2007-02-17 13:56:06 · 16 answers · asked by minkie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lust is just a thirst for love . The human mind always has an attraction for the unsee, unavailable next door or we can say mind has the tendency to crave for the unavailable. where is the journey to .. it is endless..
we want to have sex to be at peace but .. once you have illegal sex, you will get into some emotional bondage.. that means you have unknowingly, chemically and emotionally bound yourself to the other person .
Extramarital affair for an average individual leads to just sorrow and despair in future ..
The best part is to tame the mind.. understanding the root cause of the desire to have sex with another person. rather than unknowingly getting into trouble ..
You are lucky if you can do with the problem with the knowledge alone with out getting into the problems after experiencing..
it is said that some learn with knowledge itself and some need an experience ( a slap ) to learn. lucky are those who learn with knowledge, if not .. the nature goes on slapping untill we learn ..
Awareness is very imp in wat ever we do ..
Thank you ,
Donan
2007-02-17 15:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well well well, its upto you sweetheart, lust is alwys gonna be there in ur mind even if you say you dont! its gonna be there even if you get married, becz we always want those things which are attractive and you cant deny beauty!! Forgetting what you did in the past is not easy that can only happen when the person you sleep with goes far away from you or never meets you agn else that part is always gonna tease you every now and then...
And you can go for lust only in exceptional situations like when you are out of the country where you know none, or somebody from out of the country or city gets to feel you..
Otherwise its pretty difficult to enjoy lust with your decent life..
but make sure it doesnt become a habit....can be a addiction at times!!
All the best
Deeps
2007-02-18 00:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not go for a couple of nights of lust and forget..there are too many what if's that will happen. What if your spouse finds out? What if they decide to leave because of it? What if they decide to do it to you? What if a pregnancy comes out of the affair? What if the affair becomes more emotionally involved? This is a question with answers of disaster!
2007-02-17 14:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were so easy to just have an affair and just forget, cheating would not be a problem in marriage. We would just go from partner to partner enjoying ourselves and just forgetting about it after. My wife had an affair ten years ago. We will never forget it, because my wife shared herself in the most intimite way imaginable with another man. You just don't forget your lovers, they become a permanent part of your life and your memory and your thoughts. My advice: Play with the fantasy on your own.
2007-02-17 14:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think its always lust that takes u for an affair...well from my point of view yes its alright to go for a couple of days.
well i believe every person has his/her own thought about this ,it depends upon your society,culture etc.
am a divorce woman after my divorce,it has been a couple of times,i felt lust but never love again in m life.
i believe love is only once,not ever.
2007-02-17 21:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by terri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never works one doesn't forget, they usually end up falling in love with the person and than it always ends up with someone getting a broken heart. a couple of nights of love or lust will destroy your marriage for sure, or your conscience.
2007-02-17 15:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:)) The "love" you describe is basically "romance" person-friendly once you're dating, minimum commonplace jobs, no infants, the two have time, the two attempting to seduce the different. you are able to shop that throughout marriage. it quite is in simple terms maximum persons do not understand they basically wanted romance, not the certainty of a kin and marriage. the marriage purely will become tougher while honestly everyone seems to be watching for the "romance" to maintain itself up. The lust is for people who % neither dedication nor % romance. they only % to sleep with it on their words and time table. while they bore of it or if it starts feeling too very resembling a "dating" or worry they're going to be out of there.
2016-12-17 12:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy folks, love or lust whatever, it should be hot & steamy, next morning you will feel good.
2007-02-18 00:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by Neil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you did manage to forget you will probably wind up getting busted, it's called karma.
2007-02-17 13:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by t2ensie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust and forget u'll feel better in the morning !
2007-02-17 14:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋