What is his problem?
ok im im 14 and a freshman in high school and ive met this sophmore in one of my classes about a month ago hes reeeally cute and sweet when hes just w/ me but when his friends are around hes more bad boy which i think is pretty normal.he even calls me tay tay . he comes to sit by me all the time and holds my hand and gives me massages and hugs me all the time!
and all of a sudden the other day he was ignoring me and saying stuff like y dont u tell someone who actually cares......and yes his friends were around. im pretty sure he likes me but he has a girlfriend.....my question is why was he acting that way?! i dont think i did anything wrong to make him mad at me!?!? what should i do? should i just ignore it?
2007-02-17 13:36:20 · 13 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg i never even thought of that...the reason he acts like that around his friends is b/c they kno he has a gf and they talk to her
2007-02-17 14:18:45 · update #1
Im probably going to be harsh but realistic. He is a dumb sophmore where to him his social status is everything. It's the age in his life when he think every guy is suppose to be all about sex and no feelings. And if he does have a girlfriend then forget about it,. Your only lowering yourself as a girl and your standard. He might flirt with you and show you attention what makes you so sure he doesnt flirt with other girls when your not around. Respect yourself as a woman and don't let him treat you like that,. Ignore him for a bit and do what he does to you but in a sneaky and MATURE way (dont be 14 about it) You'll see he'll be at your heels at no time. Its not how he sees you that makes you matter its how you respect and see yourself a person (Thats when others will see you) Good Luck....
2007-02-17 13:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dasha P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It surely isn't the correct choice. Boy 1 goes to an extra school which complicates everything. And the entire point of asking him to the dance used to be to have anyone to go with. If it does not suppose correct, tell him how you feel, and possibly that you just rushed into matters too fast. Undoubtedly boy 2 is far better. And i'm sure if he acts like that round you, he customarily has robust feelings for you and is having an interior conflict with himself between you and his girlfriend. Have hope with him! But do not come to be too attached when you consider that he obviously can not detach himself from his female friend, that means he doesn't feel TOO robust about you. Maintain your choices open and dump number one.
2016-08-10 16:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It of course isn't the main appropriate decision. Boy a million is going to a diverse college which complicates each little thing. And the full component of asking him to the dance became into to have somebody to bypass with. If it does not experience top, tell him the type you experience, and probably which you rushed into issues too rapid. of course boy 2 is a techniques greater valuable. and that i'm advantageous if he acts like that around you, he in all probability has good emotions for you and is having an inner conflict with himself between you and his female buddy. Have wish with him! yet do no longer develop into too related considering the fact that he of course can not detach himself from his female buddy, meaning he does not experience TOO good approximately you. save your concepts open and sell off type one.
2016-11-23 15:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should not onli ignore him but forget about him altogether...he seems immature and prolly just was talking to you because he wanted to have some "fun" get my drift. you need to find someone that is going to be the same everyday not one person one second and another person another. also i think that you finding out that he has a girlfriend was a major sign. girl move on there will be plenty more that are going to be intereted TRUST. you seem like a mature girl and you don't need nobody to get in the way of that.
2007-02-17 14:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by RARE GEM 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, first of all, it's always a bad idea to get involved with anyone who already has a boyfriend/girlfriend. it really doesn't matter that he's playful with you sometimes, because he's definitely an *** to you when his friends around. the reason for that is probably because his friends probably know he has a girlfriend and he's not going to seriously be playful with another girl in front of them. in any case, he's definitely not serious about you. even if he likes you, do you really want to be with a guy who is flirtatiousl w/ other girls when you're not around? because that's what he's doing to your girlfriend.
you should forget about him. find someone who's single, and a lot nicer.
2007-02-17 13:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by peaches87 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him why he is acting like that. Ask him " Are you not happy with me?" or " What can I do to make you happy?" Say if there is someone else let me know. He should understand what your trying to say to him. He might be uninterested in someone younger than him too. Tell him point blank how you feel. Hope for the best
2007-02-17 13:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl jus walk away!!! if u think he likes u then fine thas his loss but dont sit around and wait for him and put up with his crap he is playin u if he really like u he would have left his girl for u...if he treats u like that around his friends then obviously he doesnt respect u and talks about u behind you back to me it sounds like he is jus tryin to get u give it up to him and if u do then he's gonna go around and tell all his friends thas all he wants i wish u could see that cuz any guy who is gonna be sweet and hold your hand and sit by you and hugs u is trying to get physical with u and later he will try to touch u and when he does then you will kno wat he wanted all along my best advice is to forget him and ignore him for good cuz if u dont u will regret it hun try and go out with someone who is in your grade there will be less drama that way
2007-02-17 13:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by gata_lcn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's obviously not very faithful to his current girlfriend, is this really the kind of guy you want to be with? plus, never go for a guy who doesn't treat you like you deserve to be treated, all the time. and don't put up with any stupid mind games, they just make things difficult and annoying.
2007-02-17 13:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie jean 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!! play him like he played wit you he kinda use u i guezz he opened his eyes and realized that the guh hes wit is not for him dat ur for him but he probably lubbs the other guha nd decides to forget about chu. or the other guh caugght chall huggin and told him to stop and stuff idk mah point is play him back when he starts ignor hima nd say tell sumone who actually cares and yuh infront of his friens
2007-02-17 13:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by crazy4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know, number one, he has a girl friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
please tell me you were not actually concidering being with him. if he acts this way when he already has a girl friend, what makes you think he will change if he decideds to be with you. dont worry about him. and dont flirt with him either. he is not worth your time
2007-02-17 13:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by jiggamaboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋