I have been with a girl for about a yr now and all the time I see her getting text from guys. She doesnt know I see them so when I say who was that she tells me it's one of her girlfriends.I have also seen pictures of nude men on her cell phone. Would you cosider this cheating ?
2007-02-07 03:50:34 · 41 answers · asked by AMP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oooooh, she is SO cheating on you!
2007-02-07 03:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by willie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This may not be cheating but she sure isn't truthful with you if she is telling you it is a girlfriend when you can see it is a male. Also nude pictures do NOT belong on a cell phone. Those things should be kept private are not something someone should be sending via a cell phone. Since she cannot seem to be honest with you about all of this I would consider finding a new girlfriend.
2007-02-07 03:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just talk to her. Maybe go some place where you know she can't just run off and brush this off, because something like this can make a realtionship really rocky. Just tell her that you're not comfortable with it, let her know how you feel about the relationship and also ask her how she thinks everything is going. Maybe you two can come to a compromise, if there's something she hates that you do, then give it up if she'll quit being dishonest with you. Otherwise, save yourself the stress and just get out of the relationship. Only juveniles from highschool have to do stuff like that- don't know your age, or hers, but if you choose to be in a commited relationship, then growing up is not an option.
2007-02-07 04:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is cheating. Cheating doesnt have to be physical. It can something as simple as sharing secrets and your gf has nude pictures. As far as you know, she's exchanging nude pictures.
I don't think it's worth breaking up over, and it can probably be worked out. Find out from her why she's doing it and don't be so passive. You have a right to tell her that you don't want her getting nude pictures of guys.
2007-02-07 03:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Text between friends is one thing but when you get nude pictures and have to lie to someone about the texts I'd chalk that up to cheating. Any time sexual content is spoken or passed between males and females it is cheating if not disclosed with the persons partner
2007-02-07 03:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, i caught my fiancee txt messaging a girl and he taught that i would never find out, but if your gut is telling you something then dont 2nd guess yourself, bc usually when u think something is up, then more likely she is up to something. Dont get me wrong we like talking to guys as friends, but if you are sneaky about talking to them in front of your bf/ or gf then something is up... The best advise i could tell you is ... Talk to her and be honest with her, let her know how u feel and if she shows that she does not care then no need to keep waisting ur time with some1 who has to lie and make excuses to talk to guys. Maybe u need to move on, but im not in your shoes and we only know half of the story. So good luck and wish you the best....
2007-02-07 04:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Faith23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The texting itself is not cheating. However, the context of the text is. Exchanging nude pictures is defiantly cheating. I consider cheating when a man or woman is finding sexual arousal outside his/her relationship, whether that be via e mail, telephone, in person, etc.
If she is finding sexual pleasure with another man via cell phone, there is something defiantly wrong with your current relationship and she owes it to you to evaluate her commitment to you. I say save the messages and confront her. Then confront the status of your relationship. You deserve someone who is going to respect you and your commitment you make to one person.
2007-02-07 03:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what those text messages say. If she's simply texting male friends, of course it's not cheating. There's no reason she should have pics of nude men on her phone though. That's strange.
2007-02-07 03:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if its only text.. but as for the nude pics I think it could lead to cheating. Have you asked her yet? I am sure you have girls you text to as well.. we all have friends of opposite sex and cant be told to leave them alone.. some friends may have been there before your relationship started.. but as for the nude pic.. ask her to remove and not received them anymore..... good luck
2007-02-07 03:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by ~~~Buffy~~~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The texts alone might not be cheating, depending on what they say, but it definitely points to cheating and may be evidence of other relationships. Be very suspicious- you already know that she lied to you by saying it was a girlfriend.
2007-02-07 03:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by moiralouise23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would . You deserve better than that. It seems you are more into the relationship than she is. Sit and have a talk with her, tell her what you have seen and that it upsets you, . It will be up to you to accept her explanation or walk away with head high.
2007-02-07 03:56:58 · answer #11 · answered by lucyshines49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋