I'm guessing you are young. Right? Well you did things that mature people do, so handle the situation like so. Sit your parents down - with your BF in the room - if your mom starts crying it's because she knows! Just tell them, don't give them an attitude and accept anything they tell you. If they love you they are going to be furious, but they are going to help you in whatever you need. Just remember not to take advantage of them, specially your mother, which in most cases is the weakest one when it comes to these situations.
Another thing: DON'T TAKE ANY ACTIONS (EX. ABORTION) WITHOUT TALKING TO YOUR MOTHER FIRST!
2007-02-14 12:52:00
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answered by ♥April♥ 2
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it really depends on how old you are. But if you are in your teens this can be tough for parents because they have so many other expectations of their little girl. But you have to be straight forward with them perferably in a room where it is just you guys and no one else and start off by saying (i am sorry) for possibly disapointing you but i am pregnant and i need your your support no matter what your decision may be. Just be humble and honest.
I have been there, and it will get better if let it out now
2007-02-14 10:28:49
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answered by life 1
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wait till your dad and mom are calm and only doing a familiar job like watching television or something, and tell them that you've made a mistake and that you wish you all can get with the help of it, that you particularly want them at the moment on your lifestyles ....**and then drop the P bomb* they could be more desirable bowled over than something. If accessible have a buddy be there once you tell them, that way in the adventure that they get indignant they received't hit you in the front of your buddy. anticipate duty on your moves and do not wait to inform them.
2016-11-03 11:26:45
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answered by ? 4
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if you plan to keep the baby then i suggest having a plan of how your gonna take care of this child and your future goals for yourself shold be together and the participation of the father of the child is very important. he should also be present during this talk. in fact all the parents! but just come out with it and tell them about your plans. no parent wants to hear that their child is pregnant. they think your life is over and that they will eventually be the ones taking care of the child. honesty is the best policy.
2007-02-14 10:37:31
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answered by Anonymous
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sit them down and tell them like an adult. you dont say how old you are. but i am asuuming you are young and that your parents dont know u have had sex. but the sooner you tell them the better off you will be. once they get over the inital fact i am sure your parents will be there for you. but i wouldnt procrastinate because your health and the wellness of the baby are very important and you will need your mom to look to for advice and stuff. tell them "i'm pregnant happy valentines day."
2007-02-14 10:20:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Just tell them. Dont say it with attitude, dont try to sugar coat it or beat around the bush. Just tel them. It would be better than them finding out from someone else or seeing that you're getting fatter(showing). In the long run...it's better to just tell them.
2007-02-14 10:20:15
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answered by so sophisticated 2
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They're going to find out eventually. I assume, as whiskeyflirt does, that you're underage. If they really love you, they're going to be very angry. Very angry, but still happier for your telling them then if you went it alone They'll want to help, and you'll need it, hon! This is the first of many serious decisions you'll have to make. All the best!
2007-02-14 10:27:18
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answered by Robin the Brave 2
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i was in the same situation, i just hadto bite the bullet and say i need to talk to you about something and when you use that line first they straight away know what you ar going to say.
i was scared but they where quite understanding and gave me all the support i needed. just tell them and get it over and done with.
2007-02-14 10:24:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Be up front and honest about it. They are likely to be in shock once they find out but it will be easier to talk to them if they hear it from you right away. Don't hesitate.
2007-02-14 10:34:22
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answered by Anonymous
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u sit them down and u tell them. make sure that your bf or hushband is there with you. everything will turn out ok. but dont hold back, it only makes it worse in the end.
2007-02-14 10:17:53
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answered by Anonymous
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