Is it possible to have a stripper as a girlfriend?

Question

She's in college, helping out her family, saving her money, she's drug and alcohol free. no this is not her passion, just a way to get to her passion. She's beautiful. she doesn't go on stage or strip. she gives clean lap dances. oh she's 21 and she been dancing for 2 years.

Answer 1

Yes, it is possible to have a lap dancer as a girlfriend. Problem is there are so many boys/men who are intimidated by having a girlfriend who does sexual stuff with other men for a living, so the relationship pool is greatly reduced. There are many who would want to date this woman because she's beautiful, but would then want her to give up the stripping. A secure mature man is required I would think, who could get the lap dancing in perspective and not get all jealous about it.
The problem isn't the lap dancing, it's the insecure boys.

Answer 2

What the hell is a clean lap dance? I wouldn't have a girlfriend but If I were a dude, I certainly wouldn't date a girl that was gyrating all over every man she came in contact, at work anyway. I'm sick of that stripping to pay for college crap. When did stripper and Scholar become synonymous? I'm in college and so are friends/family of mine and none of us has ever taken our clothes off to pay for books(or anything else)!

Answer 3

If it's a straight relationship, then I would feel sorry for the boyfriend... imagine all those other guys putting their hands all over his girlfriend and wanting to sleep with her! Personally as a guy I'd have a heart attack from the jealousy I'd experience... and that would probably be after I kicked the asses of the guys that put their hands all over my woman!

Usually the guys that are cool with women flirting with other men are gay anyway... so maybe if the guy is bisexual then it might work?

If it's a lesbian relationship, I don't have a clue, sorry.

Answer 4

you're going about it the incorrect way. in case you want to purchase your self a stripper lady friend then you will opt to make a minimum of 6 figures. they are not lower priced as they could pull $one thousand funds a nighttime.

Answer 5

I wouldn't mind, personally. But most guys would be controlling and jealous. The truth is, you're sexually interacting with many men. What man wouldn't be jealous? However, if whenever the jealousy comes up you convince the guy he's the only one you're really into, then he should be happy. Good luck!

Answer 6

not your ideal candidate for a girlfriend in my opinion. but hey, if you don't care about your girlfriend getting hit on by other men all the time then go right for it. in my opinion just have fun with her for a while, but don't go looking to get married to this girl. i think she'll eventually drive you crazy. she's crazy for thinking that stripping will even lead to her passion. find another girl.

Answer 7

As long as you are willing to stay out of her business and not try to change her line of work.But as soon as you two start having problems you are going to blame it on her work and jealousy or lack of trust will end your friendship.

Answer 8

Yeah it's possible (since when were lap dances "clean")

Answer 9

maybe on ur death bed or if u r her pimp but if u r a normal guy jealous will kick in soon and u will be back to point zero but hey u never know till u try it may just be ur lucky day

Answer 10

if you can handle all the male attention she is getting and you don't have trust issues, it is possible. If you are not secure enough, it will be constant agony for you if you have a suspicous mind.