My girl friend and I were supposed to go out to a get together at one of her friend's house that lives near my place. She was going to pick me up at 6:30 PM Today. She called at about 5:30, and says" Are you ready? Because plans have changed we are not going to the house I first thought, but to another home which I don't know the address, but I am supposed to follow someone else car. This other person is going to meet me in front of my work, and I'll follow her from there. Are you dressed? She asked. I answered : You told me 6:30 and I have not even taken a bath yet. Maybe another time, I said. OK she says, maybe at another time then....
I don't think plans involving several people can be changed at such short notice, and that she invited me at a spur of a moment, and later changed her mind. I didn't tell her this, because I am starting to declare her a conniving person due to other things she done in the past. This last thing, sort of add to the list... is she lying?
2007-02-14 10:16:29 · 7 answers · asked by carisondamove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The only way to know if she was lying is to catch her at it. hard to do, not necessarily worth the trouble. I would take what she says with a grain of salt. You can do the same to her to show her how it feels, but that is not necessarily nice. Might help you discover how she really feels. Could also backfire. Another question, why couldn't she call you when she got there and you could come later. She seems to have put the other person, or the party ahead of you, in any case. So, I hope you have some other friends that are a little better to hang with.
2007-02-14 10:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now we really do not know if she was lieing, sometimes things do change at the last moment, and she might not of known, until she was told, then she called you and let you know, that can happen. I do not know what the other things are that makes you think that she lies to you, but you can always tell her you and her need to have a talk, and then you can address the things that you think that she might of been lieing to you about.
2007-02-14 18:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls do it, but not even other girls can tell. Confront her.
If the trust is not there, then neither the the relationship. To be in love is to trust that the other person truly feels the same way you do, and if love is not a big part of the relationship then something's wrong.
2007-02-14 18:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2007-02-14 18:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has done this kinda stuff in the past yes she is lying...
2007-02-14 18:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by lacyangl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares?she sounds awful flighty and doesn't care that you were there or not? very selfish an dnot a very good freind
2007-02-14 18:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know. if u cant trust her then tell her
2007-02-14 18:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋