i am 18 and wanna know what to do so i dont make a fool of myself
2007-02-14 10:08:34 · 7 answers · asked by legolas123568 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should first learn about sexually transmitted diseases and have some medical blood tests on both you and the girl. If you both have the same diseases or you both are disease free you won't get sick from each other. You both should also get your hepatitis B vaccinations and HPV vaccinations if you have not both had those or the disease already. Each of those vaccinations involves three shots given over a 6 month time period.
Then you should learn how to avoid getting pregnant and what the possibilities are if she gets pregnant and you should have a plan in mind that will work if she gets pregnant.
Once you have ruled out all the standard diseases such as Chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV, warts, crabs, HPV, herpes, hepatitis B, urinary tract infections, etc. and you know how to keep from having a baby then you are ready to start learning about how the mechanics work.
She has an opening between her legs you may already know about. You have a part that fits into that opening. When your part is sticking out and firm and her part is warm and wet it is time for you to put your part inside of hers slowly and gently until your part is all the way in side of hers. Then you pull out slowly but not all the way and push back in. This is basically all there is too it.
You can do this basic move with both of you laying down, both sitting up, laying on your sides, you on the bottom her on top or the other way. Both on your hands and knees. You standing with her laying on her back on the edge of something high enough to be at the right level. ETc ETc
You go in and out slowly until you both get really excited and climax together. You could use KY jelly for lubrication on you and in her. You should try to keep from climaxing for at least the first 15 minutes of in and out work. If you can go longer go as long as it takes before she is about to climax. She has a clitoris on the upper portion of her opening that is very important. That will need special attention from you and her to see that it is rubbed a lot. She also has a spot on the front inside wall of her vagina that needs special attention with some pressure and some rubbing. You both will be able to find it by trial and error based on what she knows about it and how it feels to her. If you can make sure these two areas or spots get massaged with a variety of pressures and rhythms that feel good to her, she will be very pleased and that should pay off big time in enjoyment for you.
You can also do oral sex which is using her mouth and tongue on your penis and your mouth and tongue on her vagina. Hands, fingers, and other items also are fun to use to rub with all over the different excitable areas on both of your bodies.
Once you both climax the first time you should relax for a few minutes and then start the warm up rubbing and kissing process from the beginning and work your selves up for another climax and then after that repeat every thing again until you both are totally exhausted. Then go to sleep and when you wake up start again.
2007-02-14 10:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's sort of true. I've had a string of Indian girlfriends and they were crazy in the sack. It's kind of taboo for Indian girls to have pre-marital sex but they crave sex. My Punjabi girlfriend gives my white ex-gf's a run for their money. It doesn't hurt that she knows the kamasutra inside out! The Anglo-Indian community is a result of the romance between British soldiers and Indian women. The term ''Eurasian'' was originally invented to describe the children born from those unions.
2016-05-23 23:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone is lying about their age... I don't think it's possible to be 18 and NOT know how to have sex... but anyway, you just take your time and kiss and touch her for a really long time until you both can't take it anymore and then you put your thing in her thing and go... make sure you wear a condom... and that's about it.. it's not hard to figure out, I mean there are 6 billion people in the world and I'm sure their parents didn't use yahoo answers to figure out how to have sex... people have been doing it forever, you'll figure it out on your own..
2007-02-14 10:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you are new here on the YA answers, and people don't know if you are serious. In case you are.... if you truly care for the girl, it will be such a pure and emotional act, that your natural instinct will tell you what to do. If she is someone you just hook up with, that same instinct will kick in... and she will be experienced and tell you exactly what she wants. You will not have the emotional high, but many guys like it that way.
2007-02-14 10:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i tell u,people will say this is bad,so ur on ur own,i dont wanna lose my reputation=D
2007-02-14 10:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sergio C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the r ear
2007-02-14 10:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by johnny holmes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
http://www.scarleteen.com/
SEX EDUCATION. Did they not teach you this in school?
2007-02-14 10:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋