5 answers · asked by Chrissy #1 4 in Friends

My hubby is well..... Lame. He refuses to help with anything around the house especially if it is something that requires heavy lifting, he says that i should be able to do it myself.
I want to leave him but he says he will take the kids if i leave and my father did that to me when i was young(took me from my mother) and never let me see her.
My hubby gets mad when things don't go his way and then blames the person(s) instead of himself. He has been unable to hold down a job, his longest job in the last 3yrs was 4 months.
I'm not sure what to do, i love him but i hate his empty threats and personally think he should see a shrink and that we both should see a marriage counsellor but he is unwilling.
What should i do???

2007-02-17 13:46:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce