Girls opinion please?

Question

I had a gf from the town about 8 miles away. I kinda knew who she was and pretty much her name only. Then after we played them for football this year(huge rivalry game) and we lost in what i thought was a hard fought game that i put into it. Then as we were walking back to the bus i wasnt around a lot of teammates and she said hey good game. then when i got home she called me and we started to talk more and more. So we knew each other for about a month then she really started to like me. So we went out for about like a month and she had second thoughts because she said "i didnt know u well enought yet". I found out that she was a "guy hopper". SHe still wants to be friends from what she claims and she was the best gf i had thus far. So i try to talk to her still and be friends but she kinda ignores and doesnt really talk to me like she used to. I have been giving her space to think about it but if she tells u the reason why she wanted to split is it usually the truth and does she seem

like a guy hopper or wat was she probably thinking at the time. And if we do get to know each other a little more do u think she would want to try dating again.

Answer 1

If she is the guy hopper that is sounds like she is, she will only go out with a guy to get him interested enough to want to date her, then pull the "just friends" routine to keep him on her hook to call up or go out with when her endeavors for a new conquest fail.

She may outgrow this, but it is likely to be a few years. But for now, she is only going to want what she thinks she can't have. If you are really interested in her, the only way to get her attention is to ignore her, tell her that you are enjoying your new found freedom when she does come around, talk about how hot other girls are and flirt with them in front of her. If she wants to go out with you again, tell her you are not ready to date exclusively.