2007-02-17 13:52:41 · 36 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you need to ask us, it¡s because you aren't ready for it cause inside, you don't feel like it's right.
2007-02-17 13:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by GN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think sex on the first date is fine. why waste time dating and falling love only to find out the other person has a totally different sex drive then you . the other person could be a prude in bed as well. i have had this happen was at the point of asking this woman to marry me then we had sex. i found that she was the type that just lays there and expected fire works.i suggested she get more involved but she was set in her ways and i knew enough about her to know that she would not change. i am so pleased i found all this out before i messed up and married her.
i of coarse dumped her the next week and i am glad of it.
2007-02-19 03:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set calendar for when to have sex. It depends on how you feel about that person or if you're just in it for your own reasons. Either way you will still have the final say just dont reduce it to a schedule because that will totally take the excitement out of it. Remember, anticipation makes it so much better.
2007-02-17 14:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by john s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you feel is right. I try to wait at least until the third date, or else sex seems to become the focus point of the relationship.
2007-02-17 13:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex shouldnt be a problem as long as its safe. As well if you knew the person for a while before going out with him and you know how the person really is then theres no harm as long as its safe. But if hes pretty much a stranger then I would say be careful.
2007-02-17 13:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like having sex without commitment then anytime is okay. If you want to know what a guy really thinks about you don't have sex with him. If he's in love with you he won't leave just because there's no sex.
2007-02-17 14:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't good to do until you're in a committed relationship that you see will be long term possible leading to marriage. That's what I think anyway.
2007-02-17 13:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If chemistry is there, 3rd date sounds good to me. If marriage is the ultimate goal, not only you need to know if you two are compatible emotionally, you need to know if you two are compatible sexually as well. The sooner you find out, the better. Good luck ;)
2007-02-17 18:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by C L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have Patience wait it wont hurt anything. Make sure it is for real not just a test to see how easy a person might be.
2007-02-17 14:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not the biggest date in a couples relationship, Marriage.
2007-02-17 13:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Who's Your Buddie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What about sex on the FIRST DATE??? thats always the best!!
2007-02-17 13:56:40 · answer #11 · answered by zanthus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋