So me and this girl have been playing games with eachother forever. And I'm sick and tired of it. I havent called or tried to get into contact with her for weeks. I thought she would get the point but she doesn't. she still tries to get into contact with me by text and phone calls. So I wanna know how do i politely say I don't want to talk to you or see you anymore?
2007-02-14 18:54:21 · 9 answers · asked by takeiteasybrah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably thinks you're just playing hard to get. As far as she's concerned, this is just the next chapter. The irony is that the less interested you seem the more interested she'll be. If you believe that she'll accept what you tell her and back off, simply say that you want to do the considerate thing. Ask her to please not try to reach you any more. When she asks why, tell her that you've tired of the game and need to be left in peace to pursue a real relationship. She may have trouble letting go since you've abruptly changed the rules of engagement. After speaking with her, ignore her future attempts at communication. BTW, in all fairness to her, girls find early on that if they are honest about their feelings, guys run in the opposite direction, so some play hard to get because of that. Others are just teases. Can you tell the difference?
2007-02-14 19:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest! It's always the best answer. Tell the girl that you just don't feel that your relationship is good for either of you. Tell her you are not interested in continuing the games and don't think you guys have anything to offer each other. Yeah, it'll hurt, but that pretty well says, it's done. If she continues to try to reach you, you'll have to pull the blunt card and just tell her firmly, "I'm not interested. Do not contact me anymore." After knowing how you feel, why in the world would she want to pursue someone who doesn't want to be with her?!
Best of luck.
2007-02-14 19:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Chicka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just stop replying, then after a few days, tell her that youre really busy and don't really have the time to be texting, then just say sorry this way, she won't get hurt, and it's a nice way :) good luck :)
2016-05-24 01:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok that is so mean if she did that to u and u really liked her how would u feel and that is still kind of harsh if u say it in a nice way.but just walk to her and say i cant do this any more it will hurt her anyway it goes.sooo tell her!!!!
2007-02-14 19:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by tina1_94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her don't beat around the bush. Trust me it only makes it worst. Been there, done that.
2007-02-14 18:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousReese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way , just tell her directly, either polite nor impolite, it will still hurt her anyway.
2007-02-14 19:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkling pearl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty I don't think a polite way will help...sometime you have to be rude to be nice...just get it straight to the point...or are you not brave enough?
2007-02-14 19:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tanja S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's never a nice a way to say goodbye. just grow some balls and tell her you no longer want to see her.
2007-02-14 19:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start saying less and less to her everyday till she dissapears...
2007-02-14 18:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by burd p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋