me and my boy been to gether for 1 year i love him but just today i saw them makeing out. i called my friend and said did you see my boy freind today she said no and what do i do
2007-02-17 13:40:15 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Ashley ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dump them both, obviously they are not truly your friend/loved one if they are messing around behind your back.
If your man has enough balls to mess around with your best friend then it's a pretty sure bet he has done it before and WILL do it again.
If your best friend was a friend at all they would never try and get with your boyfriend behind your back. You also have to wonder if she has done this before.
So...my answer...is dump them both. Don't go all Jerry Springer on them or anything as that just knocks you down to their level and you are better then that. Just take out the trash and get rid of them. I know it's easier said then done, I know you're pissed and hurt. I know you probably want to strangle them both BUT they aren't worth it. You are better off without them, especially now that the bond of trust has been broken.
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2007-02-17 13:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥chelley♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, both of them aren't worth your time. You need to find a faithful boyfriend & a friend that you can trust.
I'd confront them both tomorrow (or today, whichever you prefer) & tell them you know exactly what happened. They can try to deny, but YOU saw it.
Your friend has already tried to lie to you about what went on between them, so you don't need a friend like that. Just confront them & tell them you know the truth.
Dump your boyfriend & find new friends. He's replaceable & so is she.
I hope everything works out okay. Good luck!
2007-02-17 13:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
purely say confident. you will hardly ever be devastated for existence if it does not artwork out. you have have been given a minimum of 20-30, if not greater, boyfriends to bypass via earlier you're an person and in a position to calm down with one. purely rejoice with your little ones for what it relatively is and don't take any of the lads too heavily.
2016-10-15 21:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all honey, you do not have a best friend or a boyfriend. Get rid of both of them. Life is hard enough without surrounding yourself with people that lie and cheat on you.
2007-02-17 14:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both to F.O. and find a new boyfriend and new best friend or play along and pretend that everything is cool and then get revenge!! Go make out with his best friend and when she finds a boyfriend make out with him!!
2007-02-17 13:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by cweetepye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a sensitive one, esp for another female to address. My best advice to you: have a serious talk with your guy and ask where does things stand with you two. You say that you love him, ok you need to know if the feeling is mutual. Good Luck.
2007-02-17 13:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by metroarea23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to see the light You are not the her best friend or she would not have done this And he will do it again
Find new best friends
2007-02-17 13:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by aaricka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them both, what they've done to you is unforgivable almost. but first hear both sides of the story, there might be some things you dont know about, but either way they acted selfish, you do deserve BETTER! good luck
2007-02-17 13:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ari J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you saw her doing that. And that you don't like it. Don't be too hard but tell her point blank, you can't do that and threaten your friendship if you want her off your boyfriend. But i don't suggest to do that just sit her down to talk
2007-02-17 13:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, that is not a friend.
Who does that to a friend. And that boy appears to be community property. Dump his butt!
2007-02-17 13:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by texaslady73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋