Im talking to the adults, not the high schoolers.
2007-02-07 03:54:09 · 15 answers · asked by JusticeManEsq 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am 41,and my 47 year old sister has often been cruel;I do forgive her because life is too short to hold grudges.However...I keep my distance.
2007-02-07 03:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, nothing like these peeps and nothing that serious, really. My older brother does like to say some pretty crappy things to me from time to time, but I can usually brush it off. It's mostly the stuff that we did to each other when we were younger that both of us have a hard time forgiving each other for. My younger brother and sister are both gems, although there's probably something they are having trouble forgiving ME for, lol. :-)
2007-02-07 05:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother shoved me through a glass door in a fit of anger once. (I'm an adult, so is he) I had to get plastic surgery to minimize the scarring, but it will always be there. I had a difficult time forgiving him at first, but since I have I've felt a weight lifted off of me. Forgiveness is very liberating.
2007-02-07 04:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup. my brothers wife told my kid about her and my brothers sex life. the size of him and all. i got mad and confronted her. my brother got mad at me for it and said i was out of line and then next thing ya know his daughter cannot associate with my daughter anymore. they were close cousins and now they don't speak. its been 9 months since we spoke. we were close. he was living with me for a year after getting released from a 6 year stint when he met this interfereing witch. i did their wedding.did everything for them. because she is not a family person he does not see or talk to our family anymore. she made him choose between us and her. he chose her. he was in for drugs. 6 years got him clean and sober and she has gotten him to drink again. she says he needs it to calm down his stress level. she knows that alcohol was a danger for him. so yeah i am having a hard time forgiving. if he were to ever appologize i would accept it. even if he did not appologize but called or spoke to me again i would still accept it. i sent a xmas card but he claims i did not. 3 guesses at who probably intercepted it and tossed it without saying anything?
2007-02-07 04:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER. I find it hard to understand how people can not talk to their BROTHERS and SISTERS. For that matter any FAMILY member. Yet they find it easy to forgive someone who is not FAMILY. Go figure.
2007-02-07 04:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my brother seems to have forgotten all about me. I just found out that he has my burial (cremation, which I am against) planned--and I didn't hear that from him. He never talks to me--okay we live 2,500 miles apart--but he talks to a couple of my children. I'm disgusted with him after all of this time.
2007-02-07 04:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..my brother has prevented my niece and nephew from being a part of my son's and my life because of a decision that I had to make and didn't make it when he wanted me to. Oh its ridiculous too...over a ex... I keep my distance. Hopefully what comes around will go around and my niece/nephew will realize how much I love and miss them.
2007-02-07 04:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Rosemarie Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i was 19 i had sex with my husband brother me and my husband are still together. but he did not talk to his brother for 8 years .now they work together so i suggest you forgive and forget .
2007-02-07 03:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a sister I have not spoken to for three years. What she did to me was so underhanded and awful I can't even talk about it. I hope she rots in hell.
2007-02-07 03:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my sister had sex with my fiance and he called off the wedding and got together with her. her and i dont talk anymore
2007-02-07 03:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Callie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋