Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

i really fancied this lad when i was 15-20 years old he said at the time he really liked me but i was to young for him so i started dating another lad but when i was 21 i was out one night and ended up having a 1 night stand with the lad i really fancied he told my b/f at the time but i for some strange reason begged him to forgive me and he did i have seen this lad a few times while on a night out he never speaks to me but i still really like him i think about him everyday and last night i dreamt about him so this morning i cannot get him out of my head my problem is i now have 2 kids and i am still with the same partner i dont love him what should i do?

2007-02-14 18:55:40 · 9 answers · asked by kara19831983 1 in Singles & Dating

The only time I have spent time with my grandparents is when I was younger and it has been a long time since I have seen them. This is due to the fact that I live very far from them and also there is a language barrier. I do my best to try to speak to them but nothing is accomplished other than the impersonal small talk. I regret not being able to be fluent in my native language, but now that I am older there are so many things going on in my life.

I know the time is soon when I will have to say goodbye, but how can I do this without even knowing them that well. I don't want to be regretting this for the rest of my life, knowing that I wasn't able to get to know my grandparents personally. I feel that I missed out on a lot in my life because of this, as I could have learned a lot from them. I am so confused, please help!

Thanks

2007-02-14 18:54:28 · 3 answers · asked by Vegas♠Bound 2 in Family

So me and this girl have been playing games with eachother forever. And I'm sick and tired of it. I havent called or tried to get into contact with her for weeks. I thought she would get the point but she doesn't. she still tries to get into contact with me by text and phone calls. So I wanna know how do i politely say I don't want to talk to you or see you anymore?

2007-02-14 18:54:21 · 9 answers · asked by takeiteasybrah 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 18:52:52 · 14 answers · asked by marincaligirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We are getting married on 4 August this year. It feels if he sits back and wait for everything to happen for him. My family pays for almost everything. His family doesn't have money. It bothers me because now he's got the habbit of not saving a cent... I got everything for the house, furniture, washing machine ext, so I asked him if he could buy our bed, and he says NO!!!! He doesn't want to pay for the weddingrings (which is according to the "wedding rules"), nothing. He is not even paying for the honeymoon. I am just scared that if I marry him, he will be as laydback as now! What is your opion on this, do you think he is ready?

2007-02-14 18:51:52 · 14 answers · asked by poepies 4 in Weddings

It's getting annoying, I don't want anything with him anymore. Im sick of playing games, so I just moved on. But now that I hardly make any eye contact, hes looking at me more, and trying to get close to me. Whats up with that, at first I would try talk to him and give him eye contact. But he ignored me now that Im not giving him that, he keeps trying to get my attention.

2007-02-14 18:51:38 · 8 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Singles & Dating

well im the youngest one in my family(i will be 18 in 2 months)..all my bros and siss are older than me ...my family especially mother call me (Cute)names like im 4yr child even infront of others sometimes and my gf...and shes allways worried when im out and keep calling checking if im ok...i feel like i cant be responsible for everything because the so sweet way they treat me i get everything i want and she even didnt want me get a job(i have a job)..what shall i do i just want them treat me my age im not a kid...

2007-02-14 18:50:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I had a 1 1/2 year relationship with a co-worker who is married. She made several promises to me about "us" but has yet to even act on them. She says she needs time but I have given her more than 8 months time. I feel used and angry...even bitter. Should I call her husband and inform him of our escapades? I feel...like she enjoyed her fun at my expense with no responsibility for her actions. Maybe I am just over reacting and should forget this. However, it bothers me for how I was treated and ignored of my needs. As much as I love her she never responds to my questions and just says, "I need more time"......I have written many letters and notes trying to see where I stand with her....and i get no answer. Help! What to do..........

2007-02-14 18:48:02 · 21 answers · asked by YcopyU 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you leave? What if you love this person and have a new born with them? Would it be worth it to stay? Or is this abuse just wrong, and unforgiveable? (All comments welcome) thank you!

2007-02-14 18:47:07 · 24 answers · asked by succubus_angel_666_777 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We are clinically advised that when a poisonous snake bites us,we should quickly fasten or make aknote just above the biten part to avoid the flow of poison itself.Now which part can u fasten if the snake bites u in the head
QUITE HUMOROUS ISN'T IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-14 18:43:21 · 2 answers · asked by Harry C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me having a boyfriend met him when i was 17 just about a month before i turned 18 he is 22 and i havnt told my parents that im gay yet my friends keep saying its "non of the business to know its ur life " sometimes i think yea i dont wanna tell them but i want to tell them? its confusing.... should i tell them or not?my bf says he can talk to them for me now that would be a disaster for sure im stuck should they really know who im attracted to? i dont know wat to day im out with my friends tho

2007-02-14 18:43:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

can i complete my studies?
will my boyfriend spend life happily after marriage?

2007-02-14 18:40:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are paying for our own wedding and the guest list is at 150 people (really can't make it any smaller) and we can't afford a huge bar tab. I was wondering if it would be tacky or rude to pay for beer and wine but not hard liquor for the reception. I was going to put something on the invitations to the effect of...Beer and wine provided, cocktails available. Any ideas?

2007-02-14 18:39:53 · 25 answers · asked by nd721 3 in Weddings

long story short,i had this best friend of mine for about 9 years,we became friends in the 6th grade,and ended the friendship as a sophmore in college,like 1 week ago.anyway 9th grade i spilled my guts, told her how i felt about her,i was sincere,i really loved her. but she said no,in a nice way.she jumped from boyfriend to bf, one jerk after another, they hit her, emotionally abandoned her, and only hurt her.i loved her so much and wanted her to be my world. i was her best friend so i got to bring her roses,and take her to movies and dinner,and spend time with her without having to make up excuses as to why.but she could never see how much i wanted her..she broke my heart,it hurt alot and it still does.i just wanted a chance to make her happy,because i can tell it's not a feeling she's used to.i brought up the idea occasionaly as the friendship went on.but still,no.i think mentally,i'm emotionally bankrupt,like i just give up,i believe i wasn't meant to be happy,i did my best & failed

2007-02-14 18:39:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it worth risking my marriage for the career I dreamed of before I met him? Or is it my ego getting in the way?

2007-02-14 18:38:58 · 11 answers · asked by I do 26.2 4 in Marriage & Divorce

after having our first baby we both started hating each other but we both love our baby a lot.

2007-02-14 18:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by Laksh 1 in Family

theres this guy in my chem class that i want to be better friends with, cuz hes the only one i really know it that class. hes kinda quiet. how shoul i get to know him better??? how should i bring up conversations?? were already sorta friends, but i want him to be the kind of friend u can call up and hang out with. helpp??

2007-02-14 18:37:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

already in a new relationship we were maried for 11 years and he cheated the hole time but i just cant seem to get back in the game please help me

2007-02-14 18:34:56 · 23 answers · asked by tina r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 18:33:32 · 17 answers · asked by CharlieC 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 18:32:19 · 13 answers · asked by CharlieC 3 in Singles & Dating

She's in college, helping out her family, saving her money, she's drug and alcohol free. no this is not her passion, just a way to get to her passion. She's beautiful. she doesn't go on stage or strip. she gives clean lap dances. oh she's 21 and she been dancing for 2 years.

2007-02-14 18:31:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend feel like i should listen to him more often. I do list to him but i don't agree on everything he say or what me to do. But he said I need to list to him and stop trying to tell him what happen back in the pass and now. All in All what i am saying is one is listen to him and doing what he want me to do is not going to happen like that because i don;t agree with everything what should i do about that?

2007-02-14 18:31:34 · 6 answers · asked by ALLYCAT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it could have just been an acident but i live there too, she knows this.

When i walked out of my room she was walking out of the bathroom in just a thong and her bra, she knew i was there. she just giggled and said oops im in my underwear and i giggled and she walked back to her bedroom.

and she always walks around with just a t-shirt and pantys underneath, but its a big t-shirt.

Is she just too lazy to get dressed, or just really comfortable showing her body off.Or is she trying to advertise the goods?which she shouldnt be doing cause thats my buddies girl.

its just kinda wierd.

2007-02-14 18:29:56 · 22 answers · asked by autonomous1980 1 in Singles & Dating

they think everyone is there to get them, to steal from them and to kill them, have you ever have to deal with one?

2007-02-14 18:26:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mentioned earlier that I dated this girl for 2-3months who basically dumped me and went back to her Ex. It hurt me. I told her that and try to show that she I wanted to move on and I dont want anything to do with her. I admit I have feelings for her. My questions is that why is sending me Instant messengers, when I'm participate in some kind of activity, she always end up doing the same thing. What should I do? I mean the reason I engaged myself in these activities was to avoid her and have nothing to do with her. It just happens the more I try to avoid her, the more she seems to appear arround me. What the hell is this?

2007-02-14 18:25:20 · 15 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

I did try my luck many times with limited success. East Indian girls seem to have this all-stuck-up close and loads of "attitude "problem. They've some inhibitions like "No, they don't like to be seen with a Guy for some people may spread rumors on them" - common I ain't here to do things without your permission- what is your problem with even meeting a person - and they play it so slow that you're dead by wasting a lot of time after them and nothin comes out of it - nothin comes to your hand.

The saving grace is I'm half-Indian myself (Mom Irish - Dad Indian) but sometimes I seem to wonder, if that is the basis of rejection for me? Do White guys stand a better chance?

I do see a few guys around with Indian girls but it's extremely rare - in fact, even Indian guys I talked with tell me they don't have this culture of dating in India - marriages are arranged by the families - based on how much money or status you have, the chances to stuck up with a prettier Indian woman

2007-02-14 18:24:26 · 5 answers · asked by quilm 3 in Singles & Dating

she text me today and called me a dumbass that always gets fired from my jobs. she asked that i get fired from my current job cuz getting fired is what im good at, she said. I text her back & i said, " they wont fire me at my present job because they only fire people who flunk out of junior college". In other words, I told her indirectly she flunked out of junior college, which is true. she never knew that i knew that, her family told me that once at a barbecue. that was the first time i stood up to her after years of being mentally abused and attacked by her for no reason. she has called me loser, stupid everything etc.. so i just got fed up.. DO U THINK it was a good burn? and she deserve it? she also told me my college degree was worthless many times and that i was a dumb loser....

2007-02-14 18:22:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why would any girl in her right mind hate V-Day?

2007-02-14 18:21:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He asked if I stopped by especially to see him.
I teased back "You're on to me!"
He asked what I meant. I said I was teasing.
I said I needed apples and Wal~Mart was out.
He said that made sense.
I really did go for apples.


Here's the question...
Is he "on to me"?
Or was his question wishful thinking on his part?
What do you think?

2007-02-14 18:21:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Crush,girl

2007-02-14 18:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by Th 1 in Singles & Dating