me having a boyfriend met him when i was 17 just about a month before i turned 18 he is 22 and i havnt told my parents that im gay yet my friends keep saying its "non of the business to know its ur life " sometimes i think yea i dont wanna tell them but i want to tell them? its confusing.... should i tell them or not?my bf says he can talk to them for me now that would be a disaster for sure im stuck should they really know who im attracted to? i dont know wat to day im out with my friends tho
2007-02-14 18:43:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
they dont really know about me being gay dont thik they even suspect it my mom keeps talking about me getting marrieds someday and haveing kids which really pisses me off my dads very religious he could kick me out or somthing other crapp its scary!!!
2007-02-14 18:50:02 · update #1
the question , the most important question arises from this is are u depandant on them coz if they dont accept this you might be in a big mess then i would suggest you get depandant first then tell them. curtail your craving and limit your relationship timewise until u make a social status and become someone
one you are indepandant you can tell the whole world
2007-02-14 18:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by xxsanxx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents might already know. If I was gay I would tell my parents. It's your life and they should love you either way. I think it's more important to be with a good person who will make you happy. If your parents really love you they will want you to be happy and support you. You want to tell them so that means you must be close... Go for it. That way you can get it off your chest.
If I have a son and he is gay I will not be upset about it what so ever... not everyone has issues with it. It's your life to live. Why would your friends say it's none of their business? You would tell them about a girl friend... why not a boyfriend. Parents are here to stay. We owe them a lot. When everything goes wrong we can always go home to find love. Tell them.
2007-02-14 18:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by ~ tina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are going to find out sooner or later and it would be best if you told them, however only you know what they can handle...but here is some advice to test out how they might feel towards gays point out a famous gay person (elton john, etc) and say what great people they are and see how they react and depending on that make your decision to tell them or not.
2007-02-14 19:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some counseling from a psychologist or a counselor. It would be a mistake for your boyfriend to talk to your parents about it. Maybe you could get some family counseling after you saw the counselor by yourself a few times. Do it for yourself and your family.
2007-02-14 18:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by princeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can answer this for you because every situation is different. You know your parents and you know what they can handle. They probably already know anyway.
2007-02-14 18:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they will find out sooner or later..you can't change who you are and if your happy thats all that matters. if your parents are homophobic you might have a problem...chances are they already know
2007-02-14 18:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by feline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them ...they love you they will understand.
2007-02-14 18:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they might take it better if you're the pitcher not the catcher!
2007-02-14 18:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let someone else do this serious bidding for you,they your parents.
2007-02-14 18:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by parkituse j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋