Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

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2007-02-07 03:59:33 · 19 answers · asked by Baby girl 101 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 sisters, and we we're all in my brother's wedding as bridesmaids. We've all been in my sister's wedding, as well as my brother. We've known the bride for a very long time, so she was able to accept us being in the party quite easily, which forced her to choose two of her friends as maids of honor. Her brothers and cousin are my brother's groomsmen, as well as my sister's husband, and two of his buddies are his best men. My boyfriend and I have discussed what we will do for our wedding, and this came across as a big issue. I want my brother in my wedding, supporting me. He doesn't really know my brother that well, and hasn't really had the chance to get to know him. He has a lot of good buddies that he'd like as his groomsmen- but some more than others. If he had the chance to get to know my brother (since we're not even engaged yet) would it be considered ok for me to expect him to allow my brother as his groomsmen? What would you do?

2007-02-07 03:58:59 · 11 answers · asked by arduA826 1 in Weddings

I have this friend, best friend ever, we've kinda had a serious relationship without being bf/gf, and so I'm kinda thinkin' of getting a "promise ring" to also officially "propose" for a bf/gf relationship. I got this solitare aquamarine ring, planning to do it on valentine's (she likes corny things =P) but I need to know if I can actually propose for bf/gf with a promise ring.

2007-02-07 03:58:56 · 7 answers · asked by allowmm 1 in Singles & Dating

So basically, ive been seeing this guy for 2 months, i met him at my old job. And hes just really cute and makes me laugh, trouble is now we're together hes a rubbish bf!!!Hes not got any drive, he doesnt even pretend to care about my interests he just plays computer games aalll the time. Also ive moved back home for work and i will only see him every 3 weeks or so, ive really given this a chance but i dont want the worry of it any more. I cant do the distance and i dont want to!
I want to do it over the phone only because im not going to see him for ages and i want out!
And yes i know its a week before valentines day which is terrible, but theres never a good time to dump someone.
Anyway tips would be great, do i tell him straight of on the phone or build up to it?
Thanking you!

2007-02-07 03:58:27 · 13 answers · asked by Spaced 1 in Singles & Dating

When someone says just call me (insert your boyfriends last name) this semester. does that mean they are engaged? just wondering.

2007-02-07 03:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by sarah s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

be anymore annoying than what you are today?

2007-02-07 03:58:14 · 10 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 03:58:02 · 9 answers · asked by kssteely 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I changed my hairstyle maybe two weeks ago and every since then I've been getting a ton of guys giving me compliments and asking me out! I used to wear it in different syles of pony tails that were really cute. But since the New Year I wear it exactly like the picture on my avatar and the response has been astinshing! I spray some glitter on it to make it look dazzling. My nieces boyfriend has been hitting on me and all of my friends & family have been saying how cute it makes me look. I'm very shocked because I didnt know I could attract that many guys until now. I've never had a problem getting a date, but now I'm almost scared! I had a guy trying to give me a ride home from work the other day. He just stood around in my department talking to me until my shift was up. My managers & male co-workers have been a whole lot nicer too.

It's men from all races and age ranges too. So this must be a universal thing. What gives?

2007-02-07 03:57:21 · 16 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok I am 24 and I am married to a 25 year old women. We have been married for 3 years. Lately, she has gone out with her friends on a continuious basis, she is rarely around on the weekends. I have a job that requires me to work over nights and on weekends(week at a time) I dont always work this i am on a rotational shift. We both know that we have grown apart and we don't have the same things in common anymore. Here is the story:
We have sex like once a month, she aways cares about what she looks like, thats cool with me but I see it getting worse. So we don't cuddle or kiss that much but we say that we love eachother. Also, she has a myspace and I saw some stuff a while back, she left it open and nothing pointed her to cheating. I don't know what to do, I love her and I feel that I am only getting worse. I feel like a jealous weirdo and I can't help it. I would be ok if she went out as long as she would give me my attention. I give her full attention, I hold her and take care of her

2007-02-07 03:56:54 · 11 answers · asked by sexyguy20175 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is moving to Ft Hood. She has two children, one who is autistic. She is looking for a safe place to live, good schools and fun things to do on the weekends with her children while her husband is deployed

2007-02-07 03:56:47 · 2 answers · asked by heartache 4 in Friends

ive never met this person in my waking life but I loved him so much , It was so real , I dream of this person often, His face is never the same but I know it is him. It is not a lustful dream , we dont even touch. He loves me unconditionally , he laughs when I do and is happy w/ me. I have to add that in real life I am happily married and I dont know why I dream of this person , He is not an older man or young boy, Just perfect, Well I am always sad after I wake , but my day always goes on as usual, Well for the first Time as i realized I was about to wake I told him I was sad to leave but I was going to wake up, I asked his name for the first time and he told me his name was Gabriel and I felt tears and also asked his last name , he also had tears w/ compassion towards me and said he did not know his last name and he was 23. I dont know if this is relevant at all, I am 29. I woke up a bit sad , But very peaceful and very loved.

2007-02-07 03:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by amihavasu6 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok well ive been with my boyfriend for awhile and everythings great but i hate when he starts talkn crap bout other females and their butts.It never really bothered me at first but now it does because its been a constant thing and it makes me feel like im not good enough and i really started thinking about ending it cuz i jus cant take it anymore.Ive told him before how it makes me feel and he did nothn but just go behind my back lookn at stuff i really didnt like.We got into a arguement and i just couldnt take it and told him how i feel.He either changes it because its startn to make me feel horrible like im not good enough which i know im well worth it.I knew at that point enough is enough so ladies and guys tell me what you think about it.

2007-02-07 03:56:30 · 18 answers · asked by boriqua_052005 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i get rid of a friend that uses me and is only hanging out with me until he can drive. i've tried to get rid of him before but its hard because when i try he gets mad and starts to spread rumors about me. also, when he hangs out with people he believes to be coolor than me he gets in a mood where all he does is say nasty things about me. it's vey hard to hang out with or talk to anyone else because he feels that his opinion of the person is the only one that matters. i dont have many people that i hang out with, and if i stop talking to him i will most likely have nothing to do. so yeah how do i get rid of him without him saying nasty things about me, and also how do i get new friends when i do get rid of him?

2007-02-07 03:56:09 · 11 answers · asked by llteeej 2 in Friends

I check my husbands e-mail, phone messages and incoming out/going calls. Not really because I distrust him (at least thats what I tell myself) but more like I want to know who he has been talking too. After I hack in to his e-mail or check his phone I feel so bad. I grew up in an environment where my dad was and still is a jealous freak. I swore I would never be like that and here I am doing the same thing in a miner way. I have no doubt in my mind that my husband would never ever cheat on me but yet I still check and frankly I cannot pin point exactly what I am looking for or not looking for. Any opinions on what is going on with me?

2007-02-07 03:56:04 · 15 answers · asked by Hotcakes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he just won't tell me how he feels. i need some reassurance to feel secure in the relationship. i've tried to talk to him about it. as in, i've told him he's not affectionate, and asked him why he likes me. but he can't seem to convey any sort of emotion. it really bugs me. should i stick around or move on?

2007-02-07 03:55:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found it ok but found sex strange to start with

2007-02-07 03:55:21 · 14 answers · asked by Paul T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean can u predict what is going on in her mind while u r talking with her?

2007-02-07 03:55:07 · 21 answers · asked by Reian 1 in Singles & Dating

Im talking to the adults, not the high schoolers.

2007-02-07 03:54:09 · 15 answers · asked by JusticeManEsq 5 in Family

2007-02-07 03:54:04 · 23 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to do something special for my husband, just because.

Would a man appreciate having flowers delivered to his Job?
I know us Women love it, but what about you guys, would this be a good surprise or not?

2007-02-07 03:54:00 · 25 answers · asked by Mommy of 3 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me 5 positive things about yourself.

If you think there aren't any, I can find at least one positive thing about you : you like to share and learn, that is why you are here!

Think positive, feel good!

2007-02-07 03:53:23 · 24 answers · asked by gumtrunk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

All my friends say that he likes me but is shy and thinks i don't like him because i'm older than he is.

2007-02-07 03:53:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is not as sleazy as it sounds..I met a married man on the net, a very religious married man and we became friends 8 yrs ago. We clciked immediately and spent a lot of times playing games online etc..and talking in Ims. we chatted on the phone a couple times but mainly talked online. I fell for him in a big way and he knew it and he fell for me too but we are both married so we kept it friends only. I would give him advice to help him in his marriage and he would do the same for me and both of s just wanted the other to be happy in our marriages. Things crashed around the same time for both of us in our marriages and we discussed meeting. before I met him we discussed the what if we fool around question...I was very worried that if we kissed or more he would regret it and we would not be friends anymore.he assured me that he would be fine with it even though I told him no sex because I know he would regret cheating on hsi wife so we werent going to do that and he said okay....Well

2007-02-07 03:52:05 · 11 answers · asked by Jenny T 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a recovering Alcaholic that has been sober for two years; all my life I have always settled for the first woman that came along or had sex with me
I have been dating a women for three years that has stood by me in my life. the problem is that I dont think I realy love her and she has two children of her own and i would like to have some of my own. I resently met a beautiful christian Italian women that lives in my area and wants to meet me. its possible we could be aperfect match. should I meet her and see what she is like? I am 38 years old and and now out of the fog of drugs and alcohol want to make the best of the rest of my life and not settle anymore. an I being selfish or am I thinking straight. one more thing I am divorsed from a women I had two children with she was abusive so I left her. she is angery about that so we are having a costudy battle over my two boys that I see every two weeks I just finaly got legal costody,with pending visatation. I feel robed of my child

2007-02-07 03:51:56 · 29 answers · asked by spanky 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance in interested in going on a cruise. I on the other hand am a little nervous due to watching to many shows on tv about cruises and bad things that happen on them. :P I'm interested on opinions from others and your experiences on a cruise, and which cruise you would recommend. Thanks!

2007-02-07 03:50:49 · 9 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

I AM IN LOVE WITH A GIRL WITH 5 YEARS ND WHEN I ASKED IF SHE LOVES ME OR NOT THEN SHE NODDED IN DISAPPROVAL AND SAID ME TO BE HER BEST FRIEND BUT FROM HER BEHAVIOUR I THINK SHE LOVES ME.sO PLEASE HELP ME AND SUGGEST SOME ADVICE

2007-02-07 03:50:48 · 16 answers · asked by ASK 1 in Singles & Dating

Navy Seal marriages and relationships have a 15% success rate. I want to be that 15%. I won't cheat. I will be lonely with my kitties or possibly children. I will be honored to be his gf/wife. I will support him in all that he does. I should do this right? I'm not crazy? We've only known each other for about 7 months, but knowing him and loving him just feels right. I told him that I loved him when I was drunk. This was the night before he left for San Diego. He doesn't want me to wait. What do I do? I don't want to move on at all. I look at other men and just get sick to my stomach. I'm depressed. I'm in love with the right man at the wrong time. He calls it, "**** Happens," and he told me that even though he thinks I shouldn't wait that he'll go against the odds with me, if that's what I want. HELP?! (Those of you who answered my other questions rudely are not welcome to answer this.)

2007-02-07 03:50:34 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with a girl for about a yr now and all the time I see her getting text from guys. She doesnt know I see them so when I say who was that she tells me it's one of her girlfriends.I have also seen pictures of nude men on her cell phone. Would you cosider this cheating ?

2007-02-07 03:50:34 · 41 answers · asked by AMP 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend and i have been friends for about ten years now but recently we've grown further apart. firstly, this guy liked me n i nearly went out with him but she started saying all these things about him to turn me off then a month later she started going out with him and now she will kiss him n hug him right in front of me plus when i tell her serious personal things she tells other people and then if i try to talk about certain things with her re:my dad she will make a joke about it. what should i do?

2007-02-07 03:48:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know it's during sex, but what is the real definition?

2007-02-07 03:48:10 · 17 answers · asked by Coche 4 in Singles & Dating