Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

I had a gf from the town about 8 miles away. I kinda knew who she was and pretty much her name only. Then after we played them for football this year(huge rivalry game) and we lost in what i thought was a hard fought game that i put into it. Then as we were walking back to the bus i wasnt around a lot of teammates and she said hey good game. then when i got home she called me and we started to talk more and more. So we knew each other for about a month then she really started to like me. So we went out for about like a month and she had second thoughts because she said "i didnt know u well enought yet". I found out that she was a "guy hopper". SHe still wants to be friends from what she claims and she was the best gf i had thus far. So i try to talk to her still and be friends but she kinda ignores and doesnt really talk to me like she used to. I have been giving her space to think about it but if she tells u the reason why she wanted to split is it usually the truth and does she seem

2007-02-14 10:18:01 · 1 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy for six months. At the beginning we had a great time. We did all of the things together that I have enjoyed doing since I was a teenager..car shows, motorcycle riding, rock concerts, etc. I was just getting out of a 4 year relationship when I met this new guy.. I feel like I am being smothered. I have tried to back peddle in the relationship but now he claims to be in love with me and wants us to begin working toward marriage. I don't want any of this and wish we could "go back" to the first 3 months of the relationship and not be so serious. I don't think this is possible but now I have a love sick puppy on my hands and don't want to hurt his feelings. It has come to the point where I am trying to avoid him..which causes more problems.

2007-02-14 10:17:49 · 12 answers · asked by coopta85 1 in Singles & Dating

If you met, and had fun, would you be willing to be friends? Open to more? (Full disclosure - she is me).

2007-02-14 10:17:39 · 8 answers · asked by confused (again) 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I dat a guy who is 11 years older than me? He is 31. Somtimes I dont know what to tak about. I dont want to go on and on about makeup and hair and stupid petty things all the time and somtimes I get confused about what signals Im setting out. I know he likes me so thats not the question. the question is Im 20 and He is 31 so what signals should I be sending out? How do I send those signals out? and what should I be talking about and saying? He wants to know more about me how do I let him know more too?

2007-02-14 10:17:14 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i think this guy at my school likes me, but i'm still not sure. he always compliments me (he even said he liked my shoelaces once!), and he picks up my books when i drop them. and he always hugs me!! he's not a 'playa', either; in fact, i've never seen him hanging out with any other girls.
well, does he or doesn't he like me?

and if he does, what do i do to show him i like him back??

2007-02-14 10:16:52 · 15 answers · asked by splatterpunk 2 in Singles & Dating

We have these REALLY mean and Bad Neighboors. The twins that live there have beat up a girl who laughed while passing their house. Their younger brother just threathened me. Is there ANY way to get rid of them. I am Afraid for my Family and Friends.

2007-02-14 10:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by Roxane 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girl friend and I were supposed to go out to a get together at one of her friend's house that lives near my place. She was going to pick me up at 6:30 PM Today. She called at about 5:30, and says" Are you ready? Because plans have changed we are not going to the house I first thought, but to another home which I don't know the address, but I am supposed to follow someone else car. This other person is going to meet me in front of my work, and I'll follow her from there. Are you dressed? She asked. I answered : You told me 6:30 and I have not even taken a bath yet. Maybe another time, I said. OK she says, maybe at another time then....

I don't think plans involving several people can be changed at such short notice, and that she invited me at a spur of a moment, and later changed her mind. I didn't tell her this, because I am starting to declare her a conniving person due to other things she done in the past. This last thing, sort of add to the list... is she lying?

2007-02-14 10:16:29 · 7 answers · asked by carisondamove 2 in Friends

2007-02-14 10:15:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tall One 1 in Weddings

Is this a good valentine's day gift for my boyfriend?
I got him:
A polo shirt
Box of chocolates
A teddy bear and a card

2007-02-14 10:15:25 · 12 answers · asked by becca . 4 in Singles & Dating

My parent r very strict and this is my last year of middle skool and I need some tips 2 persuade them 2 letting me go.

2007-02-14 10:15:20 · 7 answers · asked by Cori S 1 in Family

my husband and i have been struggling in our marriage. we decided on marriage counseling. he never does what he says he will do but i scheduled it for 3pm today, i told my husband the appointment was for 2pm for fear he would purposely be late. he called me at 4:00 and said he tried but he couldnt get off work in time. he knew about the appointment for an entire week and we talked about it this morning. im tired of him throwing this marriage on the back burner. should i just let it go and accept his dumb excuses again?

2007-02-14 10:14:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have friend requests, I don't want to be mean and delete them. They look like a nice people but if they comment me, I don't know how to comment them since they don't look good.

2007-02-14 10:14:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We need to block some rooms for our wedding and I've never blocked any before. Are there any things to keep in mind to get a good rate? How many rooms will they let you block? Do you need to give some kind of committment on the number of rooms you'll actually use? Thanks for your help!

2007-02-14 10:13:55 · 5 answers · asked by slap_shot69 3 in Weddings

It seems like we take love for granted now-a-days. It seems that so many people are getting married so young and so quickly, having kids and then getting divorced within two to three years of saying "I Do". This leaves us ladies in a perdicament when we are trying to find Mr. Right...so where are the guys who haven't been married three times, who don't have any kids and who are the gentlemen we ladies want in our lives?

2007-02-14 10:13:52 · 4 answers · asked by dani lee 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been divorced for 3 years... we want to raise the kids together... does this sound stupid?

2007-02-14 10:13:04 · 21 answers · asked by Danielle D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whats the name of ur crush?

2007-02-14 10:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by Najet K 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 10:12:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know that the girl i like have a crush on someone else, and she said she's too shy to ask him out. She's a very sweet girl, she's really popular, and she's pretty also, i think she's asking for a guy that is above standard.............. I'm planing on asking her out. Do you think that i still have the chance?

2007-02-14 10:11:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel he is hiding something, and I do not feel safe when I look forward in our life.

2007-02-14 10:11:30 · 10 answers · asked by M M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you have planned for your significant other???
And if you don't have someone, what does everyone plan on doing?

Happy Valentines Day to all of you!!!! :) :) :)

2007-02-14 10:10:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems to me that girls are always complaining about headaches, and I'm not trying to hate on you ladies. I mean, I can understand you have to go trough that time of the month. That is understandable but, what's the reasons for the rest of the month. Lets see ther's Too much work, Can't find work, Not enough sleep, I slept too much, the kids, the boss, the co-worker, guys, school, the house, there is always some thing. I don't hear my guy friends complaining, I can't stand Bob he is such a jerk, I need some exedren. Or, I had SO much work to do today I have a migraine headache. And then ther's guys all-time favorite "Not tonight, I have a headache". So honestly help us understand, do you really get those many headaches, or is it a call for attention, affection, a way to get us of you back or to get a break.

2007-02-14 10:10:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 10:10:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy i saw about two years ago, and after a few occasions on being able to see him. i still don't know him. He's not an acquantence, nor a friend. But hes been on my mind ever since i first saw him. Theres only trully been one coincedince where ive spotted him looking at me. I don't know if i had something on my face, or because it was i was new, or there was someone behind me he liked. But he was definitly looking my way. Then theres the fact that he couldv'e been spying me too as he was playing on stage. He couldv'e but i don't know.
How do i become an acquaintence without being conspicious?
How do i figure he likes me without showing i like him back?

2007-02-14 10:10:22 · 2 answers · asked by shewholistens 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you alert someone such as the police or animal control if you knew someone or someone's kids or pets are being physically abused?

I probably would. It would bother my conscience if I did not, because I am a survivor of domestic abuse. No one should have to endure such crap!

2007-02-14 10:10:08 · 36 answers · asked by carledwards99andtonystewart20fan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know how to approach this problem of mine. I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 1/2 months, and I still can't seem to relax around her SOMETIMES. It is very strange. Most of the time, I don't know how to make conversation with her. I feel socially inept and insecure. I have basically no friends and I'm very introveted, so I don't have much of a life outside of my full time job and college courses. The thing about my gf is that a couple of weeks ago she said she loved me, and I could tell she meant it. She has a four year old daughter. I notice that my gf is more introverted and laughs less around me than others. I sometimes think that I bring her down. I also think that she is settling sometimes. You see, she has cerebral palsy, and I do things to help her out. I sometimes think that she might love me for the things I do rather than for me. She doesn't take advantage of me, and she is very independent. I just don't know what to make of our relationship. Advice, please?

2007-02-14 10:09:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do you do about a guy that keeps telling you that he loves you but has a girlfriend of 4 months? he says he doesnt love her and they barely hang out with eachother but today on V-day he bought her a dozen roses. what do u think about that?

2007-02-14 10:09:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The bed is conventional, and most comfortable for making love, for having sex call it what you will, i actually like throwing the mattress on the floor, or just use the floor, the table, the shower....whatever takes my fancy.....what place do you most enjoy having a little something something besides the bed?

2007-02-14 10:09:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a PFA (AKA restraining order) against the father of our unborn child. Due date is March 13th and I was not planning on putting him on the birth certificate but now am having second thoughts. When my daughter finds out that the father is blank on her birth certificate how would that feel at 8th or 9th grade whenever she would know and discover this? Also if I put him on the paper does that give him any rights could he just come to my house and take the baby or would he still ahve to take me to court to get any granted custody or visitation? Thank you

2007-02-14 10:08:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am 18 and wanna know what to do so i dont make a fool of myself

2007-02-14 10:08:34 · 7 answers · asked by legolas123568 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 10:08:27 · 9 answers · asked by Gordita de Oro 4 in Singles & Dating