I am a 49 years old married for 25 years but my hubby has a mistress. I am a boss in my lab. 2 years ago a 25 year old guy reported as a new scientist to my lab. He is very shy but intelligent. I found out that there is strong chemistry between us. I am not sure about him but from his reaction of staring at me quiet often and blushing everytime he met me I am sure the feeling is mutual. He would find an excuse to be near me everytime we discuss about something and sometimes our hands touched each other Our eyes always locked together whenever we talk and I always have this unbearable pain in my chest and life suddenly become meaningless when he was not around. I have send a message to him saying that I miss him and he is always in my mind but he never replied. I felt very ashamed of myself and avoid him for a few weeks and things become as usual after that. Now I am not sure whether it is lust or love on his side and should I confront him?
2007-02-17 13:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by Lavender 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are really really attracted to older women and thats a fact, me myself im 25 and when a see a older women i go nuts, why are you older women always soo hot......
2007-02-17 14:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Snake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say, it's lust. You are basing your feelings for this guy on chemistry and wishful thinking and not on actually knowing him (or really, anything about him). This is very likely because your marriage has a great big empty spot in it.
Good luck, and try to focus less on this guy and more on what you can do to feel better about your life without dragging another problem into it! Dump the cheating husband and live on your own for awhile to find out what you really want, but don't get involved with someone else as a means of fixing the emptiness.
2007-02-17 14:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by sparticle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the 15 year old's maturity level. I'm 16 and have always got along with older people (I'd hang with my cousins and company all the time and they're all 8 and 10 years older than me. They treated me as they would anyone else and even my strict parents didn't care. Things continue to be fine...) I was also always attracted to guys even well into their 30s so I can understand that bit. I recommend just hanging with her for awhile, on a date setting if you want, it's up to you, make out with her, etc. Just no sex, at least not until she's an older-16 year old. That's when most of that starts. Having a relationship isn't breaking the law so long as it isn't sexual :)
2016-05-24 00:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy toys are always so intriguing, especially when you have such an advantage over them. And nothing in comparison to the fact that it's a good case for sexual harassment. You're his boss, obviously you are educated and knowledgeable--WHAT ARE YOU THINKING!!
2007-02-17 14:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lust
2007-02-17 14:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Chels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LUST
2007-02-17 14:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by writer9393 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust . .
2007-02-17 14:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by 1XPLCT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋